Hi Gizmo (and others)
I picked up this thread from NHS BLOG DOCTOR. Gizmo you said:
"It doesn't help that ll the GPs in this conversation have a picture of normal birth as a risky activity, a picture I don't agree with. They are characterising the decision to homebirth as a decision to put the infant at higher risk in order to achieve some nebulous 'better experience'. Actually, that's a polite precis of what they actually say about women who homebirth."
That is an emotional statement; a "wish" statement if you like. Childbirth is the most dangerous physical thing a woman goes through until she reaches old age and serious illness intervenes.
I wish that was not the case, but it is.
Go back a hundred years and look at literature. Why were there so many "wicked" stepmothers? Because, sadly, so many women died in or shortly after childbirth.
I wish that home deliveries in the UK were safe. But they are not. You cannot predict with certainty who is going to have problems. Even the so called "lowest risk" mother can have an unexpected PPH or a cord prolapse.
If you have not already done so, read the tragic story of the midwife who STILL favours home births notwithstanding the avoidable death of her son due to unexpected complications of a home birth.
nhsblogdoc.blogspot.com/2006/05/home-birth-tragedy.html
That child would probably be alive and well today if the birth had taken place in hospital.
I speak not just as a doctor, but as the father of four children. All born in hospital. And pretty unpleasant some of it was too. I wish we could have had the babies at home. It is much more pleasant.
But it is not safe.
And it is not fair on the baby to put his/her life at risk so that you can have a touchy-feely home birth experience with the midwife.
I am sorry, but midwives who advocate home births in the UK are a dangerous liability.
Best wishes
Dr John Crippen
NHS BLOG DOCTOR (nhsblogdoc.blogspot.com/)