@HelenHen, this is not just a politically naive reaction to hate - it's a deep-based ideological difference between BDS and ST. For a much more eloquent explanation than I can provide, see:
https://portside.org/2024-02-02/why-faction-bds-attacking-standing-together
@stormy4319trevor Let me make something clear. As an Israeli leftist protesting the actions of my own government, I don't expect appreciation or thanks from Palestinian society. It is my moral obligation, and it is my belief that urgent change is needed within Israeli society. It is my responsibility to do everything I can within Israeli society both to actively protest specific instances of oppression and to participate in making the structural changes that will end the occupation and build a just, democratic, equal society.
However, there is a difference between not "appreciating" and actively misrepresenting and denouncing, as the BDS movement has chosen to do to Standing Together. The narrative that you cite in your post about Standing Together claiming that this is just about "hatred" is simply not true - it is a spin that is convenient for BDS but it deliberately conflates rhetoric, ideology and strategy, and it also flies in the face of what ST actually says AND what it does. See for example this interview with ST spokesperson Sally Abed:
"JW [interviewer]: Standing Together is not just an idealistic vision of a peaceful future for Israel and Palestine. You are organizers. You have a strategy for change. Tell us a little about that.
SA [Sally Abed]: We’re actually not idealistic at all. We’re ideological. We have a deep-rooted ideology of equality and social justice. And we have a theory of change, of how we do it. We acknowledge the hegemony of Israeli society and the control and the power differential that it has in this situation.
We understand that we need to build the political will within the Israeli public to end the occupation, to end the military control, and take real steps towards peace. To do that, you need a deep shift in the Israeli public that for many decades has been told that’s not possible. “In order for us to be safe, we absolutely need to oppress, incarcerate, control, and kill Palestinians. We have to.” That’s what they’ve been told.
Creating that shift has been almost a mission impossible. But October 7th, in many ways, shattered that conception— or at least challenged it deeply. We are at the point where we see ourselves as the social movement that will lead that shift in paradigm. I don’t say that lightly. I don’t say that to brag. In order to change reality and change institutions politically, socially, culturally, to shift a society, you need to build a social movement. And that doesn’t only require shouting the ugly truth, but organizing people, building leadership, building the communities on the ground."
See also ST's statement on the BDS denunciation: drive.google.com/file/d/1Gq6uqfmkA5Jq_FGjUgG8G70b-VFiu4Vx/view
In short, ST could yell slogans about apartheid and genocide, which is a rhetorical choice that can make the people shouting them feel good, but it is not an effective strategy inside Israel. The people who choose to do this (and they exist) forever remain a tiny group on a street corner in Tel Aviv. Standing Together has decided to go for effective opposition to the occupation, placing emphasis on structural change and direct action rather than inflammatory rhetoric. It's clear that this is working. Just in the past few months ST has managed to get thousands out on the streets to call for a ceasefire. They have managed to stop the settler attacks on humanitarian aid. When they call for meetings on an urgent issue, tens of young, ideological people turn up ready to take action. They have managed to get their Palestinian member Sally Abed (quoted above) elected to Haifa city council.
Again, this is not about seeking approval. Not every leftist agrees on rhetoric or strategy. It's about a deliberate decision to misrepresent and then denounce ST. And doing so is not politically neutral - it directly empowers the Israeli right, both because Netanyahu uses such announcements to bolster his claims that "they all hate us, no matter what our position", and because it contributes to delegitimising any possibility of social and political change within Israel, which encourages many Palestinian citizens to choose to avoid political participation altogether. In the end, Israel has very strict proportional representation, and the biggest reason that Palestinian citizens are way underrepresented in the Knesset (under 10% of members of Knesset for over 20% of the population) is because voting rates are so low--a situation which ironically Netanyahu and BDS work together to ensure, to the sole benefit of the Israeli right. To sign off - this is just one of the reasons I'm so passionate about this specific issue.