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How would you pronounce Anthony?

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igglepiggle599 · 25/02/2025 22:16

I'd love to use the name 'Anthony', but I've heard a lot of people (especially in the States) pronounce it using the 'h', which I really dislike. Is this likely to be a common problem?

I do get very bothered by certain pronunciations. I've already ruled out the name 'Anastasia' because I hate the way many people pronounce it with four syllables (An-uh-stay-zhuh instead of An-ah-stay-see-ah).

I'm aware that it can also be spelled 'Antony', but it just doesn't look quite right to me!

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 26/02/2025 01:15

The two Anthonies I know are both ANTH-o-nee, shortened to Anth. If you want a hard T, use the spelling that omits the H.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 26/02/2025 01:17

I wouldn’t pronounce it as a th

AnT o nee

Or tbh I’d just say Ant
or Tony.
if they were shortening the name .

Ps. Anastasia is one of our big family names. If family on one side have a girl it’s either
Anastasia or Johanna…going way back down the line.

WhenICalledYouLastNightFromTesco · 26/02/2025 01:29

If I was thinking about names, it would be Pan for a boy and Saoirse for a girl.

JennySayQuoi · 26/02/2025 01:37

My dad is Anthony, we don't pronounce the h (UK). Tony for short, so I suppose it's obvious to people in his case

Gruttenberg · 26/02/2025 01:49

SwedishEdith · 25/02/2025 22:30

I do know of one who shortens his name to Anth but he's quite pretentious.

I knew an Anastasia which was pronounced as Anna Stay Shuh - shortened to Stay Shuh.

its Anthony pronounced with a Th here, and always shortened to Anth - no one is known as Tony now. Edited to say strong working class area so definitely bit a pretentious pronunciation 😁

gettingthehangofsewing · 26/02/2025 01:53

I'm from the north I know a couple of Anthony's we pronounce it An-f-ni (ni like in nit)

So ne gets called Tony a lot

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PandaTime · 26/02/2025 04:24

Sco'ish here. All the Anthonys I know are Anth-ony and Anth for short.

mathanxiety · 26/02/2025 04:57

igglepiggle599 · 25/02/2025 22:55

Never said it was pretentious. Purely personal preference.

Disliking one thing that's typically American doesn't make me anti-American.

I think you'll find it's typically Australian and also Irish, and it also seems to be a fairly common pronunciation in Britain independent of foreign influences.

It's odd to zero in on American or assume the TH pronunciation is American.

mathanxiety · 26/02/2025 04:59

CointreauVersial · 25/02/2025 23:33

Well.....between DH and I we have a brother, a stepbrother, an uncle, a second cousin AND a nephew each called Anthony, so consider ourselves experts!

All spelled with a "th" and all pronounced with a hard "t". I can't imagine many Brits getting it wrong.

And yet there are Brits who spell it Antony.

mathanxiety · 26/02/2025 05:00

Another name that gets the TH treatment in Ireland is Thomas.

MumonabikeE5 · 26/02/2025 05:02

i had a Scouse house mate called An thon ee
we lived in London where many people called him Ant Knee

my dad was Ant(h)ony, he went by Tony.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 26/02/2025 05:06

In the UK people normally pronounce it without the H.
Are you happy with the name Tony? Because that's what he'll very likely end up being called by friends.

SD1978 · 26/02/2025 05:08

Scottish, always pronounced the 'th' if you don't want a 'Th' then you'd spell it Antony surely?

HappydaysArehere · 26/02/2025 05:08

His mates will call him Tony.

mushroomushroom · 26/02/2025 05:20

Irish, and I've almost exclusively heard it pronounced with the "th" sound, and would automatically pronounce it with the "th". The only time I've heard it as "ant-knee" (minus the h) was (as impolite as it is to say this) among inner city addicts in Dublin. Most of my friends with inner-city accents still pronounce it as "anth-o-knee". Still shortened to Tony in some cases.

sashh · 26/02/2025 05:25

Littlefish · 25/02/2025 22:18

I've only ever heard it pronounced either the 'th' sound in the middle when it's said by Americans. I've never heard it here in the UK.

I have met one who pronounced it an-thon-y but if I saw it written I would say ant-ony.

countrygirl99 · 26/02/2025 05:31

I've been married to an Anthony for 44 years. Ne er heard it pronounced the American way but he'll be called Tony anyway.

user1492757084 · 26/02/2025 06:51

I hear mostly Antony in Australia.
It is the default for Antony and Anthony.
Most are shortened to Ant or Tony.
I have heard Anthony said with the TH when the named person prefers it that way.

Goldenboysmum · 26/02/2025 06:51

My late son is Anthony, pronounced An-thony so with the th.

Although he was always Tony and only got Anthony when he was in trouble.

We're scottish, and I've never heard it said without the th in the middle.

To me Antony and Anthony are pronounced differently.

Emanwenym · 26/02/2025 07:34

Ant-unny, but some will insist on Anth-unny. Use it as a middle name.

Friendlynortherner · 26/02/2025 07:43

The th-pronunciation is standard in the north-east, so far as I know, (nothing at all to do with copying the States, it's just always been that way) and the t-pronunciation everywhere else in England.

Emanwenym · 26/02/2025 07:47

Ex-FIL and his son are from the NE and say it with a T.

Ddakji · 26/02/2025 07:50

Shitgift · 25/02/2025 22:23

Yep, Antony Ant-oh-knee, Anthony Anth-oh-knee. I'm British.

No, in Britain both are pronounced Anthony. You’re using the US pronunciation.

Everythingwillbeokay · 26/02/2025 07:54

My DH is Anthony, his DM says it without the h and his DF says it with. So they never even agreed!

It's a good name, never met anyone apart from his DF who pronounces the h.