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MNHQ here: anything you'd like to tell your MP about your experiences with using childcare?

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RowanMumsnet · 30/11/2020 13:17

Hello

There's going to be a debate on 'early years provision and nursery settings' in Westminster Hall this coming Thursday at 3pm - and we thought some of you might like to encourage your MPs to take part.

(There's not much online about the debate yet but you can see the listing on the Parliament website here.)

It's a good opportunity to flag to your MP any particular issues you've had (COVID-related or otherwise) with paid childcare.

Perhaps you find childcare extremely expensive - maybe the cost made you think twice about going back to work after taking maternity or other parental leave. Lots of discussion on Mumsnet suggests parents find the government's free childcare hours difficult to fit into a broader childcare schedule. And we've also seen quite a lot of posts about the gap between the point where mothers (or dads, if they take a longer paternity leave) usually go back to work, and the point when the 'free' childcare hours kick in.

And of course, you may have been very much affected by the unavailability of childcare during lockdown earlier this year.

You may also have positive experiences you want to share, of course Grin And nursery owners/workers may well want to contact their MPs too (we're not completely sure whether childminders fall under 'early years settings' - let us know if you know the answer.)

If you'd like to contact your MP to share your thoughts with them and ask if they can represent you in the debate, that would be great - and as ever please post here to let us know what you think, too.

Thanks
MNHQ

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Mimishimi · 02/12/2020 08:05

I don't understand where people think cheap childcare is going to come from, especially in areas with high property prices.

RowanMumsnet · 02/12/2020 12:00

[quote Someaddedsugar]@RowanMumsnet the team at Pregnant Then Screwed have been covering this all week due to the potential funding challenges in early years childcare. There’s a lot about the debate on their social channels at the moment.[/quote]
Great - thank you for letting us know

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MumLina · 02/12/2020 20:11

Sorry, new here, what is MP?

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 02/12/2020 21:12

@MumLina

Sorry, new here, what is MP?
Member of Parliament.
BoomBoomsCousin · 03/12/2020 02:32

Lack of availability completely screwed my chances of getting back into work in my profession (tech). Nurseries around us seemed high quality (child-minders did not) but had years long waiting lists, only a couple ran the sorts of hours I needed and with twins the chances of getting them both in at the same time was also an issue.

In the end I had to wait until they could go to the nursery attached to the primary school they ended up attending and that could only give them the “free” hours allotment, not a full day (and certainly not the 8 - 7 I would have needed to get back into my career properly). Childminders with availability seemed pretty low quality (watching them as they dropped off and picked up at the school there was a lot of ignoring the children, shouting, smoking in front of them, etc.) so even after mine were in school I didn’t feel able to use a child-minder to cover the hours I would have needed and the after-school club didn’t have excess spaces so couldn’t depend on them either.

I did love the nursery they attended. The staff were fantastic and I have nothing but praise for them. My kids loved it there and really blossomed. All the nurseries I looked at seemed high quality. I also used a number of regulated crèches from time to time and one unregulated one (it ran for two hours, once a week and so did not need to meet the same requirements). The regulated ones were far, far better. I think the work the UK has done in regulating nurseries has, for the most part, resulted in a good early years experience for children who attend. But it can’t have helped with cost and that’s a big issue if we aren’t going to subsidise it better...

Child care is expensive. Child-minders, where I was, were significantly less expensive than nursery and could have more flexibility, but they seemed much lower quality. And even at child-minder prices I would have been out of pocket covering childcare for two children while I worked. While long term it would have made financial sense since it would have been a career investment, lots of families don’t have the capital to look that far ahead. And for some women, their careers will not pay back that investment.

Bearfrills · 03/12/2020 07:49

I would contact my MP but he has blocked me after I asked if he could explain why he voted against extending the free school meals programme. Apparently this was an "Angela Rayner-esque" comment so it was deleted from his social media and I was blocked, he also no longer replies to my emails Hmm

CountFosco · 04/12/2020 23:08

@Bearfrills

I would contact my MP but he has blocked me after I asked if he could explain why he voted against extending the free school meals programme. Apparently this was an "Angela Rayner-esque" comment so it was deleted from his social media and I was blocked, he also no longer replies to my emails Hmm
A friend got blocked by her (new, Tory) MP after asking about the NHS. It's not very democratic blocking your constituents is it?
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