I’m trying not to be to sensitive but I can’t help it. As I guess it brings back some trauma of being a young black girl and absolutely hating my hair and skin.
My daughter has beautiful afro hair and I always try and leave it in her natural state as much as possible. She has mentioned on numerous occasions how she wants it’s straight like her friends at nursery. But I have managed to bring her round to loving her curls.
anyway today we went on a trip and her how obviously frizzed up due to the wind. BIL starts to laugh saying can’t I do something with it? “Her hair is bigger than her head” I said you do realise she has Afro hair regardless of her being mixed she still has my hair.
Then he mentioned soaking it and putting some product in it to weigh it down and tame it. I repeated to him again that she has AFRO hair.
i understand that he doesn’t mean no harm but Jesus Christ just let my daughter be herself.
AIBU to be annoyed? I feel so angry
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BIL thinks DD’s hair needs “taming”
Foreveraskingquestions · 20/02/2023 19:44
Foreveraskingquestions · 20/02/2023 19:56
She has been out with him on a few occasion and she has come back with a completely different hairstyle. I never thought anything about it before but now it’s made think.
Foreveraskingquestions · 20/02/2023 19:56
She has been out with him on a few occasion and she has come back with a completely different hairstyle. I never thought anything about it before but now it’s made think.
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