What should I do? I'm a newbie poster but longtime follower Anyway its along one. I suffer from crohns and previous stroke and spinal issues. I moved to my current place in the country in 2014 with my 2 daughters into a womens refuge for safety from dv. We were the 3 warriors. My eldest made my life hell, going of the rails, got pregnant at 17, the father was addicted to heroin. I took them in, we got a place for him at a rehab and he did well. They got a council house and had another baby. My youngest did well at school went to uni and is very successful and we were all very close, holidays together sunday dinners etc. I saw eldest every day as. accoss the road. Then 3 years ago eldest started a new job, met a new friend. She has since been so cruel to her partner exluding him to the point he was on antidepressants and has kicked him out now, she hasn't had time for me at all and has morphed into this new friend. We dont see her at all. She gets £210 a month carers element and looks after my dog when I work once a week. She does nothing else now and when I say you do get the money she threatens to stop it. I do rely on her so im stuck. Obviously so much more but be good to get thoughts of others. Should I report her for benefit fraud? But then ill have no support at all.