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Bow for a girl?

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stacestation · 31/05/2022 20:54

What do people think of this? Have you ever heard of this being used as a full first name?

Woman from school derides popular names. Apparently her daughter has a unique 'name' though to call it a name is a bit of a stretch as I recently discovered the girl is called Bow, as in a hair bow, not bow and arrow.

The unfortunate part is that the area they're in all the local accents, including their own, pronounce it as Bore. I feel sorry for the poor girl. I can't mention the middle name as that would be outing, but that's even worse. The poor girl, it doesn't aspire to much.

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stacestation · 02/06/2022 10:56

There were 20 girls registered as Beaux in the last stats and some boys 🤔

As a pp said, it's plural, and again masculine. There are some really dense people about.

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babyjellyfish · 02/06/2022 11:57

SummaLuvin · 02/06/2022 10:29

Some words work as names and other don’t, there doesn’t seem to be a rhyme or reason, or rule book to it. You would be surprised to meet a girl called Flower, but Fleur is an accepted name here and in France. Equally Grace and Joy are considered normal names, but Elegant and Happy would raise eyebrows. So I don’t think saying Beau is a bad name because Handsome would be works logically.

I know, logically I get what you're saying.

But Beau isn't used as a given name in France, for either boys or girls, so French people would 100% think it was weird.

Even more so for Beaux, which as others have pointed out, is a plural.

TonyBlairsLover · 02/06/2022 12:35

What about arrow!??

Dinoteeth · 03/06/2022 12:26

TonyBlairsLover · 02/06/2022 12:35

What about arrow!??

That would have to be a boys name - points at the bow😛

SmellsLikeMiddleAgeSpirit · 03/06/2022 15:14

TonyBlairsLover · 02/06/2022 12:35

What about arrow!??

Shouldn't that be Arreau? 😀

blameitonthecaffeine · 04/06/2022 02:14

No strong feelings on Bow/Bo/Beau but I'm so jealous of these women called Bohemia and Isabeau - very cool.

Bow would be Bore in a strong Cumbrian accent, I think. And maybe in a Geordie/Durham/Mackem type accent too.

Clare88881111 · 12/04/2024 02:41

My daughters name is Bow and I love it Daisie-Bow to be precise and everyone calls her Bow.
I have Charlotte-Louise , Lillie and Connor and I wanted diffrent for my 4th . She is also a Rainbow Baby

flisch · 12/04/2024 14:25

I knew someone who named her daughter Beau, she said it was French for beautiful. Someone pointed out the feminine was Belle. She regretted the name after that.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 12/04/2024 14:29

https://names.darkgreener.com/#bow

Around 20 baby girls are named Bow each year in the UK plus a handful of boys so whilst it’s not by any means a common name it’s not completely unique or unheard of one.

Baby Names in England & Wales

Find the perfect name for your baby or spot naming trends - explore the names chosen for babies in England and Wales since 1996.

https://names.darkgreener.com/#bow

pinkmags · 12/04/2024 14:52

pronounce it as Bore

Where on earth do you live to pronounce Bow as Bore?Confused

Aprilshowers24 · 12/04/2024 16:38

I don't see how this effects you as it's not your child or your choice.
I know from personal experience how upsetting it can be to have my child's name pulled apart because it isn't to the taste of certain individuals.
It's one thing expressing an opinion on a name of a baby yet to be born (when people have asked for your opinion), but to pull a child's name apart who already owns that name is completely unnecessary.

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 20:09

Beautiful name.
In Irish "beo" means alive/lively.
There is a gorgeous Irish name meaning "living fire" which is often spelt "Bowie" to make it readable.
I love that it's different to the "-aya" names.

mum1345 · 12/04/2024 20:17

Just commenting to say I have an 11 year old daughter Beau 😅
I love it, she loves it and most people seem to love her name too ❤️

I'm sure there'll be a few people on this thread appalled by my name choice!

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 21:18

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 20:09

Beautiful name.
In Irish "beo" means alive/lively.
There is a gorgeous Irish name meaning "living fire" which is often spelt "Bowie" to make it readable.
I love that it's different to the "-aya" names.

But beo in Irish is not pronounced the same as bow is in English?

marshmallowfinder · 12/04/2024 21:23

stacestation · 31/05/2022 21:31

Better than the millions of Evas and Amelias I'd say.

I disagree. There's nothing wrong with a popular name, they're popular for a reason. There are still plenty of 'proper' names to choose if you want something unusual.

Waaaaay better than Amelia for sure, that means "absence of limbs."

SunnyFog · 12/04/2024 22:38

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 21:18

But beo in Irish is not pronounced the same as bow is in English?

Well the OP is highlighting that this child pronounces her name like the OP says "bore" - i am guessing OP has s non-rhotic accent and the child herself is saying the name like "bó".
But I don't think historically "beo" had the y in it that modern accents have, hence why the Anglicised name is Bowie and not Beeyowee.
(hope not too technical.)

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 23:36

@SunnyFog I don't know how it was pronounced historically, but anglicisations are often approximations and unreliable as a guide.

SunnyFog · 13/04/2024 08:30

TwirlBar · 12/04/2024 23:36

@SunnyFog I don't know how it was pronounced historically, but anglicisations are often approximations and unreliable as a guide.

Maybe but it's more likely a result of learners exaggerating the slender b. Described below from http://www.akerbeltz.org/index.php?title=Broad_vs_Slender

" First, Scottish Gaelic has lost some sounds. There used to be a slender [bʲ] [pʲ] [mʲ] [fʲ], but that distinction has been lost and replaced by a [j] glide before back vowels, and before front vowels, it's gone completely, e.g. bidh [biː]. What's the difference? The difference is that [bʲ] is one sound made with one smooth motion in your mouth. However, in modern Gaelic we get [bjɔː] beò in which three sounds are heard: [b], [j]. and an [ɔː]."

In Irish some native speakers do still use the old slender b. You can hear it on teanglann.ie in the Connacht recording for "beoir" (beer) but my phone is refusing to copy the link so you'll have search yourself.

Broad vs Slender - Goireasan Akerbeltz

http://www.akerbeltz.org/index.php?title=Broad_vs_Slender

Hoppinggreen · 13/04/2024 09:01

Can I advise people not to use the name Bow in Yorkshire.
It will be pronounced "Ber" and sound pretty awful

raspberryberet7 · 13/04/2024 09:14

SummaLuvin · 31/05/2022 21:08

I'm not trying to be unkind honestly

yet you made a thread on a public form with the sole purpose to bash/mock a childs name?

This. You're being very u kind and judgemental and presuming lots of things about a child based on her name just because you don't like it. Your post is awful tbh

KnickerlessParsons · 13/04/2024 10:31

IstayedForTheFeminism · 31/05/2022 21:00

Hair bow and bow and arrow are the same bow Confused

Bow is an awful name.
Beau is OK.

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

pinkmags · 13/04/2024 13:34

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

People call their girls Esmé, the masculine form of Esmée

KnickerlessParsons · 13/04/2024 23:19

pinkmags · 13/04/2024 13:34

You can't call a girl Beau! Beau is the masculine form of Belle.

People call their girls Esmé, the masculine form of Esmée

Doesn't make it right.

SnowFrogJelly · 14/04/2024 00:55

Bow = awful

MumChp · 14/04/2024 00:59

Bow?
No. Just no.

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