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Rejected from Scottish nursery - please help!

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PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 11:47

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My DD has just been rejected from our local nursery (literally a 2 minute walk from home) due to capacity. I called to ask about alternatives and was told the 2 other nurseries in our village are also full. The only option the could offer was a nursery 10 miles away.

I’m really upset and worried about this. It’s not at all practical for us to be driving 10 miles each way before work every morning, and I’m also anxious that if she can’t get into a local nursery now, she may struggle to get into the local primary when the time comes.

Has anyone been in this situation? What did you do? Is there anything I can do to challenge this and push for a place locally?

OP posts:
TalulaHalulah · 20/09/2025 15:26

Marieb19 · 20/09/2025 15:20

Actually there some obligations on Local Authorities as defined in the Childcare Act 2006. Not sure to what extent it applies in Scotland.
Local authorities are not obligated to provide every child with a nursery place but must ensure there are sufficient places to meet the demand for childcare from working parents, as per the Childcare Act 2006. They must also secure funding for free early education hours for all three- and four-year-olds, and for eligible two-year-olds. Local authorities are responsible for securing sufficient childcare but should not provide it directly unless no other providers are available.

If you read the very first line of that legislation, you will see that it applies in England.

stichguru · 20/09/2025 15:29

PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 11:55

Perhaps I should have stated in my original post that this is a local authority nursery. It’s a case of applying when the window opens each year.

Surely the council have an obligation to ensure there are adequate early years education facilities to accommodate local residents? If the LA cannot accommodate these children in nursery, how are they going to accommodate them in primary school?

The two have no bearing on each other. There is no obligation of councils to provide any early years provision. Moreover, there is no obligation on parents to use early years provision. Also private provision is often still available to 3-4 year olds fairly cheaply and parents may chose to continue to use this. Predicting how many parents will chose to send their children to school nursery at 3 is therefore very challenging.

For LAs accommodating children in primary school is MUCH easier, because the only children who WON'T be in the primary schools are those who go to private school of which generally there won't be many, children who are home educated of which there also won't be many, and children who go to special school which will also be a small number AND which the LA will have helped place and so will be aware of. So overall predicting school places is easy compared to predicting pre-school places.

Fundays12 · 20/09/2025 15:38

PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 11:55

Perhaps I should have stated in my original post that this is a local authority nursery. It’s a case of applying when the window opens each year.

Surely the council have an obligation to ensure there are adequate early years education facilities to accommodate local residents? If the LA cannot accommodate these children in nursery, how are they going to accommodate them in primary school?

Are you in catchment? They tend to prioritise kids in catchment but be aware local authorities have a legal obligation to ensure there are enough funded places for all 3 and 4 year olds but that doesn't mean you have the right for your child to attend the nursery you want them to. When did you apply? Is your child just turning 3?

Fundays12 · 20/09/2025 15:44

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 11:58

No - there is no obligation for the state to provide nursery places. Some schools happen to have them - they are few and far between.

There are a lot more school places than nursery places; and most schools don’t have a state-funded nursery attached.

It’s a lottery, you haven’t won it, you need to find an alternative. I agree it’s unfair some people can get free nursery and others can’t.

There is a legal obligation in Scotland that all lical authorities must provide adequate spaces for all 3 and 4 year old children. This can be in a local authority nursery or funding can be used by a childminder or private nursery. Under 3 they have no obligation. This is written in the Children and young people's act scotland 2014

Rainbowdays123 · 20/09/2025 15:51

I live opposite a primary school. Didn’t get a place in the nursery (pre school) because there were on 16 places and they all went to younger siblings of children in the school.

My DD1 stayed in her private nursery until she started reception. Which to be honest worked better for us anyway as the private nursery was 8-6 and the school nursery was only school hours. School nurseries only really seem to work if you have a nanny or childminder to do the wrap around.

Differentforgirls · 20/09/2025 16:08

PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 12:12

Sorry, I feel I maybe only gave half the story in my OP.

In Scotland, children are entitled to 30 hours free childcare after they turn 3. My DD turns 3 in October, but the government recently cut the October intake, so she now has to wait until the January 2026 intake to receive her space and funding. We followed the process of applying to 3 places (2 LA, 1 private) during the application period and have been rejected from all 3.

What has really gotten my back up is that a new builder moved in locally with the promise of a new school and nursery. They’ve now pulled that plan, and all the children that have moved in are now zoned to the school my DD will go to. I’m not saying my DD should have priority, but surely the government has to provide enough places for all local residents?

They do.

gingercat02 · 20/09/2025 16:14

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 12:29

She’s applying for a nursery place, not a reception place.

No reception in Scotland, straight into P1 (same in NI)

Mumstheword1983 · 20/09/2025 16:20

Rainbowdays123 · 20/09/2025 15:51

I live opposite a primary school. Didn’t get a place in the nursery (pre school) because there were on 16 places and they all went to younger siblings of children in the school.

My DD1 stayed in her private nursery until she started reception. Which to be honest worked better for us anyway as the private nursery was 8-6 and the school nursery was only school hours. School nurseries only really seem to work if you have a nanny or childminder to do the wrap around.

That's interesting. There's no catchment for local authority nurseries in my authority so having an older siblings at the attached school doesn't come into the criteria for being awarded a space at the nursery.

I wish it did as I have 3 older children at the primary and would love that to matter but it doesn't here so I will cross my fingers for a place.

Differentforgirls · 20/09/2025 16:23

Lemonsandsunshine · 20/09/2025 13:47

Had this situation (in scotland) 10 years ago. Eldest got a nursery placement too far away to walk (about 6 miles) it took some juggling with grandparents, childminder filling in gaps and breakfast club to manage it but we managed. Nursery was fantastic, eldest got placed in catchment nursery the next year and some of my fondest memories are of walking my eldest through the woods to get to the nursery. Had to park quite a bit away as the car park was so busy. It's disappointing and upsetting but good things can come from it.

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There are no catchment nurseries.

Differentforgirls · 20/09/2025 16:34

EvaShoe · 20/09/2025 14:14

You can firmly blame the Scottish Government for this. It's happening in nurseries all over the country since they widened the age range for deferring to p1 entry. So lots more kids staying at nursery an extra year, but no more nursery places provided. Kids turning 3 therefore have no place while kids who are nearly 5 or 5 remain in nursery an extra year. The whole thing is a mess. If your daughter is just turning 3, you might not get a space this year, but you should next year when she is 4. If she is already 4 and you've just moved to area, you are likely stuck without a place till school.

Local Authorities administer EY. Not the SG.

Teathecolourofcreosote · 20/09/2025 16:35

Can you not use your hours with a childminder registered under the scheme? That certainly used to be the case.

The private school near us has a nursery and some chose to use them there for longer days (although less hours because they didn't have school holidays in same way).

It's disappointing you didn't get the place for the ante pre school year. I wonder how much increased deferrals are having an impact here? But are you sure there aren't better private options than the one 10 miles away?

Tastaturen · 20/09/2025 16:38

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 12:29

She’s applying for a nursery place, not a reception place.

There is no such thing as a reception place in Scotland.

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 16:43

Tastaturen · 20/09/2025 16:38

There is no such thing as a reception place in Scotland.

‘A school place as opposed to q nursery place’

EvaShoe · 20/09/2025 16:47

Differentforgirls · 20/09/2025 16:34

Local Authorities administer EY. Not the SG.

Scottish Govt changed ruled on school deferrals meaning any child turning 5 from August onwards in their p1 year could defer school. No plans in place to support LAs with funding for the extra spaces this would require, nor any consultation. It is the repercussion of a poorly thought out SG policy.

EvaShoe · 20/09/2025 16:48

And they did this in the midst of ongoing shortage in the sector. This 100% lands on them

RaraRachael · 20/09/2025 16:56

Every time there is a new build scheme in our area the builders claim there will be a new school or nursery included - none have ever materialised. There hasn't been a new school built since 1974 despite hundreds of new houses being built.

As PPs have said, nursery places may be affected by deferred children. Back in the day these were usually only January and February birthdays but they now seem to be getting earlier and earlier.

Soontobesingles · 20/09/2025 17:00

PartyRingaRosie · 20/09/2025 11:55

Perhaps I should have stated in my original post that this is a local authority nursery. It’s a case of applying when the window opens each year.

Surely the council have an obligation to ensure there are adequate early years education facilities to accommodate local residents? If the LA cannot accommodate these children in nursery, how are they going to accommodate them in primary school?

There is no statutory obligation for
the local authority to provide early
years places a two minute walk from your home. The caps are the absolute and there is nothing that can be done, apart from join a waiting list. Even at primary level, you are not guaranteed a place at the most local school, and again if they have no places then places cannot be fabricated from thin air. There is nothing they can do apart from put you on a waiting list. YABU.

Teathecolourofcreosote · 20/09/2025 17:04

EvaShoe · 20/09/2025 16:47

Scottish Govt changed ruled on school deferrals meaning any child turning 5 from August onwards in their p1 year could defer school. No plans in place to support LAs with funding for the extra spaces this would require, nor any consultation. It is the repercussion of a poorly thought out SG policy.

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@EvaShoe yes. They can now have a bonus year at pre school but there's no extra places.

And with 30 hours no incentive for parents to get them in school.

While some kids may benefit, these could always be considered so don't understand why it has to become universal.

I also don't think they've considered the knock on at the other end of almost 13 year olds still in primary. My 12 year old wasn't one of the most ready in p1 (in the middle in terms of birthday) but my god he's grown about a foot in the last six months and (despite being young for his age) has grown up such a lot, physically and emotionally.

I don't think primary schools are set up to be dealing with kids of this size and associated behaviours, especially in rural schools with composite classes across many year groups.

I dreaded secondary but it's been great for him and I can see he was in need of it, despite being one of those you wouldn't call advanced for his age in any respect.

cramptramp · 20/09/2025 17:12

There is no one to challenge. You’re not entitled to a Nursery place. LAs can accommodate children in schools because schools have more places than Nurseries.

helpfulperson · 20/09/2025 17:26

There seems to be alot of confusion here about the difference between preschool education and chilcare. Scottish local authorities are obliged to provide preschool education not childcare. However as a PP pointed out in a ridiculous move the scottish gov said pupils could get a third year of preschool education without providing resources meaning many LA are failing to meet their statutory obligation.

Franpie · 20/09/2025 18:22

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 20/09/2025 14:03

Primary school education is different. All children must go to school so the LA must provide facilities for all.

No, all children must be educated, but they don’t need to go to school.

Semantics. The LA must provide a school place for everyone who wants one. No need to be pedantic.

littleorangefox · 20/09/2025 19:01

Dancingsquirrels · 20/09/2025 13:40

In Scotland, srate nurseries don't have catchment areas. Is there a state nursery near your work?

You need to be careful with that because there have been huge issues recently with some councils refusing funding for cross-boundary places. A friend of mine has to pay the full fees for her 3 year old despite him being entitled to the 1140 hours because he goes to a nursery near her work which isn't in the same local authority area that they live in 😬

littleorangefox · 20/09/2025 19:09

CrustyBread1977 · 20/09/2025 13:11

Which local authority are you in?

This. I'm also curious to know because things can vary by area. Not often by much but it can make a difference. Although I'm unaware of any councils who would start funding a 3 year old with an October birthday any earlier than the following January anyway. I know Glasgow it used to be the Monday after your third birthday but they changed it. But the OP says she lives rurally. Although saying that some semi-rural areas could come under Glasgow city Council.

Appin · 20/09/2025 19:25

You should have posted this in Scotsnet! So much confusing advice from people who live in England.

The spaces avaliable will have been filled by children who are higher up in the admissions priority list than your child. They have discharged your duty by offering you a place, even if it's not a convenient one. You can ask for your application to be considered again at future admissions panels, in the hope that a place comes up. These are every 6 months in the authority I work in, but you'd need to check your LA website.

Appin · 20/09/2025 19:26

In the meantime, you could approach closer private nurseries who may have spaces, or use your 30 hours funding at a childminder, if you can get a funded place.

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