I am not, I am pointing out that you can stay away from others if you wish.
But of course you don't. You want others to do so so your life can continue as before.
Oh fuck off. You don’t have a fucking clue about my life. This is the second time I’ve been a carer for someone I love who is incredibly unwell. The first resulted in me becoming a widowed lone parent. Now I’m doing it all again, thankfully remarried so with some support, but nonetheless I’ve already sacrificed all social life, self care, income over the past 6 month.
Now there’s another risk to her life I’m self-isolating as much as I can alongside her, and spending hours every day trying to keep her entertained and with some quality of life.
But if tens of thousands of others of vulnerable people aren’t going to be put at risk then everyone needs to be careful. Cut out all unnecessary travel and interactions; check in on elderly neighbours to keep them from needing to go to the shop; stay at home if unwell in case it’s covid-19.
The country needs to be kept going and the vulnerable groups need to be really really careful, that is how it is.
Of course the country needs to be kept going. No-one disagrees with that. The disagreement is how best to do it - China took seemingly drastic steps in the short term but their population - and economy - look to be bouncing back already. Italy didn’t respond fast enough and now, with their hospitals full to bursting, have to take the drastic steps anyway.
I have a child sitting A levels this summer, and friends who are both GP’s with 5 school age kids - I can see the problems thrown up by closing schools. But every seriously affected country has had to do so, and their numbers infected haven’t lowered until they have.