Evening. We've seen the post on here about setting up a Free the Elderberry One petition, so we thought it best to post ourselves.
This is a highly unusual situation. We do understand how miffed you must feel to see a fellow Elderberry repeatedly deleted and banned. But we also hope you'd understand that we wouldn't take this kind of action lightly.
We very, very rarely post on the boards about our dealings with posters we have banned. But, in this case, we think we might make an exception, just so everyone is clear what has been going on here.
OK, we first suspended Viv/Gail/Mike (etc etc)'s ability to post when she was posting as goldengirl71, way back in December. She had come onto a very innocuous thread about living up north to post a good number of offensive, disablist posts. We're not going to repeat them all but, suffice to say that she appeared to us to be deliberately provoking the other posters ("Gosh! How easy is it to raise hackles on these threads? Love it!") and when she was asked not to use the word "retard", she posted "I'm sorry I offended you. I feel a proper mong now".
We quite often suspend posters temporarily, in this sort of situation, partly to stop them continuing to provoke and partly in order to enable us to have a quiet word with them about our Talk Guidelines.
Viv/Gail/Mike, however, re-regged within a couple of hours, posting that she'd decided to namechange.
She then posted on a regular Conception thread about how bizarre she found some of the posters on the Fabulous 40+ threads. We deleted her post and, it being Christmas and all, decided not to re-suspend her but send her a mail, asking her to please to moderate the tone of her posts.
Unfortunately we then, in late Jan, had to delete another thread she'd started in AIBU that seemed to have been started purely to criticise/poke fun at other Mumsnetters who were TTC. We did ban her for good then.
After that, she has repeatedly returned under various new accounts. And we have rebanned her each time, as is our policy.
She has mailed into us, once, recently, to apologise - for which we were grateful. But when we came to reply to her, we found she had already reregged again! We mailed her back to say:
"Hi Kerry
Thanks for your mail.
We appreciate your apology, although we have to be honest and say we would struggle to classify some of your comments as irreverent humour; they did come across to us, and many other posters, as rule-breakingly provocative.
We do understand that you value the support of the Elderberry Pavlovas and that you'd like us to reinstate your posting ability.
But we hope that you'd understand that your repeated re-regging while you are suspended doesn't give us much faith that you're willing to post within our site rules.
We can see that you've even re-regged at least once while you were waiting for our reply to this mail of yours.
Best
MNHQ"
Since we said that mail, we have heard nothing. But she had reregged again many, many times and sent very abusive PMs to several other Mumsnetters.
Apols for the very long post but we hope you now understand that we can't really allow someone to keep posting on Mumsnet when they are repeatedly breaking the site rules and, it does unfortunately seem, trying to provoke bad feelings between one group of posters and another.