By samam on Tue 27-Feb-07 15:12:36
Hi, I have to admit to being one of the lucky ones! My son was born in the 'face to pubes' position which means he was born with his head up rather than facing down. I managed to push him out and I honestly don't think I would have been able to do it had it not been for a perfectly timed epidural which meant that by the time I began to push, some of the spinal had worn off and I could really concentrate on pushing, which in the end took 14 minutes, but that was after a 24 hour labour! I also think that pushing on your side helps if your baby is not for coming out, and if ventouse and forceps are being recommended! I know which Id rather do! Also, pushing on your side is also kinder to your pelvis, if you suffered from symphysis pubic dysfunction, like I did. Anyway, like I said, I was very lucky partly due to a very supportive partner and an angel of a midwife. I had a terrible pregnancy with my first son, but an easy birth and sometimes that can be the way it goes.I do realise however, that there are some women who have an absolutely awful time and maybe that will be me next time but hope it won't! God, Im scaring myself now! SAMAM
have read it again, and not sure what feedback to offer either ! sounds like you had a positive experience..that;s great and it does not mean a second labour would be worse...probably better..! you had a great midwife, lots of support and a good , positive birth..what else is there to say?
re face to pubes - ie OP baby, they can give you a longer , more painful back ache labour, but i had an OP baby, with pethidine , gas and air and not lying down for most of the labour ! so it was a great experience for me without an epidural, and for you with an epidural....
with a second labour, you know what to expect and how strong your coping skills are and what level of pain you can cope with so don;t scare yourself !
HTH x