I never said you didn't have any experience, and neither did Lucy. She was suggesting ideas to get more experience if you didn't have any, I was pointing out that you didn't tell us so we can't advise well without knowing. Stop being so defensive and let us help you and ask questions without you jumping down our throats.
That's a lot of jobs, was that in a relatively short time? I ask because I jumped from job to job a bit and that made parents a bit nervous about my stability at first.
Don't mention the fact that you lived with a friend and provided childcare for a friend, just that you provided childcare for X, who is willing to give a reference (if she is?) It's the same principle for childcare for family if you've done any.
Make a point (but be realistic) about your special needs experience if you are willing to take on children with SEN, but think seriously about doing that as obviously all children have individual needs and you may not be able to take on a child with SEN with other children, depending on what those needs are.
How long ago was your last childcare experience (seeing as you've been in adult services for the last two jobs)?
I think you would benefit from doing some voluntary nursery work as childminding is very EYFS heavy, it's a good way to get exposed to it. It'll also give you recent experience if your last experience was a while ago. The experience you have is very different to running a childcare setting, for a start, it seems that you would have been in a team. Working alone with kids is a whole different experience and is something you'll have to decide whether or not you are comfortable with. It's very lonely and can be isolating.