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Meanings behind songs that people don't seem to know...

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Arlanymor · 28/10/2025 21:38

Do you remember the Real Fires advert with the dog kissing the cat and the cat kissing a mouse? My mum brought it up the other day as one of their neighbours has just got a dog that looks identical to the one in the advertisement. Awww!

I couldn't quite remember the song that was the soundtrack so I looked it up later... it's Will You Love Me Tomorrow by The Shirelles and I brought it up on YouTube to listen to it. It's about a one night stand isn't it? I had no idea until now... there I was thinking it was a lovely warm anthem for chaste kisses between pets!

By the way, not remotely making a judgement about the topic, I've a had a few 'Shirelles' nights of my own in the past... I just never knew what it was about before. Have you had any similar revelations?!

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SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 09:05

FilthyforFirth · 29/10/2025 09:02

Wow this thread took off after I posted! I dont think it's holier than thou to not know songs are about drugs.. If you first heard them as a child as I did, i.e. Golden Brown or Perfect Day, why an earth would you make that connection?

So many more here mentioned that I didnt know, are songs about anything else?!

Terry Wogan used to say that the Stranglers song was about 'our beloved prime minister' so often that I actually started to believe it Grin

Ddakji · 29/10/2025 09:06

SriouslyWhutNow · 29/10/2025 01:36

What it says to me is that posters like you paid zero attention at school during drug education lessons and didn’t bother educating yourself about it all either, letting yourself and your future children down by being unable to keep them safe.

So not the “I’m so amazing and well-brought-up” look that these faux naive posters were going for. I feel the same way about adult women who pretend they don’t understand contraception. Anyone of childbearing age absolutely got told all this stuff at school multiple times and none of it should be surprising to anyone who was paying attention so they only have themselves to blame.

There weren’t any drug education classes in my schools in the 70s and 80s when Golden Brown was a hit. So no, we didn’t know what it was about at all. Nothing holier than thou about that!

user1471538275 · 29/10/2025 09:06

This thread is making me realise I really don't listen to the lyrics. :(

I never got inference or symbolism in poetry appreciation either.

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 29/10/2025 09:06

I was 14 when Afternoon Delight was released and not worldly or experienced but even so, there was no doubt what the song was about! It couldn't be much more explicit.

sarahwarah11 · 29/10/2025 09:07

I'm glad someone mentioned you're gorgeous by babybird. Such a disturbing song

snowmichael · 29/10/2025 09:07

LaserPumpkin · 29/10/2025 00:11

I Will Always Love You - played so often at weddings, but it’s a breakup song.

And Every Breath You Take - the song of the stalker - also gets played a lot as a first dance song at weddings

TheWiseAmethyst · 29/10/2025 09:08

SriouslyWhutNow · 29/10/2025 01:36

What it says to me is that posters like you paid zero attention at school during drug education lessons and didn’t bother educating yourself about it all either, letting yourself and your future children down by being unable to keep them safe.

So not the “I’m so amazing and well-brought-up” look that these faux naive posters were going for. I feel the same way about adult women who pretend they don’t understand contraception. Anyone of childbearing age absolutely got told all this stuff at school multiple times and none of it should be surprising to anyone who was paying attention so they only have themselves to blame.

This post reminded me of the song "Gentle reminder of an appointment".

prh47bridge · 29/10/2025 09:08

SouthernNights59 · 29/10/2025 04:15

I actually agree with this, and I also think some people invent "meanings" behind songs that are not there. I could write a song about my cat, it could become a hit, and there would be numerous people swearing it was about drugs. They are just pretending to be clever and , as you said, superior.

Indeed. The genesis of Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds is well known. Ringo was present when Julian came home with a painting that he described as "Lucy - in the sky with diamonds" to his father. The identity of Lucy is well known (sadly, she died in 2009 at the age of 46) and the painting still exists. The Beatles have been quite open that some of their other songs were about drugs (Day Tripper, Got To Get You Into My Life, Doctor Robert and others), but they all insist that this song isn't and that the title is not a hidden reference to LSD. And yet this myth persists. Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds is NOT about taking drugs.

MrsBlobby64 · 29/10/2025 09:08

Stevie Wonders 'Happy Birthday' is a protest song against the USA government at the time refusing to honour the birthday of Martin Luther King.

RunningNananananananananana · 29/10/2025 09:09

I didn't realise Flowers by SFA was about standing by a grave until last year 😭

snowmichael · 29/10/2025 09:11

SriouslyWhutNow · 29/10/2025 01:36

What it says to me is that posters like you paid zero attention at school during drug education lessons and didn’t bother educating yourself about it all either, letting yourself and your future children down by being unable to keep them safe.

So not the “I’m so amazing and well-brought-up” look that these faux naive posters were going for. I feel the same way about adult women who pretend they don’t understand contraception. Anyone of childbearing age absolutely got told all this stuff at school multiple times and none of it should be surprising to anyone who was paying attention so they only have themselves to blame.

> What it says to me is that posters like you paid zero attention at school during drug education lessons
Or poster is old enough that, like me, they didn't have drug education lessons (other than anti-smoking)

Ddakji · 29/10/2025 09:12

RessicaJabbit · 29/10/2025 08:58

But surely you don't live under a rock? I don't touch drugs, never have, don't know anyone who does it deals or whatever.

But i still have an understanding of them, cultural references, impact etc

It's not a secret code a lot of the time, Its plain to see that songs like A Team are about drugs for example

I had a very sheltered upbringing, for which I’m pretty grateful, and sing along mindlessly to songs all the time. Often lyrics are absolute gibberish so I don’t go looking for deeper meaning
in the ones that happen not to be.

These threads come round fairly often and they’re always full of people being smug for knowing something others didn’t, but that knowledge isn’t significant. My life didn’t change once I knew what Golden Brown was about!

SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 09:12

user1471538275 · 29/10/2025 09:06

This thread is making me realise I really don't listen to the lyrics. :(

I never got inference or symbolism in poetry appreciation either.

A great many people subconsciously ignore the verses of songs and only home in on the chorus.

On Tenable, whenever they have a list of 'the first lyrics of X or more letters to Y song', a lot of contestants will jump straight to the chorus and then look surprised when they're told that they're wrong.

Even with many extremely well-known songs, people don't just join in with the chorus because it's their favourite bit; rather it's the only bit they actually know by heart!

MagpiePi · 29/10/2025 09:12

WinterFrogs · Today 06:19
PS I was school in 70s/80s and there were no drug lessons at my school. Very little in the way of sex education too.

I was at secondary school in the 80s and we had a maths teacher who would if asked, give his A level classes detailed information about how to recognise magic mushrooms including drawing diagrams on the blackboard, and where you could find them locally. We also used to go to the pub at lunchtime with some of the teachers.

Thecarstairsitreallyhurtsmegirl · 29/10/2025 09:14

Ddakji · 29/10/2025 09:06

There weren’t any drug education classes in my schools in the 70s and 80s when Golden Brown was a hit. So no, we didn’t know what it was about at all. Nothing holier than thou about that!

I left in 82 ,no drug education mind I don't think it would have stopped me as it was an integral part of Northern soul scene.

snowmichael · 29/10/2025 09:15

Mothership4two · 29/10/2025 04:24

That is what caused the massive fuss when it was released (along with the 'black Jesus')

> along with the 'black Jesus'
Alannah Miles Black Velvet also did not go down well in certain lowlife areas of the US...

mikado1 · 29/10/2025 09:16

IamIfeel · 29/10/2025 05:48

I mean, it’s literally in the lyrics. I will never forget the time Radio One had a news item about a mass school shooting in America then immediately played this song after the news segment finished.

The writer has said it's not about a school shooting though. It's about a specific troubled child yes but school isn't mentioned. He says it looked different jn the later era of school shootings.
It is incredibly uobeat for such a heavy subject.

SprayWhiteDung · 29/10/2025 09:17

I still can't believe that Lulu's 'Boom Bang-a-Bang' got past the censors for Eurovision. It was back in the days when it was all much more innocent too; as opposed to nowadays, when many of the songs are routinely a lot more 'knowing' and 'worldly'.

It's a really unashamedly filthy song - and she's clearly not just singing about her heart beating!

Fluffyblackcat7 · 29/10/2025 09:17

AliTheMinx · 29/10/2025 00:05

I didn't realise for years that There She Goes by the LAs is about heroin use - just like the beautiful song Angel.by Sarah McLaxhlan is about drug use.

I also only recently got around to working out what Purple Rain was about.

Ok, what is Purple Rain about?

Cheese55 · 29/10/2025 09:18

Ddakji · 29/10/2025 09:12

I had a very sheltered upbringing, for which I’m pretty grateful, and sing along mindlessly to songs all the time. Often lyrics are absolute gibberish so I don’t go looking for deeper meaning
in the ones that happen not to be.

These threads come round fairly often and they’re always full of people being smug for knowing something others didn’t, but that knowledge isn’t significant. My life didn’t change once I knew what Golden Brown was about!

I think the point is, there is a wider world outside of your bubble and people are having and living experiences different to you. We are richer people if we know about wider issues around us even though it doesnt directly impact you day to day

Onmytod24 · 29/10/2025 09:19

John Lennon song, ‘im just a jealous guy’ a domestic abuse anthem- ‘ I didn’t mean to hurt you. I didn’t mean to make you cry. I’m just a jealous guy.’

latetothefisting · 29/10/2025 09:20

NoMoreHotHols · 29/10/2025 00:37

With reference to the song about drugs: how were you supposed to know these were wbout drugs if you’ve never been near them and have no experience? I can only relate to things that I know of, I’m not sure how I was ‘supposed to know’. I’m pretty crap at hearing lyricw correctly as well. :-)

Well by that (illogical) argument nobody who has ever directly witnessed child abuse or been in a school shooting or fallen in love or been stalked would have a clue about any of the other songs mentioned here either!

You don't have to have done something to understand it!

user1471538275 · 29/10/2025 09:22

Tori Amos said that cornflake girl was more generally about female betrayal - the 'cornflake girl' is a woman who can't be trusted - who will let you down in the worst way.

In terms of FGM she was talking to a friend about this at the time she was developing it so it certainly fed in to the theme of betrayal by women that you trust, but it doesn't seem to be the main theme.

snowmichael · 29/10/2025 09:23

ThatBlackCat · 29/10/2025 07:57

Um, we all had drug education lessons. That doesn't mean we had the lived experience to understand in jokes about drugs in songs.

No, 'we all' didn't

IamIfeel · 29/10/2025 09:25

mikado1 · 29/10/2025 09:16

The writer has said it's not about a school shooting though. It's about a specific troubled child yes but school isn't mentioned. He says it looked different jn the later era of school shootings.
It is incredibly uobeat for such a heavy subject.

It's actually surprising that it's not about shootings. And when you look at the lyrics, it is really more surprising that more people don't assume it's about shootings. Either way, I still think it was a horrendously poor choice of music to play immediately after that news item.

Robert's got a quick hand
He'll look around the room, but won't tell you his plan
He's got a rolled cigarette
Hanging out his mouth, he's a cowboy kid, yeah
He found a six-shooter gun
In his dad's closet, and with a box of fun things
I don't even know what
But he's coming for you, yeah, he's coming for you
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run outrun my gun
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run faster than my bullet
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run outrun my gun
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run faster than my bullet
Daddy works a long day
He'd be coming home late, yeah, he's coming home late
And he's bringing me a surprise
'Cause dinner's in the kitchen, and it's packed in ice
I've waited for a long time
Yeah, the sleight of my hand is now a quick pull trigger
I reason with my cigarette
Then say, "Your hair's on fire, you must have lost your wits, yeah"
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run outrun my gun
All the other kids with the pumped up kicks
You better run, better run faster than my bullet

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