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Nanny and dog poo

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JuliePoppins · 14/01/2019 22:56

Originally I wasn't a nanny. I was a tutor and music practice supervisor to a child. But gradually I became a nanny to the family.I study in mornings and as they need me only after school it works fine schedule-wise.

One day the family got a puppy. I don't mind dogs. I actually think they are cute. But I have no idea how to take care of them and especially I dislike the poo business... The family asked me if I disliked dogs. I told them my honest view - I liked them but I was not very keen on becoming a dog sitter/dealing with poo... They reassured me they would teach their DCs how to look after the dog including poo picking so I wouldn't need to do anything. They also found a day care for the dog so he only comes back home at around 5pm during weekdays.

However, the dog still poos at home. And when he pooed, the children call me and expect me to clear them. I told them their mum told me they would know how to do it so I wouldn't need to do clearing poo. They seem to know what to do actually, but probably don't want to do it, and still expect me to pick them and wipe the floor and so on.

I feel guilty to tell them to do it, even though the parents said it's their job. They are so brilliant to make an excuse why I should do it/they can't do it... But I really really dislike DEALING WITH POO!!!

As a nanny, I do some light house-keeping such as dishes and tidying kids' laundries. Then leaving poo on the floor seems to be also my job... But is't it?? Do you think refusing to clear dog poo as a nanny is unreasonable behaviour?? Today I left poo on the floor and the mum cleared when she's back home...

But I do feel their request becomes endless. I even use my car to taxi the children for after school clubs. And now dog poo?? Really???

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JuliePoppins · 15/01/2019 19:48

I just wanted to know if I'd been unreasonable for refusing clearing the dog poo.... I felt guilty when I said no.

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Singlenotsingle · 15/01/2019 19:54

Not in the least bit unreasonable. The DPS are U if they expect you to clear it up. The dog ought to be put in the back garden as soon as it gets home, so that it can do its business outside. The mum might have problems getting a replacement nanny if she expects dog poo cleaning to be part of the duties!

itisitis · 15/01/2019 19:59

I have a cleaner and we've recently got a new puppy. I took two weeks off work to settle him in and begin the toilet training, and I'm now back at work, out of the house for 4 hours.

We've had him 8 weeks, and when the cleaner is due to come, pup goes to work with my partner because there is no way I would want her to come into my home and stand in poop. Whilst it's rare he does any accidents in the house now, it's not nailed on 100% that he won't do it. I do not believe it is my cleaners job to see to the pup. Nor do I believe it is yours to see to theirs.

oldowlgirl · 15/01/2019 21:38

Their loss Op - you'll find a much better job.

ILoveChristmasLights · 16/01/2019 00:42

Wow. That’s particularly short sighted of them. They have someone they trust with their kids, their home, half their bloody life and they decide to replace them because they won’t pick up dog poo in the house, which they were told they wouldn’t do, BEFORE they opted to get a dog which goes to daycare all day anyway...🙄

It seems they’re not in any hurry to house train the dog then. Idiots.

Something else they can delegate...if they’re not careful one of them will end up hiring someone for marital activities 🙄

You’re not losing your job over dog poo, you're losing it because they don’t (yet!) appreciate what you’ve been been doing for them & because they haven’t given any thought whatsoever as to how you going will impact the kids. Selfish twats.

Check your contract and make sure they’re following the correct procedure and at least paying you properly.

I wouldn’t stay now even if they changed their minds. They’re treating you atriciously. Not even a face to face discussion to see if any agreement could be found.

Good luck to them finding someone to do everything you’ve been doing AND pick up dog poo for the foreseeable future. They’ll probably get the poor sod training the dog as well.

I feel upset and angry on your behalf, but also very much for the kids (and dog).

JollyHolly30 · 16/01/2019 00:55

That's harsh! Has she just told you she'll look for someone else and that you're to continue working for them in the meantime?

loolooskip · 16/01/2019 01:01

Did you check your insurance policy for using your car? Mine didn't cover taking my charges in it.

Grannyannex · 16/01/2019 01:19

Dog needs to be in the garden on a lead which screws into the ground. Or in a pen outside.

Your car needs business insurance to transport the kids for work

sh13 · 20/01/2019 21:23

She sounds like a right cow , your better off somewhere else where your appreciated I wouldn’t do that either x

Bringbackthestripes · 20/01/2019 21:44

Dog needs to be in the garden on a lead which screws into the ground. Or in a pen outside

A puppy outside all day in winter would get hypothermia! It was -0.5 here on Friday.

Paper for a pup is quite normal, in the middle of a busy hall is not, but the pup needs to be frequently taken into the garden so it learns to go outside. No, it’s not usual to leave it all day, it really does need to be picked up straight away.
Sorry you have lost your job.

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