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What would you do, induced vaginal or elective c-section?

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Gilliana1 · 28/10/2008 16:05

I'd really eally welcome everyones advice on a decision I have to make this week.

I'd 37.5 weeks, first baby, aged 35, and baby is over the 97% quartile in size, with a huge tummy. They have suddenly discovered that I've had some gestational diabetes that they hadn't detected. At the moment the scans estimate baby is 9 pounds. Before pregancy I was 50kg, size 8, petite frame, 5ft3.

The hospital have given me two choices. To be induced at 38 weeks 1 day, try for vaginal delivery and accept fact that in such large babies (with wide shoulders as disproportionatly big) I have 50% chance of emergency c-section. Or to have an elective c-section at 39 weeks.

My husband and I probably won't be able to have any more children (if that makes any difference to decision) as I have ovarian failure and this one was a miracle upon miracle IVF'd in America.

What would you all do? I keep swinging from one option to another. I'm scared of having major surgery but I'm equally scared about massive tearing, baby getting stuck and dying ;-(((

(The head in the sand approach, hoping the decision will go away isn't working!)

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SharkyandGeorge · 28/10/2008 16:11

What a hard decision for you to make, has your midwife or consultant given you any preference or is the decision entirely up to you?

How much do you want a vaginal birth? Would you feel sad to not have that experience (i'm not saying you should but some people would)

Also scans are notourisly rubbish at estimating babies size, how would you feel if you had a c section and baby turned out to be smaller than expected?

I honestly can't say what I would do, I enjoy giving birth and know I would feel sad not to go through it at the end of my pregnancy, however I am also unfortunate enough to know how much a birth that goes wrong affects people. I think it is an impossible decision for anyone to tell you the answer to, you and your partner will need to discuss how you would feel about each birth, the pros and cons both physically and the emotional affects. Although I appreciate when it is your first time you have no idea what either experience might be like.

WhatFreshHellIsThis · 28/10/2008 16:13

That's a tough one - not really a decision anyone can make for you but I'll shove my two pence worth in anyway.

If you try for a natural birth, it may all go fine - scans are quite an inaccurate way of estimating size of baby, and people have given birth to babies over 9 pounds before without problems. Obviously there's the shoulder thing too, but it might all just go smoothly.

Appreciate that you're quite petite, but it's really about the size of your pelvis and how much it moves rather than your height, iyswim.

If you try and deliver naturally and it's not going well, you can always opt for a c-section anyway at any point.

C-section is major surgery, and carries risks, but they're about the same as the risks of natural childbirth, so it's really what you feel most comfortable with.

Sorry, probably haven't helped much, have i!

VASTlargeginandbloodymary · 28/10/2008 16:13

Go for it naturally, it is impossible for them to predict accurately how big the baby wil be.

I am only 5'3 and have delievered a 9lb and 9lb 2oz baby. I expect the next one to be bigger but am still going for the natural option having had a section (with the twins) before.

stillstanding · 28/10/2008 16:19

I think I would be rather nervous about being induced at 38 weeks and think you could be in for a rough time. I was induced at 42 weeks at it was grim indeed ending in an emergency c-section after 48 hours of gruelling labour. DS was 9lb but I think it was more a case of him just not being ready to come out and I imagine inducing earlier would be less effective. In your situation I would probably go for the c-section but ultimately you really need to go through the pros/cons with your consultants. Good luck!

WhatFreshHellIsThis · 28/10/2008 16:26

A friend of mine was recently induced at 36 weeks, and it went like a dream. I had a failed induction at 40 + 15, so induction can go either way, really.

Ewe · 28/10/2008 16:26

What a tough decision for you to make!

Personally, in your shoes, I would go for an elective C-section. I was induced at 42 weeks with a very low Bishops Score, which you are likely to have too, and it was not great. Ended up with an emergency C-section.

If you aren't planning on having any more children then a lot of the reasons consultants say no to c-sections are null and void.

Also, if your baby is an IVF miracle then personally I would be wanting an elective C-section as it is the saftest way to deliver after a straightforward vaginal birth which is impossible to guarantee and in my experience, less likely with induction.

The risk of a c-section when being induced as a first time mother is over 50%. In my experience, the really shit deal is when (like I did) you are induced, it then takes four days (like mine did) and I ended up with an emergency c-section anyway but on top of that I was exhausted, hadn't slept for days etc. I fell asleep on the operating table!

Also, FWIW, I found my C-section recovery. Good luck with whatever decision you make, it's not an easy choice and I think there are pros and cons to each. You just need to work out what of those pros and cons are most important to you.

mrsgboring · 28/10/2008 16:27

For me, I'd go with get the baby out soonest option - i.e. try for induction at 38 weeks. That's because of my history having lost a baby at full term. But GD does carry risks and they would normally prefer you to deliver earlier rather than later. TBH I read all threads like this and want to post "Get that baby out now!" which isn't quite fair becausse my experience is not representative. But go for it - get the baby out! It's not going to get any smaller, after all

TuttiFrutti · 28/10/2008 17:31

In your position I would go for an elective c-section.

The best type of birth is a straightforward, quick vaginal birth with no intervention and no tearing. Unfortunately it looks as if you are unlikely to get that. Induction is not nice and, as Ewe has said, carries a risk of failure and emergency c-s of about 50% for first-time mothers.

Emergency c-s is very different from elective, in terms of both clinical outoomes, recovery and possible PND afterwards.

Ultimately it's a gamble, but given your situation I think the elective would be less risky.

Tapster · 28/10/2008 18:46

I would be in for "cooking" the baby more and going for an elective as I wouldn't wish inducement on anybody but I probably had a very bad experience. My epidural didn't work properly. My DD was 9lb 1oz and I'm 5ft tall with size 2 shoes (shoe size is an indicator of size of pelvis. My DD didn't even descend after 18 hours of induced labour her shoulders were too big according to the ob for my pelvis. Size of shoulders and head (DD had 98th percentile head) more a problem than overall weight. Friend similar size had same size baby but with a 9th percentile head.

I'm pregnant with my second and I have the same fears of a VB of shoulders getting stuck. Tearing is always a risk of VB but CS take alot of recovery. DH thinks its better to lose my stomach muscles than tear badly but thats his self interest! I haven't decided yet and am demanding growth scans but they can be very unreliable.

Kbear · 28/10/2008 18:50

elective c-section definitely - it will be fine

LazyLinePainterJane · 28/10/2008 18:57

With a 50% chance of an emergency, I would opt for an elective. Just my opinion though. Personally, I am unsure about induction and feel it can be a one way street to a EMCS and GA, which I would not want.

It would be different if you had more factors in your favour offering a straightforward vaginal birth but you do not.

Good luck making your decision.

WobblyPig · 28/10/2008 19:00

Oh you sound similar to me. Estimated baby weight 10Lb with head diameter off the centile scale I'm 5 foot 1 ( 155cm)
Head not engaged AT 42 weeks. T
They persuaded me into induction. Worst thing I ever did. I had no chance and the Consultant who came round after I had sat being induced for 4 days said ' your chances of giving birth vaginally are somewhere between nil and negligible'.

Ended up with C-section by the on-call team on a Saturday ( 18 days overdue) .

Personally I would get admitted on a Monday if possible go for the pessaries but not the drips and if nothing getting going go for the C-section. This is my plan for hte next one due 5/09.

MrsTittleMouse · 28/10/2008 19:06

Ooo, that is a tough one. I would personally go for the elective, but I have a pelvis that doesn't really "do" vaginal delivery very well (despite two VBs), so I'm a bit biased.

Good luck.

Cosette · 28/10/2008 19:30

It's a really tricky one, I've had 2 inductions - first one with DD1 (first child), at 42 weeks - it went really well and she was born relatively quickly weighing 8lb 2oz, without any complications and just a bit of gas and air.

With DS, (DC3), I had an induction at 41 weeks because of his size (estimated to be actually 8lb 7oz at time of 38 week scan). It failed, and I returned at 42 weeks to have another induction. I had started having minor contractions, and they broke my waters - he was born a couple of hours later, again just a bit of gas and air. He was indeed big - 10lb 4oz, and his shoulders did get stuck - although thankfully not for long. I'm 5ft 8in, but have smallish feet - 4 and a half.

I am sceptical about early inductions - I think both my inductions worked well because the babies were ready to come anyway.

Fwiw, delivering a 10lb 4oz baby wasn't any more painful than delivering ones of 8lb 2oz or 7lb 13oz.

Can you try the induction at 38 weeks, and see how it goes - but stop short of the point of no-return? (breaking waters/syntocin drip?).

Gilliana1 · 29/10/2008 16:45

Thanks to everyone for your views and opinions. I'm still swaying like an ally cat between giving the induction a go or going straight for the c-section. Induction would be Monday, c-section Friday.. so whichever way baby will be out next week!

I just wish I had a crystal ball that would tell me whether the inducing may work. If I get a c-section and baby ends up being 8 pounds I'll kick-myself as maybe I could have pushed that out.

Of course if I end up with 3rd/4th degree tearing, baby in distress or oxygen cut-off, prolapse I'll regret not having the c-section.

Do babies ever die if they get their shoulders stuck?

I also wish my obsetrician would give me some advice other than, 'it is ultimately your choice'. I mean!!

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chequersandchess · 29/10/2008 16:51

Personally, I would go for the elective section as well, but of course it's your decision.

fishie · 29/10/2008 16:57

having had a very similar experience to Ewe i think i'd go for the cs as well. the extra few days in the womb will be better for your baby i should think. hopefully some midwife or doula types will appear with some more informed advice on that.

are you planning to bf? is anybody properly trained in the hospital? that was the worst for me, i couldn't get ds to latch on and was stuck in hospital for days with no proper advice.

elkiedee · 29/10/2008 16:58

Ask them to assess you at time of planned induction re Bishops Score, readiness of cervix etc. I'd find both options nervewracking and I've been induced - but I was overdue - and I think if it was assessed that induction was even less than 50% likely to work then the elective CS might be a better option.

With modern day technology your baby will probably come out safely anyway, though they can't offer you a guarantee - they can monitor and see how baby's doing etc etc and given the history you give you will hopefully be well attended and not left alone. I think the issue between the options is what will be best for your recovery.

fishie · 29/10/2008 16:59

oh how about the nice fluffy cs, what is it called? you get the baby delivered skin-to-skin, not rushed away for a bath. help me mn, there was a thread with links to a really good site.

elkiedee · 29/10/2008 17:01

fishie's question is an important one, however it goes being prepared for after the birth and especially feeding, properly, is what I wish most had been different.

LadyOfRoffle · 29/10/2008 17:05

Jumping from OP, I am 5'2" and had DS2 13 days overdue, predicted big baby (!) via induction and he was 10lb 5oz. I never was told anything about c-sections despite being at risk of GD myself and DS being above the 98th percentile at 20 weeks. I did tear and graze in a few places, but was out after 7 hours and was alot better 'down there' than after my 6lb6oz DS1! I have no idea what to advise, but just telling you my exeperience.

sitdownpleasegeorge · 29/10/2008 17:06

For me it's a no-brainer.

Elective c-section - because if this is a very much wanted miracle baby and possibly the only baby you'll ever have I wouldn't want to risk an putting the baby through an unpredictable vaginal birth.

Induction is a far less desirable option than going into labour naturally and the c-section IMHO really would be the less risky option for baby.

chequersandchess · 29/10/2008 17:09

I understand the sentiment here but I really don't think you'd want to take any risks with a baby that wasn't the result of assisted conception either.

LadyOfRoffle · 29/10/2008 17:11

Having said that, if I thought vaginal delivery would be a risk for the baby in my case and was offered a C/S, I would go for that. Electives are probably very well planned out as opposed to emergency etc. If you are not planning any more children, the risk factors (I think) of hysterectomy (sp?) and scar issues for next pregnancy won't really 'matter', if that makes sense? I have never had one so can't really comment on it from experience.

susie100 · 29/10/2008 17:22

Do you know what the rate of c section after induction are at the hospital? My local hospital is well over 50%. Given all you have said I wld go for elective personally and this is coming from someone who had a homebirth!