Mrs A Team, I'm being a little unfair, she's a really nice person, but she's a full-time SAHM with NO financial worries whatsoever (due to large inheritance) and a husband who works as a teaching assistant so is at home a lot, so she can afford to devote all her time and energies on raising the perfect kids without any distractions. She never goes to McD's or anywhere like that, uses the word 'healthy' all the time in relation to food, makes you feel guilty for spreading butter on bread, buys only organic, doesn't have a TV, spends hours playing constructively with her two boys, makes her own soup, is incredibly thin, doesn't need to wear make-up, recycles everything, brings bagloads of cardboard boxes ad cereal packets to school every week for them to use in creative play, volunteers to tidy the school garden every Friday.... and just generally makes everyone else feel inadequate. And most annoyingly, she's always banging on self-consciously about how 'good' she's trying to be.
On the rare occasions I have tried to point out that not everyone has the time, back-up and resources to be as perfect as she is (I prarphrase) she says "Yes, I know it's difficult/hard work/time-consuming etc etc but I really feel it's worth it." This implying that those of us who do occasionally visit McD's/spread butter liberally/eat chocoalte every day/watch TV/ stick the kids in front of the video while we have a rest are somehow not trying quite hard enough.
Her kids are great - but the eldest boy (5) is a pasty-coloured dreamer who can't do anything unless his mum has given him full instructions and the youngest (nearly 3) is a yob!