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bit strange - but can you tell me your bad stories about VBAC

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tostaky · 16/08/2009 09:11

i want to be ready.

thanks

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tinymam · 19/08/2009 14:58

Thanks again for all the information. We know that cs's carry risks also but it does tend to make the whole process straight forward and quite predictable which is what she's after I think. She's had one normal birth and one em-cs so she's had experience of both. She would like the recovery of a vaginal birth but the straight-forwardness that (we hope) can be better offered from a cs.

TheDMshouldbeRivened · 19/08/2009 15:29

'Riven (I am assumng it's you?), can I ask, was the brain damage a direct result of the fact that it was a VBAC or unrelated? '

we don't really know. If I could wind back the clock I'd have a section. Then she might be fine and my naughty bits would be intact!

midnightexpress · 19/08/2009 15:40

If it's any consolation at all (probably not), my naughty bits are not at all intact, as a result of my last emCS, so there's no guarantees .

tostaky · 19/08/2009 17:05

ok - thank you . I still have plenty of time to weight the pros and the cons but im really disappointed to havent experienced a natural birth hence me wanting a vbac. but if that turns out to be too selfish for a reason, im happy to go for an elective cs

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RuinedandUpset · 19/08/2009 20:10

Here are the nasty details that no one told me about. C-sections aren't allowed to labour long in case of scar rupture so the risk of instrumental delivery is highly increased. There are a lot of accepted complications from forceps deliveries and I had a very bad outcome from the forceps delivery. It wasn't anything like a life or death situation or a big baby either. I feel my life is ruined. It is lifelong damage and no surgery will fix what was done. I obviously wish I had a section.

MrsHappy · 19/08/2009 20:32

Can't help the OP since I haven't yet had my VBAC, but some info for Tinymam's friend here. I had lots of pulling in my scar at around 21-21 weeks, but it has passed. It seems to be pretty common.

dee0468 · 20/08/2009 09:02

You are feeling the same way I did before my 2nd section. I felt so cheated out of a natural birth and being awake 1st time. However, after my second emergency section I wish I had gone for a planned one. It would have saved me 12 hours of labout pains and I would have probably been able to see my son being delivered, immediate skin to skin etc.

lisad123wantsherquoteinDM · 20/08/2009 09:05

My first vbac ended in emcs after 5 hours of low level labour, infection and a week in hospital.

Second Vbac was 48 minutes, but dd2 wasnt breathing, 6 people in room, 2nd degree tear, a doc yelling at me as couldnt do stirups due to SPD. Looked like blood bath after. DD2 was fine btw
stitches were awful and sex life did not return to normal for a year

orangehead · 20/08/2009 10:01

My vbac was pretty similar to my first labour, started off ok. First stage was about 15 hrs. I dont remember any pain in my scar though. Like my first labour it was in second stage that things started to go wrong. They left me pushing for 3 and half hours (which Im sure they are not supposed to do with a vbac, or any labour) I remember several points the mw shouting in to the corridor that they needed a doctor in here quick but no docotors were available. When one finally did come he decided he could get ds2 out by turning him with forceps. I asked cant I just have a section (which is surprising as I was so upset my first section)he said no he thinks we can do it this way so I agreed. They took me into threatre and started with the forceps. I lost so much blood that I passed out just before he yanked ds2 out. I then had a lot of stitches both internally and externally. I also had stitches on my bum cheeck, no where near where he should of been.

After it was all over the doctor came to see me and he seemed really pleased with himself and said I told you we would do it and avoid another section. I was too exhausted to reply, but when I put in my birth plan I wanted a vbac and wanted to avoid a section if possible I didnt mean at all cost. I would of rather they realised earlier that the labour was going down similar route to my first and done a section earlier with a epidural so I didnt miss the the birth again, I missed my first one as the section was an emergency and they gave me a ga.

Next time I am definnetly going for a planned section. Hope I not put you off but you did ask. Lots of people have successful vbac's. I suppose one thing to consider is why you had the section the first time. Hope you make the right decision for you.

lizzytee · 20/08/2009 15:26

Wanted a VBAC, had an emcs as dd2 was OP with head deflexed (back to back and chin up). But for grotty positioning of dd2 would have been a straightforward birth- labour was intense but bearable with G&A, even the 2hrs of pushing.

Hated, hated the CS recovery - 2 scar infections and 3 rounds of ABs.

A positive experience (though not the birth I wanted) due to good midwifery, having read up and understood my options and being able to move around as I wanted. And dd2 is a peach

bloss · 20/08/2009 16:01

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Pendulum · 20/08/2009 16:56

I was anxious the whole time about the risk of scar rupture so couldn't really 'let go' with my VBAC attempt. Mine resulted in an EMCS in the wee hours of sunday morning, during which the tired, inexperienced registrar cut my bladder in half.

Like bloss if I could turn back the clock I would- I would have another civilised ELCS (first was for breech) on a Monday morning with a well-rested consultant surgeon in charge.

tinymam · 20/08/2009 17:02

Mrs Happy thanks for the information, I've passed it on. Thanks to everyone else to for sharing their vbac stories.

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