Of course pain relief is a good thing, im ust not explaining myself very well.
what i mean is that if teh general opinion is that something is bad...i would asusme that its bad.
obviously if there is a specific reason why you would need alternatives (like BEthbe) then yeah do some research but its those people who spend hours researching a subject in the attempt to fin d one peice of writtng that defends their own stance.
My ex's neices were both born addicted to heroine. his nephew was severly underweight and il from various other substance misuse.
because of that i am probably a little over carefull with what i take during pregnancy. seeing a 3 hour old baby screaming from withdrawle pain is the most unpleasant thing i have ever seen or heard.
but i just meant that there is no real need for pain relief its done for our benefit not the babies. therefore if you can manage without then please try.
As i said with my first i had an epidural. i had the most horrendous birth, it slowed everythign down, made my baby lazy and i couldnt feelwhen to push. both baby and i were distressed and tired.
i ended up with an epesiotomy and clamps after a 73 hour labour.
with my second i had nothing, not even a paracetemol. she was out within 30 minutes and i can honestly say if i had another i wouldnt touch pain relief.
no it wasn't pleasant but next time i will know i can do it, i will be much more relaxed and i am certain i will actually enjoy the experiance.
OH, and i can assure you i am no earth mother/hippie/loony