Hi raphbec, no, I did not have an epidural with DD1 - bloody wish I had, in hindsight! It was a long labour where I only used G&A. I was 2 hours pushing but she needed help to be born. It would had been good to conserve my energy by taking away the pain for a few hours, but I ended up exhausting myself without the adequate pain relief.
As DD1 was delivered by ventouse, this meant an episiotomy for me. Although I am completely healed now (DD1 born February 2009), it took several months for everything to feel back to normal with my undercarriage!
It may be that you are advised to have an ELCS for medical reasons. Mine was a 'Maternal Request' ELCS on paper, although the reasons for my request were a lot more complicated than that. I damaged my coccyx with DD1's birth and a chiropractor advised that I was at a significantly higher risk of damaging - and worsening - that part oft body with another vaginal delivery. I was advised AGAINST a CS by my consultant, but I was suspicious of the hospitals' reasons for doing so i.e. Their monthly figure for CS births should be 15%. Their March 2012 figure alone was 34% (my DD2 was born April this year). So, if they could get me to birth vaginally, that's one less CS for them.
I went into my CS informed of the risks and benefits and believe it was the most sensible option. I am aware that a woman really ought to have no more than 4 sections (the risks of CS increase with each one). However, i have heard of women having 4 (sometimes more) sections. Please bear in mind also that the risks of ELCS are less than with EMCS and that research figures tend to be bundled together.
I preferred the controlled nature of ELCS as opposed to my VB. I felt a bit scared, but not at all panicked. It was beautiful. There was a light-hearted atmosphere in the theatre and I was so well-taken care of. If you do have an ELCS, look at it positively: as a birth rather than an operation.
That book by East is great - all facts and zero guff.
Best of luck to you for now and the future x