Hi
After advice from friends I decided to have a private 12 week scan done at The Fetal Medicine Center - and the next day had my 12 weeks scan at UCH.
I wish I'd thought more about this beforehand and decided not to go ahead as my partner and I have been down a long road of IVF and I cannot imagine deciding to terminate if there is something wrong. I never felt like there was a choice (clearly I didn't have to go privately) but the NHS 12 week scan is just given to you as a fait-accompli without anyone advising you that you may then face a very difficult decision that runs a risk of miscarriage.
Apparently my risk factor as a I walked through the door as I'm 42 was 1 in 38.
The FMC gave me 1 in 40 which puts me in the high risk category for Downs (which I understand now I was already in anyway). Everything on the scan was normal (heart, nasal bone, size, bloods etc) but the nuchal translucency measured 2.9mm which is outside their normal range. The baby was very active which I understand from other sites is a good sign of no problems - but makes it more difficult to get a correct reading.
UCH gave me exactly the same test ( it also included a transvaginal scan which apparently gives more detailed results - although not for nuchal fold). However their results were entirely different. Every marker was normal including the nuchal fold which they measured at 2mm. They were very pleased with the results and said it was a good scan as the baby was still enough for them to get an accurate reading. They said my risk is now 1 in 1080.
How can these results be so wildly different? I tend to believe the FMC as it's a specialist clinic (although it wasn't Nikolaides who scanned me). I checked out the guy who scanned me at UCH and he is a very well respected gynaecologist.
I don't think I want to go through with a CVS as I'd never forgive myself if there was nothing wrong and I then miscarried after everything we've been through. Even though they say it's 1% it still feels too risky especially when I cannot imagine terminating.
Clearly this is not an exact science. I cannot believe that women are being put through these stressful tests and there appears to be such a huge margin for error.
Has anyone else experienced anything like this?