i was like you worrying wot sort of pain it was going to be like, and u worry urself silly,,,i had my 1st baby 8weeks ago, and she was ten days early so i was glad in a way as i was total suprise, and u just deal with it.here how it happened n how i felt,lol>>>
12am> i culdnt get comfy in bed at all so went for a wee n ther was a little pop noise and that was my waters breaking, i thought it gushed but mine just trickled, and i then started getting mild period pains evry 8 to 5mins, i kept questioning weather i was in labour or not as its a strange feeling, we rang labour ward n they sed not to come in until the contractions come evry 2/3 mins
5am>like really intense period pains, but bearable, i just kept waking about, got to hospital
9am> only 1cm dialtedbody makes u go toilet loads,lol,and pain started getting alot more intense and started going round to my back bit like electric shock, the contractions get longer and bit more closer together, i tryed focusing on a point in the room n counting in my head, it annoyed me when my other half kept telling me to breath slowly,lol also labour made me be sick loads,my advice TRY SLEEP THROUGH CONTRACTIONS as u will need your engery later, the worst bit is knowing the next contraction is coming but at least u kno with each one its bringing you closer to meeting ur lil one.
1.45pm> contractions feel really heavy in the lower pelvis, alot of pressure heavy feeling, i found rocking or squatting helped ease it,in a wierd way your mind jus wants you to get to the pushing stage as u want it to be over so you dont panic when it actually happens, i got checked and was already 8cm!! so i had done it all with no pain relief so it cant be tht bad pain.
2pm> it goes so quick people rushing about it doesnt giv u time to think about pain as theres alot going on around you, i had gas and air as it was too late for anything else, i found if u suck in deep and take your time it helps,they took it off me when i came to push, this stage stings alot, i kept thinking i was doing a big poo,haha, but they jus told me its the pressure of babys head,i was more bothered by that than anything else,lol.it takes alot of energy and time to push the baby down before the head comes as evrytime you push it goes back up a little, when the head does crown, it burns so i found the midwife putting water the area helped alot, it feels really tight like you will rip but if you listen to midwife u wont and u just want your baby out, it took me 2hours to push her out, it made me push more when they threatened me with foceps or cut,haha.by the way shoulders didnt just slip out for me they took long as well,lol
4pm> your so out of it though yur body just automatically deals with it and you feel very distant from it all, mite have been gas and air :) after babys out it still stung down ther, but holding your baby makes it worth it.she had tore me on inside,so needed stiches,that was the worst bit out of the wole lot so the pain isnt tht bad for giving birth.i was too sensitive for them to stich me up with nuthing, so i had a spinal block, and it was brillant couldnt feel a thing!! so if you really feel you cant deal with pain then just have that,hehe, hope that give you an idea of wot it feels like, evryones different tho so jus go with the flow and stay calm, meeting your baby gets you through it!! :o