I've had 2 emergency sections:
the first after induction and a long labour, fully dilated, pushing and stuck baby. I was in the posh Portland and wasn't allowed out of bed much for 5 days but then recovered pretty quickly physically but was exhausted and got on a plane with dd at 10 days old and flew back to Africa. I managed to walk through Heathrow slowly but surely (actually I look back now and think what madness!)
The second after failed VBAC, waters broken, short labour, fully dilated, pushed and stuck baby again, this time NHS, forced up for a shower 12 hrs later, then moved to a small maternity hospital, where they let me go at my own pace for 5 days. I felt this was my best recovery. Got on a plane with ds1 at 14 days old, much better than last time.
The third was an elective, I was petrified, hated all the morphine but recovered very quickly this time because I knew it wouldn't last long and I had two other dc to care for and this time I didn't have to get on a plane,
So whilst the second for me was the best 'experience' I think with the third i had the quickest recovery. Also with the elective the planning of childcare and timings meant it was the least stressful and also I wasn't then 2 weeks overdue as I was the first two times. DS2 consequently is a very laid back baby
The consultant said I could easily manage another section, but I nearly choked and said 'thanks but no thanks'.
Good luck Flumpy.