I'm a first-time low-risk mother, currently 17 weeks, and I don't want to give birth at home or in a midwife led unit purely because I want to know I'll have easy access to an epidural.
I had several MCs previously, one of which was at nearly 12 weeks and which led to me being admitted via A and E for shock and blood loss. The embryo was stuck in my tightly-closed cervix and I was contracting to push it out. The pain was the worst thing I've ever experienced. I was traumatised, terrified and the only place I felt safe was in hospital, where they could give me hefty drugs and tell me what the hell was going on.
Because of that I will not feel relaxed and safe unless I know I have access to anaesthetic. And I can't have that in a midwife-led unit, or at home. I'm not generally pro or anti home birth or hospital birth, I'm making a personal decision that this time I want to be in hospital. If I have a second child, I may well choose to have a homebirth then. It will depend on the experience of having this one.
I don't think I'll face a fight asking for hospital, but I worry that the new guidelines mean women like me will be judged more. I will basically be choosing to do something that is 'less safe' for my baby.
But womens' experiences of birth matter too. You shouldn't feel you have to try and do without an epidural because opting for a hospital birth where you can have one is selfish. And a lot of this thread reads, to someone like me, like I'm being told that having a hospital birth means I'll be selfishly endangering my baby for a bit of pain relief.
It's up to individual women. Give us all the relevant evidence and we can make our own minds up. After all, once we've all got the information it's no-one's business but our own, right? It's depressing seeing the level of 'us v them' judging in general on MN about women who have epidurals, women who have homebirths, women who have elective caesarians, etc, etc. I couldn't give a fig what anybody chooses, provided they have all the info and it's right for them, and it'd be nice if the feeling was mutual.