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Porn age checks - Surely a good thing?

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Vimtolady · 25/07/2025 07:36

Just read a ‘debate’ on the BBC News website about the pros and cons of age verification of porn websites. Weirdly I was verified for the first time myself last night (I am a porn user but not all the time) so was interested to read it.

j get that it was a debate but I honestly don’t see how anyone could object. Last night I wasn’t expecting to be verified but the process was simple, took about a minute and I don’t think I’d have easily been able to circumvent it. Obviously there are security concerns but no more so than with any other website.

I think these checks are great! My eldest DC is 13 so probably getting to (or at) the age when porn might become interesting to her, and this would make it much more difficult to access which would doubtless be a good thing, no?

Does anyone disagree?! I’d be interested to hear arguments against because I can’t really think of any and that makes me suspicious I’m being narrow minded.

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UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:26

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:02

How is this like an internal camera for your car? The OSA isn't making phone companies put monitoring apps on your phone.

They are literally asking you to link your personal data and face to the websites you visit

Yes it is

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:27

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:04

It doesn't ban it, it compels website owners to put an age gate in front.

And before lots of non porn, very legit, not adult websites. That's the point

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:30

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:26

They are literally asking you to link your personal data and face to the websites you visit

Yes it is

Right so it's more like traffic cameras taking a photo of your car while you're driving it.

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:33

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:27

And before lots of non porn, very legit, not adult websites. That's the point

That's up to the website owner to assess if their site has material unsuitable for children. The OSA doesn't say put an age gate on every site. MN hasn't got one for example.

WunTooThree · 06/08/2025 23:39

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:27

And before lots of non porn, very legit, not adult websites. That's the point

Self harm support sites are asking for ID now... it is not just people over 18 who self harm.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:42

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:30

Right so it's more like traffic cameras taking a photo of your car while you're driving it.

Nope

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:43

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:33

That's up to the website owner to assess if their site has material unsuitable for children. The OSA doesn't say put an age gate on every site. MN hasn't got one for example.

Choosing to ignore all the sites which are legitimate but are behind age barriers now then?

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:45

WunTooThree · 06/08/2025 23:39

Self harm support sites are asking for ID now... it is not just people over 18 who self harm.

Exactly

They've gone for "better to be safe than sorry"

Making it harder for teens to find the legit help they might need but not want to tell their parents about

LlamaNoDrama · 06/08/2025 23:49

I had to age verify on YouTube to watch a music video with the word fuck in this week. I use a vpn too.

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:59

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:42

Nope

Yes if they have your licence plate on camera they can get your name and address from the DVLA. Which is even more of an identity reveal than just uploading a selfie video.

eatfigs · 07/08/2025 00:03

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 23:43

Choosing to ignore all the sites which are legitimate but are behind age barriers now then?

Do you have any examples of a site that has an age barrier but doesn't need to? If so you should contact the owner and let them know they've misunderstood the OSA.

Gobacktotheworld · 07/08/2025 00:36

eatfigs · 07/08/2025 00:03

Do you have any examples of a site that has an age barrier but doesn't need to? If so you should contact the owner and let them know they've misunderstood the OSA.

This is so disingenuous.

"If you don't comply with our nebulous and nonspecific rules as kinda laid out in our exceptionally poorly-drafted legislation, then we will slap you with penalties of £18million or imprison you for 51 weeks."

"Oh it's nothing to do with us if some websites misunderstood the Online Safety Law and over-applied it...."

eatfigs · 07/08/2025 00:41

Gobacktotheworld · 07/08/2025 00:36

This is so disingenuous.

"If you don't comply with our nebulous and nonspecific rules as kinda laid out in our exceptionally poorly-drafted legislation, then we will slap you with penalties of £18million or imprison you for 51 weeks."

"Oh it's nothing to do with us if some websites misunderstood the Online Safety Law and over-applied it...."

Where does the OSA say that?

Gobacktotheworld · 07/08/2025 01:38

You mean you haven't read it? Follow the headings.

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2023/50/contents

Clue because I am kind: check the schedules. Near the end.

Online Safety Act 2023

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2023/50/contents

TinyIsMyNewt · 07/08/2025 03:25

Well-intentioned but potentially disastrous. The risk of identity theft and other huge privacy breaches seem extremely high - and the chances of it preventing a child that wants to, from accessing porn, seem very low.

Of course I support its aims but I'd be very unsurprised if this proves to be the worst piece of legislation of the century.

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 05:25

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 21:21

You cannot be anonymous if you prove your ID

It was just showing my face! No name/ address / real age given . It was literally some face scanner and my husband could have done it for me if I wanted to

ntmdino · 07/08/2025 07:09

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 05:25

It was just showing my face! No name/ address / real age given . It was literally some face scanner and my husband could have done it for me if I wanted to

You're missing the point. Never before has it been possible to identify a specific individual from an IP address, meaning that server activity logs don't identify the actual person browsing the site. Now they can. If you happened to look at or post something illegal while you were on there, whether accidentally or deliberately, you can be prosecuted.

If your husband had done it for you, he would be prosecuted.

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 07:24

ntmdino · 07/08/2025 07:09

You're missing the point. Never before has it been possible to identify a specific individual from an IP address, meaning that server activity logs don't identify the actual person browsing the site. Now they can. If you happened to look at or post something illegal while you were on there, whether accidentally or deliberately, you can be prosecuted.

If your husband had done it for you, he would be prosecuted.

Edited

Not if you use a dynamic IP, and even then IP addresses are still not as accurate as you might think. I work in content moderation (obviously not Reddit) but sensible topics come up.

also it ask you to identify once only. So if say you verified in a coffee shop while in a trip and the you get home and use it again, Reddit would be nonthewiser.

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 07:24

ntmdino · 07/08/2025 07:09

You're missing the point. Never before has it been possible to identify a specific individual from an IP address, meaning that server activity logs don't identify the actual person browsing the site. Now they can. If you happened to look at or post something illegal while you were on there, whether accidentally or deliberately, you can be prosecuted.

If your husband had done it for you, he would be prosecuted.

Edited

Not if you use a dynamic IP, and even then IP addresses are still not as accurate as you might think. I work in content moderation (obviously not Reddit) but sensible topics come up.

also it ask you to identify once only. So if say you verified in a coffee shop while in a trip and the you get home and use it again, Reddit would be nonthewiser.

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 07:25

ntmdino · 07/08/2025 07:09

You're missing the point. Never before has it been possible to identify a specific individual from an IP address, meaning that server activity logs don't identify the actual person browsing the site. Now they can. If you happened to look at or post something illegal while you were on there, whether accidentally or deliberately, you can be prosecuted.

If your husband had done it for you, he would be prosecuted.

Edited

Not if you use a dynamic IP, and even then IP addresses are still not as accurate as you might think. I work in content moderation (obviously not Reddit) but sensible topics come up.

also it ask you to identify once only. So if say you verified in a coffee shop while in a trip and the you get home and use it again, Reddit would be none the wiser.

Dbank · 07/08/2025 08:39

ntmdino · 05/08/2025 07:26

sigh

No. The session you had on the porn site is now linked to the session at the age-check provider, which holds your phone number. This is held in their databases, not your cookies, so a private browser session is irrelevant.

What you don't know is what the commercial arrangement is between those two companies regarding data sharing (ie how much of the age check data the porn site has access to), or how long either dataset is held for.

None of this information would have been given before - the porn site wouldn't have had access to any of it.

That means that there now potentially exists a log of your phone number against all the pages you looked at in that session on the porn site. This potential was impossible prior to this law coming in, unless (for some reason) you volunteered your phone number to the porn site - which I'm assuming you wouldn't have been mad enough to do.

So now, in the age of new sites losing control of their data every day, you have to ask: how comfortable are you with that log being released and made public, and subsequently linked to your name via public information (the link with your phone number)?

Edited

Thanks for such a clear and insightful post.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 07/08/2025 08:53

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 23:59

Yes if they have your licence plate on camera they can get your name and address from the DVLA. Which is even more of an identity reveal than just uploading a selfie video.

But it's not linking you to every single website you visit, which includes perfectly legal, but sometimes socially unacceptable things

The speed camera catches you breaking the law

The age checker monitors you doing perfectly legal activities

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 07/08/2025 08:54

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 05:25

It was just showing my face! No name/ address / real age given . It was literally some face scanner and my husband could have done it for me if I wanted to

Your face is the most uniquely identified part of you!

It's easy to track back via someone's photo to find their social media and then a list of people to threaten to "release" data to

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 07/08/2025 09:01

eatfigs · 07/08/2025 00:03

Do you have any examples of a site that has an age barrier but doesn't need to? If so you should contact the owner and let them know they've misunderstood the OSA.

There are plenty of people on this thread pointing out sites that have age verification but don't necessarily need it

The owners are being cautious because the penalties are so high they don't want to risk what could be a crippling fine

You like vaguely similar comparisons so it's like shops/pubs don't have to ID for non-alcoholic drinks with less than 0.1% alcohol. Most of them will do because it's better to be extra cautious. You could try and argue they don't NEED to legally but it won't get you anywhere, they won't change their policies because they are protecting themselves just in case

There's no point though because you have clearly fell so hard for the "but it protects the children" even when it doesn't, when it actively is making it harder for them to access support they might need, when it's easy for them to bypass, when it might drive them to accessing worse via the dark Web... that you are unwilling to listen to any reason about.

Good little government drone.

ntmdino · 07/08/2025 09:22

CVVFan · 07/08/2025 07:25

Not if you use a dynamic IP, and even then IP addresses are still not as accurate as you might think. I work in content moderation (obviously not Reddit) but sensible topics come up.

also it ask you to identify once only. So if say you verified in a coffee shop while in a trip and the you get home and use it again, Reddit would be none the wiser.

I know exactly how accurate IP addresses are - this is a solution to that problem. Dynamic IPs don't give you any privacy, because ISPs have to keep a log of IP addresses against user accounts (for seven years, I think - this was part of Blair's anti-terror legislation).

And yes, you can verify in a coffee shop, and then that data is either stored as a cookie or against your user account on the site's data storage mechanism. When you subsequently access it from somewhere else, your new IP address is associated with that ID, so they can still identify you from that new information with a high enough probability of accuracy that they'll be able use it in court (especially if you're using a broadband connection, which a simple netblock lookup will confirm).

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