Dear all,
Have just found out that I'm pregnant - due Jan '06. Am delighted! However, I gave birth in Jan '03 and had a retained placenta (adhesion to the wall of my uterus - I think) and a 3rd degree tear. As it happened, the retained placenta meant that I had to have a spinal block and go to theatre (having just delivered my dd with only gas and air..) and whilst in theatre they also did the repair work due to the tear. I was catheterised and not allowed out of bed for the first 2 days and was kept in for 5 days. I was in quite a lot of discomfort and on heavy painkillers as well as the fabulous combo of lactulose (so as not to be constipated,strain and tear the stitches) and iron (which makes you hugely constipated but which I needed because I was anaemic )
I'd prefer a vaginal delivery again but am a bit worried that one or both of these things could recur and wondered if anyone could offer some advice?
My main concern is not so much another trip to theatre to remove a placenta but the risk of faecal incontinence that accompanies a 3rd degree tear (and that fortunately hasn't come about due to the tear in Jan '03).
The thought of me and a baby in matching nappies is a bit scary...Help!