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What's the best way to improve a stale smelling house

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Changedusernameforthis2 · 11/06/2025 07:20

I'm out a lot. I'll often leave for work at 6am and arrive home at 11pm. I'm really aware that my house smells stale when I get home. I know all the common sense and correct advice about ventilation etc but I'm not home enough to do it.
I'm also slightly hindered by having an internal kitchen with no windows so smells do linger. Anyone got some really good air freshener or scented items recommendations?

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babystarsandmoon · 11/06/2025 09:39

Leave all of the internal doors open so that air can circulate.

Keep bedroom and bathroom windows open. Mine are open 24/7.

Chemenger · 11/06/2025 09:44

You need to remove the stale air and replace it with fresh air. Just adding more smells on top, even if they are nice smells, won’t help. Open windows and run the extractor in the kitchen to draw fresh air through the house.

Changedusernameforthis2 · 11/06/2025 09:46

Chemenger · 11/06/2025 09:44

You need to remove the stale air and replace it with fresh air. Just adding more smells on top, even if they are nice smells, won’t help. Open windows and run the extractor in the kitchen to draw fresh air through the house.

Yeah my problem is not being in for long enough to do this

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Changedusernameforthis2 · 11/06/2025 09:47

DancingDangerously · 11/06/2025 09:32

I know you said you know all the things about ventilation, but it's really the most important thing by far.

When you wake up in the morning make it part of your routine to go around and open all the windows upstairs before you have your shower/get ready for work. Just before you leave, go around and close them all again. Even 5 or 10 minutes a day will make a big difference.

Do the same thing downstairs in the evening while you're cooking dinner (obviously skipping those windows that might cause security concerns if that's an issue).

Just doing that daily will help a great deal.

Make sure, if you do leave windows on the latch while out, that it doesn't invalidate your insurance!

When you're at home (weekend, day off, whatever) leave all the windows in the house open for a good, long while - I make myself a cup of tea and sit in the living room that faces the front for at least 30-45 minutes, that way I'm sure the whole house has got a good airing, and I don't have to worry that someone's going to crawl in through the windows!

After cooking just quickly spray some degreaser or cleaning spray on the splashback/counter tops/cupboard doors and wipe down so that you clear some of the potentially stinky grease. Obviously don't leave food or sorry dishes out. Empty the bins more often.

Wash curtains every so often as they can really hold on to smells.

Essential oils are lovely - I have a basket of pine cones in the front room that I use as a vehicle for oils to fragrance the air.

I'm the same - perimenopausal and my sense of smell has gone into overdrive. I used to think people were being a bit silly when they complained about smelling things too keenly but oh my god it's horrible when you can detect so many levels of odour!

love the pine cone idea and lots of other good tips here- thank you!

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loropianalover · 11/06/2025 09:49

Can you put your windows on a latch? This is what we do and we rarely even close them at night time through the spring and summer.

I got an air purifier off amazon with a little slot for essential oils, I have it set up in the upstairs hallway with lavender in and run it 24/7. It smells amazing when you come in the front door.

DancingDangerously · 11/06/2025 09:50

If you dry your clothes inside that could also be contributing.

Oh...missed the bit about coming home at 11PM. You obviously can't open all the windows then! But on the days you're home earlier, and when you're cooking, getting in the habit of letting the house air will help a lot.

I don't personally like artificial air cleansers or fresheners at all, and they're potentially not good for you.

I mentioned essential oils but you still need to be working with fresh air otherwise you're just masking the staleness.

Brefugee · 11/06/2025 09:50

if you don't want to leave windows open all day- open at least one, as wide as possible, on each side of the house on each floor as soon as you get in. (creates a draft) making sure all internal doors are open. Leave them open at least 10 minutes.

And then leave them cracked open all night. (if you can, do the 10 min thing again in the morning. It is the German Way and it's pretty good.

Also check behind furniture that you rarely move, wardrobes, sideboards etc, to make sure there's no mould growing or whatever.

spoonbillstretford · 11/06/2025 09:55

I'd have a look at what is causing the smells. Humidity or damp, pets, soft furnishings that need a good wash, carpets or rugs that need cleaning, laundry, bins, or just upping the cleaning tasks a bit. Don't add other smells to try to cover it up.

DevilsSausageRoll · 11/06/2025 09:55

Have you tried wiping your walls and ceilings? They get dirty too and can hold onto smells over time from things like cooking, smoking and drying clothes.

onlymethen · 11/06/2025 09:55

Valentte do amazing reed diffusers and oil drops, I used to spend££££ on Ko Malone reed diffusers at the airport until I discovered them. The Rosemary one is my favourite, it smells fresh and clean.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 11/06/2025 10:02

I suspect you have a whiff coming from somewhere and that’s where the lingering stale odour is originating. I had a slow leak from the dishwasher waste just dripping behind it it was tiny but created a stale smell as it dried that was hard to pin down. I’d check under sink cupboard drip tray from behind fridge, behind radiator, scrub out the bin.

MillieMinx · 11/06/2025 22:03

Lots of good ideas on here already. Just be careful with plug ins as they are not great for your lungs especially with low ventilation and no good for pets, if you have any.
Does your bin lid close tightly? Ours didn’t and was the cause of a lot of our stale whiffs. I swear by zoflora and have a diluted solution that I spray in the sink plug hole before I go out. Extractors need cleaning too and often smell stale, maybe check those.

BooneyBeautiful · 12/06/2025 00:16

onlymethen · 11/06/2025 09:55

Valentte do amazing reed diffusers and oil drops, I used to spend££££ on Ko Malone reed diffusers at the airport until I discovered them. The Rosemary one is my favourite, it smells fresh and clean.

My friend often buys these for me for Christmas and/or birthday. They are lovely!

LetIt · 12/06/2025 04:05

Changedusernameforthis2 · 11/06/2025 07:34

House is clean, as I have a cleaner and I'm rarely home to mess it up.
Great idea about the rosemary oils etc and zoflora etc I can definitely do that

Don’t do this. You are trying to mask a stale smell by creating toxic indoor air pollution. Just open some windows when you are home. I only do once a week or so and my home smells fine.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3018511/

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