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Nanny Pregnancy/Maternity Leave

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NatashaRomanoff · 27/05/2016 19:09

Our nanny is pregnant, this is now an established pregnancy and we have had sight of her MATB1. She disclosed this pregnancy the week after we employed her - I was and remain really pissed off by this, but accept that it's a risk you take when employing one.

We had discussed the possibility of the nanny returning after maternity leave to provide after school care for our four children and allow her to bring her own baby. I am becoming increasingly uncomfortable with this as it becomes more of a reality. Our children are all under 10, our eldest is 9 and has ASD so complex needs that need a lot of specialised care. 2 are toddlers aged 4 and 2. I do not feel that any nanny could provide adequate care in these circumstances if they have their own newborn with them. Nanny wishes to return to work when baby is 6 weeks old Hmm

As yet we have been unable to arrange any maternity cover. It may be possible for me to change my hours short term to cover myself but this won't be possible permanently. I'm facing the possibility of having to quit work if we don't accept nanny back as there seems to be no alternative, but I am just not OK with her coming back in this capacity.

Morally I feel that if we make that decision I will need to tell her as soon as possible. What is our legal position here? Presumably if I have to leave work myself we can legally make her redundant as the position really won't exist - but what if I don't? If I can, on the off chance, maintain the reduced hours can redundancy still apply? I recognise that as we've previously verbally agreed I can't offer anyone else then position permanently Sad

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LittleNelle · 27/05/2016 22:33

Surely there may well be alternatives in a few months time then?

NatashaRomanoff · 27/05/2016 22:51

I don't have a few months. I have 8 weeks max presuming anybody gives notice. If I don't have an alternative by that point I'll have to hand my notice in. 8 weeks isn't very long, and I've been looking since she hit the second trimester.

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harshbuttrue1980 · 29/05/2016 11:46

I don't think there was anything wrong in her interviewing while pregnant - she needs to work, and knew that she would be discriminated against by most employers if she declared her pregnancy.
However, its also perfectly fair enough for you not to want a NWOC. Lots of people choose a nanny so that their kids get undivided attention, and therefore don't want a NWOC. The fair and legal thing to do is to hold her job open, but to make it clear that she isn't able to bring her own child.

NapQueen · 29/05/2016 11:53

I would sit and have a chat with her.

"X, I sat last night to write out a new contract for you to look over and with further thought I am unable to offer a NWOC ammendment. Of course should that suit you, your current role will be here waiting for you on your return, whenever that may be, but I am unable to meet the request of NWOC. The transport issues, additional attention dc1 needs and the duties listed make caring for six children impossible in my opinion."

stickystick · 31/05/2016 20:50

littlenelle she would have to hand her notice in because she says she wants to return after six weeks.

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