Wow, this thread has taken off while I've been at Monkey music and visiting nursery!
Dragonbutter it is useful, people's experiences are much harder to ignore than statistics. I'm sorry for making you relive the scary early days of your sons life. Thank you
The supportive MW I have spoken to from our local MLU says the ABs themselves pose risks in themselves as it is a massive dose for such a tiny person.
And the homebirth issue is cloudy - I was originally told No, but after talking to the MLU who reminded me that the ABs are a choice not a have to, and that they would be happy for me to deliver there but they could not administer IV ABs. GBS does not make the labour more difficult or increase the risk of complications, and as long as I understood to watch baby (temp and breathing) closely for the first 48hrs they would support me at home.
My DH feels that if I am forced to go into hospital it will be a longer and more stressful labour than I had with DS which could add its own difficulties.
The thing to remember is that GBS lives harmlessly in your system, much as thrush or a cold sore virus do, causing no problems most of the time. Being a carrier is not the same as being ill.
And the statistics do say that having had one healthy normal delivery the chances are increased in this baby's favour. I can only assume I was a carrier then, as I was never tested. I am trying to get access to DSs notes as I know he was swabbed within about an hour of birth as my waters had gone early with him, which in itself suggests I was a carrier although he had no symptoms at all.