I was asked to move this discussion elsewhere.
For the record, I work in the NHS (not as a midwife) and am pretty fed-up with the slaggings- off that occur with monotonous regularity. No, the system is not perfect, but serves most people well. I have also been on the receiving end and have no serious complaints myself. I am just as horrified as anyone when I read stories like Fio2's, and airing them serves a purpose, not just for the victim but for the perpetrators. Mistakes can only be corrected if they are highlighted.
So, if anyone can be bothered, discuss!
"...maternity care in this country is in a scandlous state - it was terror that drove me to an independent mid-wife for dd2, despite deep-seated beliefs about private healthcare."
"...hatter, that's rather a sweeping statement.
No-one would deny that Fio2 has had a dreadful time, but there are many,many of us who have had pleasurable deliveries on the NHS. In general, maternity care is good. Yes, most hospitals could be pleasanter (if that's a word), but the basic care delivered is of high quality for most people. I have a lot to thank my local maternity unit for- I certainly wouldn't have been helped by an independent midwife!"
"Of course it's a sweeping statement I wasn't going to present a detailed argument in this context. But while I don't want to hi-jack this thread I have to respond as this is something I feel passionately about. Of course many people have had pleasurable experiences but there is plenty of evidence that the basic care is not of a high quality for most people. This is not about individual midwives, most of whom do a fantastic job in difficult circumstances. Nor is it about hospitals being "pleasant". It's about ceasarean rates of over 20 percent. It's about deliveries without intervention at 60 percent (at the midwife centre I used the normal birth rate is 80 per cent). It's about the blanket application of hospital protocols on induction, feotal heart-rate monitoring, the amount of time "allowed" for labour. It's about severe midwife shortages, resulting in many people being left unnattended for long periods of time, often resulting in stress and then interventions.
Choices in child-birth are very limited for many many women. I went to an independent mid-wife firstly because it was the only way I could have continuity of care - ie be attended during the birth by someone who had played a role in my ante-natal care; secondly because my GP refused point blank to have anything to do with me if I had a homebirth; and thirdly because I truly believed (and still do) that the level of stress/deep distress I was experiencing in late pregnancy because neither of these things were available to me, and the only option appeared to be a repeat performance of dd1's birth, was damaging to my health and that of my baby.
There is plenty of research to show that these first two things are instrumental in reducing the likelihood of interventions, in reducing post-natal depression, improving breast-feeding rates. Yet they are not available to the vast majority of women. (In London only 1.3 per cent of births take place outside hospital. ) I believe that this is scandalous. With many apologies to Fio for going off-thread."