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mogwai · 14/08/2005 00:19

I am considering an ofsted-registered childminder for my DD when I go back to work in february. She will be seven months old at the time.

I have met a childminder who is willing to keep a place open for me. She initially said I would need to pay a retainer, which is reasonable, obviously, but it turns out that the retainer is a full months childcare costs - ie, I will be paying as though my child was in attendance.

If I am to pay for my child to be in attendance for the next five months (almost £1600), even though she will be at home with me, I think I ought to be able to leave her with the childminder for a few hours on the days I am paying for, so that I can get some housework done, or whatever. It hadn't been my intention to leave her with a childminder before february, but I think I should have this option if I am paying for the place.

However, the childminder will not take children below the age of 6 months. Apparently, she once looked after a child who had colic, which was problematic.

I'm not sure whether it is standard practice for a childminder to charge full costs to retain a place, and I feel concerned that she is happy to take the money every month, yet will not look after my DD on the days I am paying for.

Any thoughts??

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alibubbles · 17/08/2005 21:51

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ThePrisoner · 17/08/2005 21:58

Alibubbles - not planning to (are you?), or I'll end up volunteering to take on yet another job in the minding world! I keep telling myself that I'll get a grown-up job one day ...

alibubbles · 17/08/2005 22:04

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ThePrisoner · 17/08/2005 22:11

Only ended up on county group because I stuck my hand up for permission to go to loo!!

Much as I enjoy my job, I'm making more of an effort to restrict how much of my weekends are taken up with it (not very successfully).

HellyBelly · 18/08/2005 10:12

PMSL (again) at ThePrisoner - The advantage of us oldies is that we are so senile that if we have a bad day, we've forgotten about it by the next day ...

Yes, can imagine a right mix of people and yes, can imagine some youn uns like me do stop once their little ones have grown up - atm I can't imagine doing that as I love my job and get attached to the kiddies!

Wonder if we have put her off childminders now?!

ThePrisoner · 18/08/2005 22:00

Mogwai - have you given up on all of us now?? Hopefully, you haven't posted because you are so busy contacting some new minders. I think it is really hard to choose a minder for a baby, because you can't ask how they feel about a particular person.

How did you get on with your visit with the childminder you may have? (I still disagree with the arrangements she requires re. retainer/availability though).

If you see any others, you could ask if it's possible to have an informal chat to any of the other parents or previous parents, just to help you decide.

mogwai · 19/08/2005 15:09

just to update, I managed to negotiate half rate for the next five months and the childminder will also take the baby for the odd day if I need it, once she's 3 months old. Bliss.

Very happy with this arrangement, and the minder is lovely

Thanks for your advice, it was really helpful!

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