Hello ladies, looking for some advice on whether I’m overreacting or not. My 20 month old burnt her hand on the cooker tonight. We were advised to go to a&e. I don’t drive and the car seat is in his car. I called him and his words were “ we don’t need to go to a&e it’s just a burn” it was a bad burn she was hysterical shivering and I knew myself we needed to go. He said he wasn’t leaving work and blamed my daughter being upset on me because I was obviously stressed and trying to deal with it all so yes I was a bit stressed out when speaking to him on the phone. He said send me a pic then I’ll decide if Im leaving, I didn’t do this as I wasn’t sitting deliberating with him whether he thinks the burn was bad enough or not. My brother ended up taking us and getting the car seat from my mums luckily he wasn’t working as he usually works nights. My brother texted him whilst at a&e saying you can come now and he just didn’t text him back. Am I in the wrong to feel hurt by this? Like I know he can’t just up and leave in any situation but this was one where we needed him to, and I had to justify that to him or try and prove my case. I just feel he let our daughter down too. In suppose it’s just hurt me as there’s been a couple is situations in our relationship where I’ve needed him and been let down. I’m just not sure if I’m thinking too emotionally as it’s been a very stressful and overwhelming evening.