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Romesh Ranganathan - School Places & Entitlement

282 replies

FightingFish · 25/04/2025 17:39

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cewgj1ry9x7o.amp

I’ve seen this story popping up a lot on social media and we are only seeing one side of the story. Schools publish their allocations policy and apparently RR has moved house since his older children were allocated a place. He obviously didn’t consider the implications of moving outside of catchment at that point. There are only so many places, AIBU to wish that he would acknowledge that? I also feel sorry for the kid, if my father was a multi millionaire, I’d rather he shelled out on a place at a private school instead of bleat on about how hard done by he is!

Romesh Ranganathan looks on from the grid during the F1 Grand Prix of Monaco at Circuit de Monaco

Romesh Ranganathan criticises West Sussex council over son's school place - BBC News

He says his son's allocated school is "on the other side of town" to the one his siblings attend.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cewgj1ry9x7o.amp

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clary · 25/04/2025 19:01

minnienono · 25/04/2025 18:56

What he said was pretty clear, how can he drop kids in 2 different places at the same time. He also selected other schools as alternatives and didn’t get them either. How are parents expected to ensure all dc are at school on time? I had a similar situation 2 different schools allocated (house move) 2 miles apart and they had the cheek to say couldn’t I ask my mum (who lived 299 miles away and worked!!!)

no need to drop secondary age pupils tho

minipie · 25/04/2025 19:01

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 18:50

It is not just about the children getting to school though - clearly you have no idea what is really like. My two are at different secondary schools for various reasons - there are lots of issues as a consequence - the biggest one they don't aways have the same inset days or holidays for starters...

No idea what it is really like. Except my kids are at different schools. (The eldest’s school is selective so no sibling priority at all). We cope fine.

If he cared that much about his kids being at the same school all he had to do was not move house.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:02

It does seem very unreasonable however to be offered none of your 4 choices!

Not if he picked 4 choices that he is unlikely to get into...

tillyandmilly · 25/04/2025 19:03

Would have thought his kids were educated privately?

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:05

minipie · 25/04/2025 19:01

No idea what it is really like. Except my kids are at different schools. (The eldest’s school is selective so no sibling priority at all). We cope fine.

If he cared that much about his kids being at the same school all he had to do was not move house.

Different secondary schools can work for some people. But lots of people for very practical reasons would like their children at the same school, and I really don't think that's unreasonable.

Do we actually know that he did move house before his older children got admitted to the school? Or is this just rumour and speculation? Finally, as I said he is highlighting a real problem for many families.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:05

How are parents expected to ensure all dc are at school on time?

secondary dc normally travel alone.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:06

My siblings & I went to different secondaries but we travelled independently

miserablecat · 25/04/2025 19:06

minipie · 25/04/2025 18:45

It does seem very unreasonable however to be offered none of your 4 choices! I agree with him that that’s not ok

Seeing as he clearly didn’t read the admissions policies, I imagine he applied to 4 schools they aren’t in catchment for or wouldn’t otherwise qualify for.

No sympathy for people who don’t read the admissions criteria tbh, unless they have reasons they can’t (ESL, learning disability etc). Clearly not the case here.

I always assumed siblings would be top priority

In quite a few areas with sought after schools there was a pattern of parents living close to the school just long enough to get their first child in and then moving to a different area much further away but still expecting to send their younger kids. (Resulting in long journeys and local kids missing out). Councils wised up to this and have changed the rules so that out of catchment siblings don’t get priority. However in many areas siblings still get priority regardless.

Always read the policies for your own area, each school can be different.

This happens in my area. All the schools are oversubscribed but one seems more popular than others. I'm pretty sure lots of people live in the area and go to church for long enough to get child #1 in, and then move somewhere else. Despite the catchment area being pretty small, plenty of pupils arrive by train (from different towns) everyday.

KarmaKameelion · 25/04/2025 19:06

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 18:58

I wonder if you would feel the same if you had more then one.. I would bet not!

I would read the admissions criteria. In my area some school prioritise siblings, others it is children in the parish boundary. Whether I had 1 or 10 children I would still think a village school should prioritise the local children.

Sofiewoo · 25/04/2025 19:07

I mean he’s far from the only one, there’s a whole thread of people moaning and complaining that they didn’t get to their top choices.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:08

@miserablecat it's unusual for a faith school to have a small catchment.

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:08

Sofiewoo · 25/04/2025 19:07

I mean he’s far from the only one, there’s a whole thread of people moaning and complaining that they didn’t get to their top choices.

Exactly, so why is he getting such a hard time on this thread? If I found out that he got special treatment because of his celebrity status then yes that would be fair enough... but for complaining serious!

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:09

I know some schools who prioritised local dc over siblings further away. It's because it can hollow out a local community for the school and hog have people leaving opposite a school but dc not getting a place.

Annoyeddd · 25/04/2025 19:10

Some faith schools are quite small (one form entry primary)

WennyWiddyWichi · 25/04/2025 19:10

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 25/04/2025 17:44

Schools publish their allocations policy

But do people always read them? I read our local policies at the relevant times and they were very clear, and still heard people in the playground saying rubbish. I even had one teacher at the school the oldest went to telling me they would ‘see what they could do’ for my youngest.

Hmm people should read the rules but the number of parents who do not understand their preferred schools's admission policy is silly. It's not rocket science.

Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:12

I am glad he ihas spoken out about this.
Many years ago, my youngest ended up at a different school to his siblings and it is a piece of shit getting that to work when parents are working etc, even if school buses are involved.
You can end up as we did with different half terms and all sorts of hopelessly challenging issues.
I heard him talking - it is secondary school not a village school

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:12

Some faith schools are quite small (one form entry primary)

yes but as no 1 criteria is faith and church attendance they tend to go much further out than a non faith option.

Caravaggiouch · 25/04/2025 19:14

For secondary I’m not surprised siblings are not that high up the criteria - surely kids are expected to get themselves to and from school, so it doesn’t really matter? It’s not like primary where parents will be doing a school run.

waterrat · 25/04/2025 19:16

I think it's wrong he hasn't got a place for the youngest - absolutely obvious that if you have older children in that school it's best for all round if they are kept together - that's in the best interests of the children

People often have to move to upsize/ get more rooms - why should that be penalised? Particularly when a child is impacted.

FightingFish · 25/04/2025 19:16

Sounds like an excuse. I’ve got 3 children myself and have always managed to organise them to get to school on time. At one point I had one at secondary, one at primary and one at nursery. Currently I have one at primary, one at secondary and one at a different secondary in sixth form. Once they are 10 + they can walk, bike or get on a bus themselves. Not difficult.

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sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:18

People often have to move to upsize/ get more rooms - why should that be penalised? Particularly when a child is impacted.

Why should a local child miss out on a place because other families have moved out though?

Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:19

@FightingFish
Wonderful for you, mine were at Catholic schools, nobody could walk to them (not even primary) and the public transport was not reliable.
I think it is wrong that siblings are not top priority after looked after children in admissions policy.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:20

@Catsandcheese but if yours were at catholic surely you aware that siblings are not top priority?

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:20

FightingFish · 25/04/2025 19:16

Sounds like an excuse. I’ve got 3 children myself and have always managed to organise them to get to school on time. At one point I had one at secondary, one at primary and one at nursery. Currently I have one at primary, one at secondary and one at a different secondary in sixth form. Once they are 10 + they can walk, bike or get on a bus themselves. Not difficult.

As I have said it's not really about getting to school is it.

But seriously, it is not unreasonable to want your children at the same school if they're close enough in age to have that experience.

TheNightingalesStarling · 25/04/2025 19:23

If siblings were prioritised over catchment in our area, the children in the furthest village wouldn't be able to access the school bus to get them to school. That wouldn't be fair either.

The alternative would be larger clas sizes to accommodate catchment and siblings... People wouldn't want that either!

Unfortunately, some families will not get what they want.