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What happens with a child who needs to self isolate?

44 replies

SpruceTree · 04/03/2020 23:11

I have lots of questions and would appreciate the wisdom of the MN hive mind.

How would it work if your child needed to self isolate? Surely they can't be shut in their room on their own for 2 weeks? Would they be allowed to use the rest of the house?

What then happens to the rest of the family? Would the whole family then have to self isolate because the child was moving through the house?

What sort of age do you think a child could self isolate at home? I think it's very hard for a mature adult to cope in a room alone fur 2 weeks, let alone a young teenager.

What happens if both parents need to self isolate? Do they have to do this separately or can it be in the same bedroom? In the case if both parents self isolating, what do you do with the children? They can't be sent to the grandparents as elderly are more at risk.

Even if the children are a bit older (tweens/teenagers) and can cook meals it seems cruel to have the parents up in their rooms for 2 weeks with no contact.

Originally I thought self isolation meant just staying at home, but now I realise it means actually isolating yourself in one room within your home and I just can't see how it works with children.

DH and I were discussing the practicality of self isolation so we can plan how it might work.

Are people buying latex gloves/surgical masks to use at home if self isolation is needed or if a family member was ill with corona virus. I guess you would need the gloves to collect the isolated persons used plates etc.

Is it true that corona virus is a new type of SARS virus?

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picklebarrelfalls · 05/03/2020 11:50

It would absolutely be different for everyone, how you came by the virus etc. But if you had older kids and a new baby, I'd probably put the least likely carrier with the baby and the other parent with the kids and try to be separated. Like I said, probably futile but if you had a zero immunity newborn I'd be willing to take all the steps.

MrsStrangerThing · 05/03/2020 11:53

Bex, I think you have misunderstood my reply. I was responding to a poster who said each member of their family would take a room each and stay there, not crossing paths. I ma simply saying it makes no sense and realistically families will be isolating together, as a unit.

bellinisurge · 05/03/2020 11:53

I think a little one can't be expected to self isolate assuming there are no very elderly people also in the household . If there was a very elderly person I would be inclined to isolate them but making sure they are comfortable and have plenty to entertain themselves. And the child kept absolutely away from them. As decent a decontamination area as I could set up to protect them and make sure they knew how to use FaceTime etc.

Bexbug · 05/03/2020 14:07

@MrsStrangerThing I duly apologise. If it does actually happen which I hope to god it doesn’t I suspect the divorce rate may go up!

CadburyFlake · 05/03/2020 14:17

Or the subsequent birth rate !

MarieQueenofScots · 05/03/2020 14:20

There’s only me and DD here, we’d bunker down together!

MarieQueenofScots · 05/03/2020 14:20

*hunker

picklebarrelfalls · 05/03/2020 14:23

Or the subsequent birth rate

I've wondered this! The fact that a lot of people will be ill means that it should go down but then, the fact that a lot of people will be stuck indoors with nothing much to do means it could significantly go up too.
I can't decide which way the majority will go yet 😆

SquashedFlyBiscuit · 05/03/2020 14:30

Ive wondered this. I have asthma and other complications and as mucb as if it were a normal sick bug Id just work thru it with then.... if this is genuinely something that could kill me is this wise? I cant work out if Id leave and stay elsewhere or id isolate within mg house and let husband and kids carry on.

Selfsettling3 · 05/03/2020 16:14

I have a nearly 4 year old and a 7 month old there is absolutely now way we would be able to be separate. I have to be with the baby as she is bf and there is no way the 4 year old could cope for two weeks without me.

TW2013 · 05/03/2020 16:20

who has enough plates to let them build up for two weeks?!
Well you might need them to wash up the previous months of festering plates first. My 15 yr old will be more or less business as usual without the nagging to come and spend some time with the family.

SpruceTree · 08/03/2020 21:06

Thanks everyone. It seems there isn't a definite right or wrong. No proper advice that I have seen from the government either.
I am just hoping that somehow we avoid it.

Getting quite worried as my son has Coeliac Disease and all the gluten free pasta and bread has sold out at the supermarkets. Hopefully sticks will improve shortly...

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slipperywhensparticus · 08/03/2020 21:13

When I had swine flu I was under quarantine at home I had a nine year old and a six month old my nine year old did the cooking I used one toilet she used the other she even learned how to make bottles realistically we thought it was a matter of time we scrubbed and washed all we could and surprisingly no one else got infected I was fortunate she was able to do stuff while I was zonked on Tamiflu because quite frankly that stuff made me useless

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ComeOnGordon · 13/03/2020 16:38

The whole system is fucked - I’ve been unwell with corona type symptoms since tues but because I wasn’t abroad then they won’t test me. Now I could have another type of viruses but I don’t know. Do I self isolate myself and my family because I think there’s a possibility I might have it?!? Which would affect everyone’s lives. Or why don’t they just test me and then we’d know.

Ps I’m not in the UK and my kids school is now closed for 5 weeks anyway

copycopypaste · 13/03/2020 16:44

I'd simply self isolate the whole family. You can't expect kids to stay in their rooms with limited contact with parent or siblings (although it might be easy with teenagers).

The virus wil be all over the house anyway.

The only time I'd be concerned was if I had a vulnerable person in the house.

Paperdollss · 13/03/2020 16:45

Single parent here, if one us had to self isolate then we’ll all have to self isolate, although hoping it doesn’t come to that as we live in an apartment and would struggle mentally not being able to get a bit of a walk every few days.
I feel for the poor families who are holed up in temporary student accommodation (very popular in my city) where the planning laws for space and windows etc are much more lax

tammiedog · 13/03/2020 16:49

I have young children so we would all isolate. Whilst we have infrastructure to self isolate an individual it's just not practical for children who still require help and comfort.

BitchHazel · 13/03/2020 16:58

I've had to "isolate" DS today. He has a cough. I'm keeping distance as much as possible, not sharing bathroom and he's not to go into the kitchen. I can't lock him up for a week though, and work expect me to go in unless I start to show symptoms.

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