I had dd in the Homerton in March 05, didnt have the best of experiences.........
Went for an antenatal on my due date, blood pressure was sky high, was told I was being admitted for induction, this was no surprise as I had been warned things were heading this way for a few weeks, was sent straight up to the ward from clinic at about 11am, was put on a moniter, and told that i needed to have my bloods taken before they could induce me, at 4pm I was still waiting, despite telling them I was a trained phlebotomist and was more than happy to take my own blood if it would get things moving, was finally given a butterfly and blood bottles at about 6pm, and took my blood, still was not induced till 8pm.
My mum and dp were sent home about 9pm and told that they would be called if anything happened, but that it wasnt likely, by 2am I was being sick and in quite a bit of pain, asked for some pain relief and a sick bowl, got neither, had sick down the front of my top and couldnt get anybody to help me get a clean one out of my bag, in the end I gave up and used my mobile to call my mum, her and dp came back, at this point i was still on the assesment ward, not a delivery room, my mum finally got someone to give me some pethadine, and heres where my memory fades quite a bit............
apparently i slept the whole night, just scrunching up my toes when i was having a contraction, nobody came to check on me, woke at 7am, and went to the toilet, locking the door, it took me about 15 minutes to realise i was actually pushing my mum and dp had to get one of the staff to open the door, dd was born at 7.25am on the assesment ward, thankfully it was empty by this time!
I suffered a 3rd degree tear, the midwife that was checking me after was very rough, and when I had finally had enough and told her to stop poking around, she shouted at me that I HAD to be examined, anyway, was saved by a lovely surgeon that came round and gave me gas and air before examining me, was taken to theatre right away and given a spinal block, and repaired, I thought I would be ok after that, but nothing prepared me for the postnatal ward, luckily for me I had a catheter in, and didnt need to use the toilet the first night, but the next day i discovered they had blood splatters up the wall, were caked in poo, and had a bowl of bloody water and gauze in! The staff were rude and unheplful, when I asked 1 to get me a bottle for dd, she told me I had to get up and get it myself, at which point I burst into tears, they had sent my visitors away, I was still a bit numb from the spinal block, had a catheter, and 2 ivs in.
I was told I had to stay in for 5 days, but the night after I gave birth I could stand no more, and asked to be discharged, was told they wouldnt discharge me, in the end I walked out without my notes or medication, I was so so relieved to be out of there and back at home!