I went into labour on my due date, the same day I was booked for a scan to check the position of the baby - the midwives just could not tell! We discovered he was extended breech and were advised to go for a c-section.
However, my consultant was all for my attempting a vaginal delivery on the agreement that they'd perform a c-section if there were problems. As someone committed to having a natural birth I was in heaven!
I was fortunate in having a very rapid labour for a first timer - about 5 hours, and got through it with only a TENS machine (which, because of everything that was happening, didn't get strapped on til I was 5cm dilated). Yes, I had to have an episiotomy, but avoided the forceps and it was a small price to pay - a fantastic team at the Royal Surrey in Guildford ensured I had the birth experience I wanted as much as possible and they all worked beyond their shifts to get the baby out.
It's hard to say if breech is more painful than normal - for me, it didn't feel like 'pain' as such (presumably helped by the fact that, for a breech, the baby was very well positioned and came out bum first) and the worst part was getting his head out. I admit that I did scream at that point, but anyone having a natural birth has to go through the same thing- for some it just happens at the end instead of the beginning! And twelve weeks on I would still do it again!
Natural breech deliveries are becoming much rarer - my attending midwife is head of the unit and had only been present at one before. There is definitely a trend to go for c-sections and avoid potential problems. I think it really does depend upon the hospital and the confidence of the staff - we were incredibly lucky to have the right people around us!
One other thing - a few weeks after he was born, I discovered a lump on one side of my baby's neck - a check with a specialist showed that it was a torn muscle caused by the force of pulling him out at birth. Not a serious injury nor is it permanent - exercise will solve it - but it's worth being aware that this is not uncommon in breech deliveries.
Good luck to anyone faced with breech babies - whatever feels right for you is right for you.