I dont know why ive read this but now feel quite emotional having done so. This happened to me and i agree with the person who said manual removal was barbaric.My midwife pulled on the cord and it snapped.Even before this i had endured various unnecessary internals by students.I firmly beleive this is a fault on the part of the midwife as opposed to hundreds of women have faulty placentas.
My midwife was horrible and i was bullied into humiliating positions while being told to push it out. I also had a catheter inserted which was incredibly painfull and various students watched the whole thing.
I was quite young at the time and completeley traumatized and shocked.I felt i had been molested and abused.I never felt so vulnerable or helpless in my life .
I tried to explain to freinds how i felt and often they would respond with their own storys " i know how you feel , i was in labour for 28 hours ".Nobody seemed to understand the horror of it.
I raged and raged for a year or so until i eventually made a complaint to the independant medical folk. Unfortunateley they sent a man to see me , and it didnt go anywhere as i felt uncomfortable speaking to him about this and still couldnt talk about it without crying.
Sadly its only now i realise how much it affected me , i had problems bonding with my baby and often would have nightmares about it and would dream that this was taking place in a theatre with thousands of people watching.Even now i cannot bear to watch childbirth on tv .
I avoided a smear for years as i could not bear to have anyone near me like that , and when i finally did i cried the whole way through. I do not , and never will again , have the blind faith that i once had in medical staff.
On a positive note , i went on to have 2 more babys at home with no intervention whatsoever and a natural 3rd stage. My midwife was very supportive .
After baby no2 was born , there was no sign of placenta and gp arrived to check the baby. He commented in an alarmed way about the situation and actually said to my midwife " Cant you pull it out ".!!!
Sorry to anyone whos gone through this.