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To think job market for those 55 and over is dire

222 replies

Bettyfordtoday · 25/04/2026 13:54

At 55, and recently made redundant from a highly paid corporate role I am struggling to get another role or even an interview.

I'm wondering what others do at this age point, too young to retire but seemingly too old to interview ?

Have a mortgage etc to pay and don't want to get in debt , redundancy pay will last if I am careful to the end of the year at most

OP posts:
CatusFlatus · 26/04/2026 09:58

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/04/2026 14:35

Unfortunately, my only formal qualifications are O levels and an NCDT diploma in Stage Management, technical theatre and design 😆 the O levels are a dead giveaway!

You can use the phrase 'GCSE equivalent' instead of O levels. Not perfect but can help.

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 09:58

Ncisdouble · 25/04/2026 14:39

I use only last 10 years of working history. I am younger but skilled in hiding my immigrant arse on CV...
Nothing has locations or dates. Take dates off, do not use all work history (no one really cares what you did at 20 unless it was massively important.
It seemed to work last time i job hunted last year.
Nothing what can identofy your protected characteristocs essentially unless it was part of your job or similar.
Re qualifications, I put equivalent ones for uk and current time

Edited

I'm sure there must be other professions that require this but there's no way of hiding it in teaching.

You have to account for every day since leaving school at 18 for Safer Recruitment so all work history has to be included with dates and all exam certificates have to be provided at interview stage.

InconsequentialFerret · 26/04/2026 10:14

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 09:58

I'm sure there must be other professions that require this but there's no way of hiding it in teaching.

You have to account for every day since leaving school at 18 for Safer Recruitment so all work history has to be included with dates and all exam certificates have to be provided at interview stage.

It used to be like this in local government, too. However, I recently applied for a job that only asked for last three years, which suited me fine.

There was an education part where I put my BA and MA and that required dates otherwise the form wouldn't complete. So I just wrote my school qualifications in the personal statement part, not mentioning dates and just bundled them together as English, Maths, social and science subjects Grades A-C.

In my personal statement I referenced jobs from 2010 onwards. I've got an interview next week!

To be fair they don't care about age, just about relevant experience, so pointless listing a hospitality job from 1989.

noworklifebalance · 26/04/2026 10:29

Surely after a certain age - not even that old, say 30y - no one cares about GCSEs and A-levels, especially if you have a degree. Even if you don’t, a decade of working history will demonstrate the level of skills, literacy, numeracy etc

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 10:35

InconsequentialFerret · 26/04/2026 10:14

It used to be like this in local government, too. However, I recently applied for a job that only asked for last three years, which suited me fine.

There was an education part where I put my BA and MA and that required dates otherwise the form wouldn't complete. So I just wrote my school qualifications in the personal statement part, not mentioning dates and just bundled them together as English, Maths, social and science subjects Grades A-C.

In my personal statement I referenced jobs from 2010 onwards. I've got an interview next week!

To be fair they don't care about age, just about relevant experience, so pointless listing a hospitality job from 1989.

It's because, in teaching, they have to be sure you've not been in prison.

Part time jobs alongside school/whilst at university don't need to be included, but we still have to include every job whether it's relevant to teaching or not from 30+ years ago with dates for each. You can't have any gaps which can't be easily explained or proven.

Along with GCSE, A Level, degree, teaching and other certificates.

Darkside0fm00n · 26/04/2026 10:42

Depending on the type of job that a person is applying for. Some online CVs require every job going back to age 16 & you have to account for any times not in work, with accurate dates & what you were doing.

Plus provide all original qualification certificates

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:01

Zov · 25/04/2026 14:00

I would go as far as to say over 48 to be honest. I know several people in their late 40s who are struggling something awful to get a job, even a basic, unskilled labour job. Employers favour younger people ALWAYS. Whether they admit it or not.

Surely that’s just the market? Youngster’s are struggling too - why would being 48 (19 years from retirement) mean they’re being discriminated against?

If that’s the case when are people hired?
20s - not experienced enough
30s - no, women will want Mat leave
48+ too old.

Are you saying there’s only an 8 year sweet spot?

Monolithique · 26/04/2026 11:03

It's difficult. I'm tempted to leave off my O levels, because that marks me out as at least 55.

I can put my A levels in, but with grade inflation my previously 'good' grades BBC, now don't look as good as they once did, what with so many getting straight As.

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:04

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 10:35

It's because, in teaching, they have to be sure you've not been in prison.

Part time jobs alongside school/whilst at university don't need to be included, but we still have to include every job whether it's relevant to teaching or not from 30+ years ago with dates for each. You can't have any gaps which can't be easily explained or proven.

Along with GCSE, A Level, degree, teaching and other certificates.

Surely a DBS check would be the easiest way to check that?

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:04

Monolithique · 26/04/2026 11:03

It's difficult. I'm tempted to leave off my O levels, because that marks me out as at least 55.

I can put my A levels in, but with grade inflation my previously 'good' grades BBC, now don't look as good as they once did, what with so many getting straight As.

Nobody cares about the grades so long as it’s above a C anyway

Idolovemydog · 26/04/2026 11:20

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 09:58

I'm sure there must be other professions that require this but there's no way of hiding it in teaching.

You have to account for every day since leaving school at 18 for Safer Recruitment so all work history has to be included with dates and all exam certificates have to be provided at interview stage.

Yep, same in social work/social care.
PS. I'm still a goth too.🖤

examworries2026 · 26/04/2026 11:23

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 09:09

I suppose it boils down to different employers having different biases. It will also depend on the nature of the role, the level you're hiring at and previous experience.

I once went for a teaching interview. I was mid 30s. The interview was going really well. You know when an interview is going well. Then they told me staff in the school had to do a 4 night annual residential. Not every year, it was done on a rotation basis. They asked who would look after my children when it was my turn. When I said, "Oh, my husband," I felt the whole tone of the interview change and went from thinking I've got a good chance of getting this job to instantly knowing I definitely wasn't getting it. The rest of the interview was just going through the motions and I didn't get it.

Firstly, my husband would have done it willingly - I didn't have a any doubt; secondly, I instantly realised that if I'd said, "Oh, my mum," I'd likely have got it; thirdly, they wouldn't have asked a male candidate that question in the first place.

Your post doesn’t make sense. Are you saying they didn’t employ you because you said your husband would look after your children while you were on the residential?

In any case they absolutely shouldn’t have asked you that question.

Aposterhasnoname · 26/04/2026 11:26

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/04/2026 14:35

Unfortunately, my only formal qualifications are O levels and an NCDT diploma in Stage Management, technical theatre and design 😆 the O levels are a dead giveaway!

So leave them off, once you get to 50 school exams are irrelevant.

UltimateSloth · 26/04/2026 11:35

Aposterhasnoname · 26/04/2026 11:26

So leave them off, once you get to 50 school exams are irrelevant.

Grade C Maths and English remain relevant for life and are required for lots of jobs. But I would just say I had GCSEs. They are the equivalent to O levels.

Once you have been offered the job and asked for your certificates, I doubt anyone is going to quibble that they're O levels.

Idolovemydog · 26/04/2026 11:51

Greenwitchart · 25/04/2026 14:49

I agree that it is hard because there is ageism in the workplace and because the economy is struggling in general.

I am 55 and I have a long term health condition.

I had to leave my last permanent role six months ago after raising a complaint against my manager for disability discrimination. The organisation offered me a financial settlement because I had enough evidence of being bullied/treated differently from the rest of the team. The bullying destroyed my confidence in my skills and experience.

Since then I was lucky to find a freelance role with a small business for the past 6 months but now that project is completed so I am trying to find something else and it is so difficult.

My CV only has my last 15 years of career and I have removed the dates of my qualifications.

I am flexible about the jobs I apply for and also looking at retraining and any freelance work I can get and I am trying to stay positive.

I do think government needs to do more about the over 50 and people with disabilities because they say they want people to work longer and be employed but do nothing to try to address the barriers that we face.

Can I ask you how long you worked in your job , if you don't mind ? I am going through this just now. I am going through a terrible time due to bullying and have a disability . I have never worked anywhere so horrible. Just going through the grievance process just now and can hardly sleep. Good for you .I am glad you won .

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:29

MidnightMeltdown · 26/04/2026 03:22

I’m not talking about ‘knowing how to use a computer’ or using Microsoft Word or Excel. Of course everyone knows the basics that have been around for decades. Tech has become an awful lot more advanced since then (at least in my industry) and what I’m seeing is that people are struggling to adapt.

It's probably people in their 50s who wrote the applications. We know how to program and write scripts and often learnt when people had to be careful with memory usage and so on, and we had to know how we impacted efficiency and cost. Of course some people are slow, but that is true of any age group, not just the over 50s. Most of my colleagues would be very dismissive of anyone who thinks tech is just MS Office applications.

You are being ageist. Please stop it.

I took my dates off my CV. A recruitment consultant made me put them back on. (He didn't even get me a job, either.) Fortunately another one did.

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:34

Darkside0fm00n · 26/04/2026 10:42

Depending on the type of job that a person is applying for. Some online CVs require every job going back to age 16 & you have to account for any times not in work, with accurate dates & what you were doing.

Plus provide all original qualification certificates

Yes, a couple of years ago, a friend was applying for teaching roles and had to account for a month between his summer job on a building site and being back in uni - in 1991. He had been on a driving holiday in the USA, but he couldn't actually prove it after all this time. And not everyone would remember at all.

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 26/04/2026 12:51

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:34

Yes, a couple of years ago, a friend was applying for teaching roles and had to account for a month between his summer job on a building site and being back in uni - in 1991. He had been on a driving holiday in the USA, but he couldn't actually prove it after all this time. And not everyone would remember at all.

In teaching this is because of safeguarding policy. You need to account for all the time in case of something untoward.

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 13:02

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:04

Surely a DBS check would be the easiest way to check that?

You'd think!

But it's just the way it's done.

We also have to sign a form to say we've never been convicted of any 'List 99' offences too. It's not even called that anymore.

I suppose it's just to make sure no one slips through the net.

WendyFromTransvisionWamp · 26/04/2026 13:06

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 10:35

It's because, in teaching, they have to be sure you've not been in prison.

Part time jobs alongside school/whilst at university don't need to be included, but we still have to include every job whether it's relevant to teaching or not from 30+ years ago with dates for each. You can't have any gaps which can't be easily explained or proven.

Along with GCSE, A Level, degree, teaching and other certificates.

I’m not a teacher but I work as a support staff at a secondary school. I applied last summer and as you said, had to list all my jobs since I graduated in 1993. I understand why this is done but equally it is bit pointless, as I moved to UK in 1998, so all those jobs before were in another country. I could have said anything, the school would have no way of finding out if I lied or not. But I guess it’s a box ticking exercise to show they have tried their best to check the information.

Tbh I was quite worried they’ll withdraw their offer as I had to explain why I had a 14 month gap from 1994-1995. I was unemployed as my country was in a deep recession, unemployment was 18% at that time. There were no jobs at all. But if there’s a current 30 year old going through my details, they would not understand the situation at all.

Luckily the job offer still stood and I’ve now been there nearly a year. I’m 53 and infact youngest of all the technicians with our department. I feel very lucky I found this job after 17 years as a SAHM AND being over 50.

ilovebrie8 · 26/04/2026 13:06

The market is truly awful! I have tried to reduce my CV but they check qualifications and can see when you qualified.
i was quizzed by a recruiter about what I was doing in 1997! mad as that’s 30 years ago almost…

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 13:08

examworries2026 · 26/04/2026 11:23

Your post doesn’t make sense. Are you saying they didn’t employ you because you said your husband would look after your children while you were on the residential?

In any case they absolutely shouldn’t have asked you that question.

Yes.

Maybe they were MN users and of the opinion that men are useless and assumed I'd be making excuses to not go or pulling out at the last minute due to childcare issues. Maybe they'd had experience of that happening before. Maybe their own husbands would have refused and they thought there was no chance my husband would agree to it.

But, you're absolutely right they shouldn't have asked the question in the first place!

Netcurtainnelly · 26/04/2026 13:10

age discrimination is definitely alive and kicking.

Darkside0fm00n · 26/04/2026 13:14

I went for a job interview on Friday
I am late 50s
Yes I had to produce all my work history since 16

Written test
Verbal test

Trint · 26/04/2026 13:15

I retired from teaching at 65 and I had a couple of lovely part time jobs since then. I do a load of grandchild care do I am not flexible about days but I am willing and hardworking and still working part time and doing childcare at 75. I think the fact that I was a teacher helps a lot. I attended a local toddler group session and the centre offered me work there. I am reliable and keen to learn which makes a big difference. A friend of mine in her mid sixties has just accepted a job as an entertainments manager for a care home. They had been looking for someone for ages.