My DD is being bullied to the extent that it’s looking as though we’ll have to change schools. There’s more than one child involved (3 mainly) but the main perpetrator is a boy. He’s physically stronger (there have been incidents of him picking up her bag up off the desk and throwing it to the floor, shoving into her, etc). But worst and most frequent aspect of it is the trying to take her down by constantly name-calling, booing or laughing/making sarcastic comments when she tries to ask or answer a question.
The verbal abuse has been awful. Really horrible names, constantly.
School have been very poor at handling the matter but the Pastoral Care Lead has been off work. The school will not tell me wether they have informed the other parents.
Tonight the mother has posted on the parents’ WhatsApp group asking a practical question about term dates. So I now have her number - she lives in another country. I don’t know about the father.
I would not find it easy but I’m thinking of letting this woman know that her child is making my child utterly miserable. DD is having really bad/frequent nightmares and she’s not eating. She desperately doesn’t want to go back to school.
I’m quite sure he will start on someone else after we’ve gone and do the school will have to deal with him effectively at some point, otherwise they’re at risk of losing pupils often.
Also does anyone know what the best treatment or course of action is to get their child to emanate a “don’t mess with me” vibe? She just cannot find it inside to stand up to them.
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Child mental health
Should I contact this woman?
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Muddledbutwellmeaning · 03/01/2023 23:38
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