Hi Sleep, thanks SO much for coming over to the thread and filling us in on you story. I went research mad too, I did it earlier than you did in the case that I have only had 3 mcs (and only the last one 'counted' emotionally as I was very young for the first two and didn't want kids then) so I kind of jumped the gun in terms of going for treatment. Like you I think I had some sort of gut instinct. I was out last night with five ladies I 'met' on the miscarriage boards - we have really helped each other get through it - and they were wondering how I almost instinctively knew NK cells might be my issue - being that I harped on about it for ages before I was actually diagnosed. I feel sorry for those people who don't stumble upon it through research. Your story is so inspirational to those of us still in the early stages of treatment though.
The way you describe the treatment and side effects sounds a lot less scary too. You are right, mood swings, weight gain etc are also all part of being pregnant and it IS a small price to pay, presuming it all goes well and we get to that stage. I too would be floored if I got pregnant in the first month of trying!
In answer to the question on the thread I dragged you over from Sleep it seems that Digi is right about Mr S saying the placenta takes over after that. I would like a little diagram or something to try to work out where the NK cells are and how are they attacking the pre-placenta supported foetus! Just to try to work it out in my head but also as it might help us visualise the blighters being attacked themselves :)
I have another success story to add to our minds and hearts though. My mum has put me in touch with a friend of a friend who at 40 was diagnosed with very high NK cells (after 5 mcs), treated with the same treatment we are having/about to have and is now sitting at home with a 12 week old baby. Mum gave me her email address and I sent her a message yesterday so hopefully she might get back to me.
Digi I joined my fertility friend bought a thermometer yesterday and took my first temp today - 36.48c just after waking before 9am (sorry - not setting an alarm is a freelance prerogative :) ) so I am now officially charting. It's only CD4 so am hoping it's still an ok time to start. Your very long cycles must be very annoying. Mine, pre mc, used to vary from 29 to 40 (average around 33) days which was annoying too. So far they have been 28,29 and 31 so it looks like they are getting longer again.
Gecko am not sure about ov sticks and pcos, but am pretty sure they would work. I am glad (in a not-sadistic-way at all :) ) that you too are frustrated with the weight gain. And that's even before taking the hard core drugs! It sounds like you are not overweight either but that extra few pounds or stone is still very frustrating. None of my clothes fit nicely (and definitely pushing a size 12 now) and I too am hitting the gym with a vengeance and low-carbing. That said I do keep 'cheering myself up' with wine and, last night, a huge pizza with my 'miscarriage friends'
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And finally Libby sorry you are here after a terrible run of luck (or NK cell activity of course). In your first meeting Mr S will chat through your history and organise the testing. Does your private health care cover all of it? You lucky thing. I have health care too and have never been able to use the damn thing. My NHS referral for him has finally kicked in so am going to get NHS prescriptions from him at Epsom on Tues but everything so far has been private and intralipids aren't available on the NHS anyway. Hmm. Maybe it is worth me checking again with the insurance but am not holding my breath.
In answer to your question Libby I think it would seem that NK cells attack early on and cause early mcs rather than late ones, as the placenta takes over. Something that must be comforting to bear in mine when like Sleep we have got to that stage.
Phew. Long post. Who haven't I address? Kittens! Hope all is well with everyone, do keep us all updated xxx