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Am I just stuck in the past or are price increases recently out of control?

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newire · 09/09/2025 16:40

I am late 40’s and so there is some change my idea of prices are stuck in the past but my DH had a day off yesterday and we went up to town to go to a film and then dinner at very basic but nice Greek place, we got up to town early so went to a café for a cup of tea and a bit of cake to share. By the time we got home we had spent £100. In 2019 we could have done the exact same evening out for half of that. Which does leave me feeling like the goal posts have been moved quite a bit.

Obviously, I know prices go up, that hospitality is under a lot of pressure but prior to this it took more like 20 years for prices to double and now they have doubled in the past 4 or 5 years and it shows little sign of slowing down. Same with anything you buy, a new paperback book can be £15! It feels like Tea is more expensive every week.

Like I say I know prices go up but am I crazy to feel that things have gone up excessively? Even though inflation is supposed to be falling the price of products and services never seems to fall. Or am I just getting old and stuck in the past?

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PaulaD811 · 10/09/2025 17:57

Agreed, we are at the point where regular shopping is unaffordable and never eat out, we both work full time and could do it every once in a while but I just think close £40 for breakfast with hot drinks is borderline ridiculous so we don’t do anything anymore, I buy yellow sticker reduced items and the shopping is still expensive , I don’t know how people do it

idontknowhowtodreamyourdreams · 10/09/2025 18:02

FanofLeaves · 09/09/2025 17:02

I don’t bother with coffee shops anymore, our local one was £2.80 for a flat white 18 months ago and it’s £3.90 now. Even a babycinno in a tiny cup is £2.

No regional difference anymore in pubs. When I go to visit family in Norfolk I used to be pleased to get a cheaper glass of wine; now it’s only 10p less than in my South East London local.

Same. I no longer do take away coffees, cafes etc, or do so rarely as treats for the kids. The price is rarely justified by the quality of the coffee and service.

The last time I took the kids out to a local cafe, the service was appalling as was the cake and coffee. I get that as an industry hospitality is under pressure, but when they can't be arsed to bring you cutlery it's time to walk.

I have a lovely coffee ritual at home for the mornings now.

catlover123456789 · 10/09/2025 18:04

I've tried to do a fair look at all my costs here vs last year
Mortgage: down, but only because our previous mortgage was so expensive
Council tax: Up
Anything to do with pets (food, litter, insurance, vet bills): Up
Water: Similar because we went from rate to meter. If we'd stayed on rates, it would have doubled
Weight loss medication: Up
Mobile phone, internet: Up
Streaming services: similar, but the lower tiers now contain ads, so effectively up
Takeaways: Up. I can't afford takeaways anymore really.
Petrol: Down, because I work remotely now
Car tax and other car costs like congestion charge: Up
Electricity and Gas: Down, but only because we shelled out thousands on solar panels
Anything to do with house renovation: Up . Eg I bought same handles for downstairs doors as upstairs doors and the price was higher this time
Non-essential wellbeing appointments eg massages, hair cuts: down, because I can't afford to do them anymore.
Holidays: HAHAHAHAHA
Wages: Static

It's pretty depressing tbh!

HunterCarrie · 10/09/2025 18:14

I was just thinking that on Saturday. Went for a long walk with teens and one became very hungry so we had stopped for a pizza . He had pizza , the other one wanted only bowl of chips , add 3 more drinks (non alcoholic) and boom I was 50 £ lighter….for 1 pizza with side dish…

ChangingWeight · 10/09/2025 18:19

I’m in my 20s and feel like life has always been expensive

Rhaenys · 10/09/2025 18:24

Some of my family got a Chinese the other day, I didn’t fancy it, thankfully, because a chicken curry, boiled rice and a king prawn chow mein with delivery came to £21!! It still would’ve been £19.40 if they’d picked it up!

SukiPook · 10/09/2025 18:26

I was in a very nice café the other day that I used to go to quite a lot before my daughter was born (she's 5). So, they've had to put their prices up, like everyone has....
but their porridge was NINE quid! So was their fancy granola! Omelettes and so on were £14 or £15! Luckily I had already had breakfast and was just having a coffee. A cappuccino was £3.90. I had the same thoughr you had... prices have literally doubled in the last 5 years or so. I was trying to think how much porridge (yes, fancy porridge but still basically oats!) used to be a few years ago and I was thinking maybe £3.50 or £4 max? £9 is mental.
It's since Brexit really - things are still quite cheap in some other places in Europe. I'm in Northern Ireland by the way.

lilkitten · 10/09/2025 18:27

Definitely so on some things, meat for instance. I think 7-8 years ago we'd still spend £60 on a meal for 2, I think the cinema here was about £8 each, so I've not noticed a massive expense increase on going out. I ran a cinema when I was younger, finishing 24 years ago - tickets were £4.90 for an adult then, so it's now about doubled here, which I guess isn't bad in that time. I ran a bar in the cinema - £2.20 a pint: the norm here is now about £6-£7 a pint, but one pub near me charges £10 a pint!

Pigeon31 · 10/09/2025 18:39

StarCourt · 09/09/2025 18:42

I buy Tesco own brand chocolate raisins as a treat. They have shot up from 89p to £1.50 now for a smaller bag.

There has been an issue with the chocolate crop so the price of chocolate has gone up -- yes so has the price of everything but there's a specific reason for that one.

https://www.foodandwine.com/chocolate-prices-skyrocketing-8610938

Chocolate Prices Are Skyrocketing — and it Has Very Little to do With Inflation

The price of cocoa hit an all-time high, reaching a staggering $5,874 on the New York commodities market.

https://www.foodandwine.com/chocolate-prices-skyrocketing-8610938

R0ckandHardPlace · 10/09/2025 18:39

SukiPook · 10/09/2025 18:26

I was in a very nice café the other day that I used to go to quite a lot before my daughter was born (she's 5). So, they've had to put their prices up, like everyone has....
but their porridge was NINE quid! So was their fancy granola! Omelettes and so on were £14 or £15! Luckily I had already had breakfast and was just having a coffee. A cappuccino was £3.90. I had the same thoughr you had... prices have literally doubled in the last 5 years or so. I was trying to think how much porridge (yes, fancy porridge but still basically oats!) used to be a few years ago and I was thinking maybe £3.50 or £4 max? £9 is mental.
It's since Brexit really - things are still quite cheap in some other places in Europe. I'm in Northern Ireland by the way.

Cafés are extortionate these days. I stopped for lunch with DD and we were a bit early so we had a coffee each. Then I ordered a Caesar salad and water and she had a bowl of carbonara and a Coke. The bill was £58! I’d expect to pay that for a nice dinner in a restaurant, not a light lunch in a café.

JAA17 · 10/09/2025 18:42

Yes, they are out of control. I am a PhD mathematician, aware of some of the cons. Let me explain.

If there is a real inflation of 7%, it only takes 10 years for prices to double (not 14 as most people believe). That is because of compounding.

A 'real' 7% inflation is not uncommon, even if they say officially it is about 3%.

There are numerous adjustments made by the ONS to 'hide' the real inflation you and I experience.

Let me explain a few of the biggest cons.

Hedonic Adjustment: Say you have a Windows 10 computer, and due to that going out of date soon, you are forced to update to Windows 11. Say last year, the bottom end laptop was £350. You go into the store and tell the guy you want the bottom end laptop again this year, which has Windows 11. Say he tells you it is £400 now (a REAL increase of 14%). However, the ONS can say because the NEW laptop has the more fantastic Windows 11 on it, you are getting more enjoyment and value out of this new bells-and-whistles computer. Consequently, they can ADJUST this 14% inflation as much as they want downward due to their perception of how much more 'enjoyment' you get from the new Windows 11 over Windows 10. They can even say there is a 0% inflation figure on that computer if they want to.

Substitution Adjustment: Say last year a beef meals costs £5 and a chicken meal costs £4. Say (for ease of the figures) both have a 25% increase. That means the new beef meal costs £6.25 and the new chicken meal costs £5. The REAL inflation is 25%, BUT they can say, because the cost of beef has gone up so much, many consumers have had to SUBSTITUTE to the cheaper chicken meal. Their whacky thinking says you paid £5 for the beef meal a year ago, but since you have changed what you eat, you now pay £5 for the new chicken meal today. In other words, your spending of £5 has not changed from last year. So, in their opinion you have experience a 0% increase in your spending when in reality there was a 25% increase.

In general, inflation is whatever they say it is, or more accurately what they think they can get away with saying it is.

Let me explain a tax based inflation con, that is likely to appear in the upcoming budget.

Say your family bought something of value £1000. Say there has been a 7% inflation for 10 years, so that thing has doubled to £2000 just due to inflation, ie the devaluation of the currency. The government says you have to pay Capital Gains Tax on the extra £1000 if you sell it. But it has not gained anything in value. The value has stayed the same. Its just the currency, the pounds that have halved in value over that 10 years. The government are not taxing a tangible gain, they are taxing the destruction of the value of the currency.

You think that is bad, well if you own your home and bought it many years ago, and Capital Gains Tax is ever charged on that, you will be paying vast amounts of tax on something that has only really increased with inflation.

The tax bands for Inheritance Tax staying the same in high inflationary periods is another tax of the devaluation of currency, rather than a tangible gain in value. That is a very likely con in the upcoming budget. Many houses in your area might be moving into the Inheritance Tax bands of 40% tax, even though they have had no increase in value, instead just the devaluation of the currency.

I have read somewhere a number of bars of gold could buy you an average house 100 years ago, and still today the same number of bars of gold can buy an average house today. Even though we believe houses are sky-rocketing, the reality is it is the currency that is being destroyed by inflation that is causing the prices of housing to APPEAR to rapidly rise.

Governments love inflation, because they can tax it (even though no value has been gained) and also government debt is reduced in real size. In contrast, inflation destroys the average family. We are in a very high inflationary period right now, and the signs are its going to get a lot worse.

Diggin · 10/09/2025 18:43

Prices crazy. £16.00 to park for the day on. Southend Sea Front
£150 quoted to replace broken starter button on my car. Found it on Aliexpress for £6 and a video how to do on Youtube 30 mins work.
£4.30 for a flat white coffee at Costa. I bought a second hand bean to cup machine and make my own.
Most services and food prices make the official inflation rate a joke.

bumblebee1000 · 10/09/2025 18:49

We have reduced our weekly coffee and cake meet ups to every 2 weeks now...the size of the coffee went down, price went up as did the cake so we told them quite directly that we visit less for those reasons !...And if you want oat milk etc then it pushes price to about £5.40 for the small flat white...am quite happy with mc donalds coffee at £1.20.

Bluecat7 · 10/09/2025 18:55

Aldi’s and Lidl still feel relatively reasonable. We’ve just come back from a uk holiday and we had coffee and cake out a few times, but only one ‘proper’ meal (at an independent restaurant). Price of everything seemed so much!

MrsBruar · 10/09/2025 18:59

Exactly @EvangelicalAboutButteredToast so many things which I just don't buy now because the price is just not justifiable or the price is only slightly more but the quality has dropped off the edge of a cliff. I have quite the list now across many items which I used to buy regularly. Not just food. Home, clothes, cosmetics.

Mylittlepea · 10/09/2025 19:08

IndieRocknRoll · 09/09/2025 17:47

Not food related but I was browsing UK holidays for next summer. We’ve holidayed abroad the last few years so I wasn’t prepared to see 2.5k for a week in a caravan!! Yes it was Cornwall in the school hols but even so. Who even pays that?!

That’s crazy money. Who would pay that? £2,500 for a caravan in Cornwall? We’ve just done a 1 week cruise in the school hols, all food, alcohol, posh coffee, entertainment, internet, balcony room, outstanding service etc £3,200 for 2 adults & a teenager.

There are still bargain holidays to be found if you shop around…..

booksareforlife · 10/09/2025 19:19

RisingSunn · 09/09/2025 21:50

I can't believe the cinema prices I'm seeing on here! £6.99 or £9.99 VIP at the Vue.

and what about the fuel costs to drive 50 miles (each way) to the nearest Vue?

Joelz · 10/09/2025 19:22

Some of you have been wondering why beef mince has shot up in price. Well, I can tell you. It's shortages of beef cattle.Farmers are aging and retiring and ceasing production.The traditionally reared suckled beef herds are reducing in number because it is uneconomic following the withdrawal of subsidy schemes. All of that means less cattle around and the price has shot up.

Mt brother is a beef farmer. Last October he was receiving deadweight £5/kilo. At the beginning of March it was £6.75/kilo. I don't know how much he is getting now, but you can see that is a 35% increase. Before anyone asks, those price increases were going all the way through the chain, so it was costing him more to replace animals he had sold. It has been extremely difficult. Then add it increased cost of inputs etc.Supermarkets have more "flexibility" to offset the cost of meat against other lines and mask the real increases - only to a degree though. If you use an independent butcher you may well have noticed the increased prices much sooner.

OneGreenPear · 10/09/2025 19:36

I went into the shop yesterday and bought my youngest a small fudge bar 62p I couldn't believe it I rem they were 15p

cowgirl42 · 10/09/2025 19:44

KimberleyClark · 10/09/2025 10:00

I bought an Oral B iO electric toothbrush and can’t get over how expensive the replacement brush heads are - £30 for 2, and it’s not like they last that long!

I haven’t got the same
model but I did buy 8 heads for a oral b toothbrush off of Amazon. Just check and see if they do yours.

GiveDogBone · 10/09/2025 19:53

Difficult to say, on the one hand memories deceive us, but on the other hand inflation has been dramatic over the past few years, particularly in food.

BooneyBeautiful · 10/09/2025 19:54

CurbsideProphet · 09/09/2025 17:07

My DH paid £7.50 for minced beef in Aldi today which really shocked me , as even last year it would have been around £4.

Maltesers used to be £1 for 100g. Now they're around £2.951. No maltesers for me anymore!

And now I fancy some Maltesers......

BooneyBeautiful · 10/09/2025 19:58

Leilaandtheloggerheads · 09/09/2025 17:12

Yes - case in point, Heinz soup or beans. Anyone still buying those must be clinically insane!

I agree. I buy Asda Reduced Salt baked beans and have done for years. I make my own soup now as it's too dear to buy and far too salty for my taste.

Smurfette63 · 10/09/2025 20:05

newire · 09/09/2025 16:40

I am late 40’s and so there is some change my idea of prices are stuck in the past but my DH had a day off yesterday and we went up to town to go to a film and then dinner at very basic but nice Greek place, we got up to town early so went to a café for a cup of tea and a bit of cake to share. By the time we got home we had spent £100. In 2019 we could have done the exact same evening out for half of that. Which does leave me feeling like the goal posts have been moved quite a bit.

Obviously, I know prices go up, that hospitality is under a lot of pressure but prior to this it took more like 20 years for prices to double and now they have doubled in the past 4 or 5 years and it shows little sign of slowing down. Same with anything you buy, a new paperback book can be £15! It feels like Tea is more expensive every week.

Like I say I know prices go up but am I crazy to feel that things have gone up excessively? Even though inflation is supposed to be falling the price of products and services never seems to fall. Or am I just getting old and stuck in the past?

I'm 62 so I remember the pre-decimal money. Yes I'm a dinosaur. But prices aren't going up in 2p, 5p or 10p any more they seem to go up 50p and £1 at a time. They reckon we had a recession in 2022/23 but it's nothing to what's coming with this dictator in charge!
No, you're not stuck in the past or old. I work in retail so I see these price increases every day, it's daylight robbery!

Airspice · 10/09/2025 20:09

CurbsideProphet · 09/09/2025 17:07

My DH paid £7.50 for minced beef in Aldi today which really shocked me , as even last year it would have been around £4.

Maltesers used to be £1 for 100g. Now they're around £2.951. No maltesers for me anymore!

I had exactly the same conversation with my sister today, the price of Aldi mince!!
I used to buy the 20%, 500g was £1.79 not that long again, it’s now £3.25, for the cheap mince!! I went to buy some 5% but 750g was £7.55, I couldn’t afford that so had to get the 500g and plump it out with lentils!