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To wonder WTF is wrong with Catherine Cookson

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JandamiHash · 26/03/2025 23:48

I used to love Catherine Cookson adaptations when I was a teenager. LOVED them. Had loads of box sets and books. I recently discovered them on U and i’ve been watching a few and OMG they’re either all hysterically ridiculous, depressing or brutally violent. Or full of pedophiles

In The Girl the male love interest tells the female lead that she’s been “teasing him with that look ever since you first entered my yard”. Referring to when she was 10 and he was an adult! After losing several body parts in his pursuit for her love, the male love interest and the now grown up “tease” get together after her husband conveniently dies of cholera.

The Glass Virgin has a frizzy haired Emily Mortimer simpering around the North East, opting to be a peasant because she heard a second hand rumour that she isn’t part of her aristocratic family any more. She falls in love with a younger (and not terrible looking) Mr Bates from Downton Abbey, who has a (terrible) Irish accent but is called Manuel Mendoza?! Despite not being Spanish. Cue Emily Mortimer spending about an hour in total running through fields with a lamp shouting “Manuel! Manuel”. BTW Manuel first met her when she was 9 or 10, as her riding instructor, and she falls in love with him because he basically groomed her.

Tonight I’ve been utterly traumatised by the Dwelling Place - where a 16yo orphan, who lives in a cave with her siblings, is brutally raped in front of her little brother, is impregnated by her rapist, and then a couple of years later falls in love with him!! All whilst being perused by a bloke who was all “Im sexy and I love you, but I’m off to marry Hayley Cropper because her dad runs a mill and I’ll be in charge if I marry her, even though I hate her. I’ll pop in now and again to stroke your hand and sniff your hair”.

WTF is wrong with Catherine Cookson?! And also - what was wrong with teenage me that I found these romantic?

Yes I know these books are old as dirt but still, most were written in the 60’s, and I don’t think that even then it was acceptable to fall in love with your rapist or be attracted to 10yo girls.

I want to watch more but I think they’re too insane and unhinged for my liking.

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soupyspoon · 27/03/2025 07:24

Or the Decameron for that matter

MaryGreenhill · 27/03/2025 07:25

My Mum and her friends loved CC , they still do 🙄much as l loved reading l never liked her books . They were so dour and bleak.

ThatWillBeAll · 27/03/2025 07:25

I don’t want to inconvenience you @JandamiHashbut I’d like you to watch the whole lot as I’ve enjoyed your synopsis so much.

I never liked them because of the downtrodden nature of the stores. I preferred Jackie Collins. Lucky Santangelo in a sports car building hotels in Las Vegas. I bet if I reread them now I’d feel the same.

LeticiaMorales · 27/03/2025 07:26

I think they often featured a young, impoverished woman's success against the odds, so they're quite appealing in that sense.

ThatWillBeAll · 27/03/2025 07:30

Maray1967 · 27/03/2025 07:00

Why on earth focus on Catherine Cookson’s work written over half a century ago? I was far more concerned by Fifty Shades.

Did you read Fifty Shades as a teenager and think it was a romantic story full of love and then reread it when you were older and these memories were completely altered and you now confused as to how you ever thought it was a romance novel and you want to discuss that?

DustyLee123 · 27/03/2025 07:32

I like The Fifteen Streets with Sean Bean. It’s got a young Jayne Horrocks in, and lots of other famous faces.
Her books are old fashioned now, but a lot of these things went on in times gone by. Helen Forrester’s book mentions boys/men abusing the dead body of a young female at a funeral directors, and her book is actually about her life in the 20/30/40’s.

AgnesX · 27/03/2025 07:42

My mother hated Catherine Cookson and (presumably having read at least one) refused to bring any into the house.

I hate them as they're total misery. I like to be entertained not depressed by my books.

GooseberryBeret · 27/03/2025 07:43

Darhon · 27/03/2025 06:20

No, it was classified as one of the greats of the western cannon. And yet, if you’ve ever read it, you think WTF to this even. It’s actually not a very good book, written completely in the male gaze and if that had not been the subject matter - I doubt it would have been viewed in this way.

The entire point of Lolita is the unreliable narrator and the portrayal of not just ‘male gaze’ but actual evil.
I understand why people can’t stomach it - there are lots of ’great’ films that contain too much violence or horror for me to watch, but I wouldn’t dismiss them on those grounds.

RosesAndHellebores · 27/03/2025 07:43

GrimSoGrim · 27/03/2025 07:18

I've had a few interesting conversations with my mum (80) recently. She adored Cookson. She read the lot.
DM couldn't stand her MIL, fair enough, probably with good cause but digging through MILs past my mum's complete callousness is amazing.
MIL's mum died in childbirth, my mum said this wasnt a problem because she was treated like a princess by her dad and older brothers.
She had a piano, this signifies poshness and leisure time to my mum.
That piano was actually in a crowded terraced mining house.
MIL wasn't lonely or neglected because her older sister with her own kids lives down the road.
Mil left home at 14, my mum sees this as adventure and boldness, not a 14 being exploited, working in a boarding school as a cleaner.
MIL gets pregnant, ( mum sees this as her own fault) begs sister to take her in, turned away. (Well you would). Has to marry the father (happy ending) he knocks her around (she did have a temper) he earns good money but she has to work, pregnant at the brickworks ( my mum literally sees this as her delilberately taking this job to annoy FIL)
It goes on, my Cookson loving mum, literally sees her MIL as the bad guy and FIL ( wife beating but she asked for it) as the strong, funny charming poor exploited man.

Cookson filled my mum's head with utterly evil justification for when bad things happen to people she didn't like.She had a piano and was s3xually promiscuous, the ingratitude!

That sounds less the fault of Catherine Cookson and more the fault of your mother's background and limitations.

Serpentstooth · 27/03/2025 07:47

Welcome to adulthood. 'Rescue me, you great brute, I hate you/I love you'. Is the theme of the larger part of 'womens' fiction. Takes a while to notice.

KimberleyClark · 27/03/2025 07:50

Seagullsandsausagerolls · 27/03/2025 07:07

Philippa Carr, Daughters of England series, is also dodgy. I remember my mum devouring them in the 80s. Another friend recommended them to me recently. I'm not sure I'll ever think of her in the same way.

The early ones definitely are. Rape all over the place. Interesting fact, Philippa Carr and Jean Plaidy were the same person. As was Victoria Holt, I devoured her books as a teen too but a lot were dodgy. They were all pseudonyms of Eleanor Hibbert, one of the most prolific romance authors ever.

Needmorelego · 27/03/2025 07:56

I don't think Catherine Cookson and the similar authors are always categorised as "romance" novels though. They are usually referred to as "historical saga".
Humans seem to love reading about misery.

RosesAndHellebores · 27/03/2025 07:59

@KimberleyClark I used to read Jean Plaidy in my early teens (early 70s). When my mother asked what I was reading I used to say "oh about the Plantagenets/Tudors".

In the 70s, there was a literary vacuum for teenagers/young adults or if there wasn't I didn't find what should have been in it. I was a voracious reader as a child and then faced rather barren shelves. Struggling a bit with the Brontes and Dickens and finding what we read in the early years of secondary school so dire, I can't remember what we read.

However, books are of their time. I adored the C S Lewis Narnia books as a child and bought the set for my own children. They found them very difficult to engage with and when I reread them found them very dated, and on a level I missed as a child, very complex.

Heronwatcher · 27/03/2025 08:01

I used to read CC when I was younger but went off them when I realised how formulaic they were. Basically 90% of the story involves one horrific episode of tragedy/ trauma after another, usually death of provider, sibling, sexual abuse, horrific industrial/ agricultural accident or act of god just as plucky young resourceful woman is getting on her feet, then more of the same until in the last 5 pages there’s some kind of semi-happy outcome. I can’t face wading through the trauma now!

Heronwatcher · 27/03/2025 08:04

I would say that whilst I agree that a lot of the themes don’t stand up to modern mindsets, I suspect that some of the less far fetched storylines were exactly what happened in the periods she was writing about (marrying abuser to stay out of the workhouse, lower class women being seen as a commodity), so at least her becoming popular might have exposed all of this to some light. And she did always put women, and lower class women, at the centre of the story which was still quite unusual.

Hankunamatata · 27/03/2025 08:09

The 15 streets traumatised me as a kid with the drowning scene. Have to say I do love a bit of Catherine Cookson dor sheer cheese but perhaps that's the northern in me.

AngelinaFibres · 27/03/2025 08:13

HeyThereDelila · 27/03/2025 03:54

YANBU. I often think these books reveal a lot about the author. I haven’t read Mary Wesley’s Camomile Lawn but the film is insane. Multiple women of different ages having a relationship with the same old man, a ménage a trois - so unhealthy and screwed up. Makes you wonder what went on in Wesley’s own childhood.

I loathe Cookson. My idiot DM used to watch them on TV when we were kids. I could really have done without being exposed to TV rape scenes as a young girl. Cheers for that, Mum.

And Mary Wesley's 'Hebe' where the mother is a sex worker ( but its all very pleasantly portrayed of course). She uses the money to put her son through private school.

WhereYouLeftIt · 27/03/2025 08:16

"i’ve been watching a few and OMG they’re either all hysterically ridiculous, depressing or brutally violent. Or full of pedophiles"

As were the lives of women at the time of Cookson writing these books, and the era in which she set them. It's the old adage - 'write what you know'. And as has already been pointed out, pretending to yourself that you love your rapist and he only raped you because he loved you so much was no more than a coping strategy for women in an era where to be 'fallen' woman was bloody dangerous and could end in working in a brothel just to eat and dying in childbirth. Always the woman's own fault! So yes, marrying your rapist at least offered the promise of having only one rapist rather than hundredsSad.

I've never read her books (more of a sci-fi fan) but a quick look at her Wikipaedia page gives enough info to see where she was coming from. Rather than wonder WTF is wrong with Catherine Cookson, maybe wonder WTF is wrong with the world she grew up in and wrote about.

Catherine Cookson - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Cookson

AngelinaFibres · 27/03/2025 08:16

Heronwatcher · 27/03/2025 08:04

I would say that whilst I agree that a lot of the themes don’t stand up to modern mindsets, I suspect that some of the less far fetched storylines were exactly what happened in the periods she was writing about (marrying abuser to stay out of the workhouse, lower class women being seen as a commodity), so at least her becoming popular might have exposed all of this to some light. And she did always put women, and lower class women, at the centre of the story which was still quite unusual.

There are still states in America in 2025 where , if a rape victim agrees to marry her rapist, there are no criminal charges .

KimberleyClark · 27/03/2025 08:18

RosesAndHellebores · 27/03/2025 07:59

@KimberleyClark I used to read Jean Plaidy in my early teens (early 70s). When my mother asked what I was reading I used to say "oh about the Plantagenets/Tudors".

In the 70s, there was a literary vacuum for teenagers/young adults or if there wasn't I didn't find what should have been in it. I was a voracious reader as a child and then faced rather barren shelves. Struggling a bit with the Brontes and Dickens and finding what we read in the early years of secondary school so dire, I can't remember what we read.

However, books are of their time. I adored the C S Lewis Narnia books as a child and bought the set for my own children. They found them very difficult to engage with and when I reread them found them very dated, and on a level I missed as a child, very complex.

I still enjoy the Narnia books,but didn’t really like the film versions at all, especially PrinceCaspian, where there was a romance between Caspian and Susan that absolutely was not there in the books!

SepticCess · 27/03/2025 08:20

Ponoka7 · 27/03/2025 00:09

I liked them, they mirrored the stories told to me vy my grandmother and friends (all born around 1910 and earlier). Look at the attitude of the police towards the groomed girls, now imagine how bad things were decades before that, when we legally took babies off unmarried mothers and locked them away for life. Girls were blamed for pedophiles abusing them. The book Lolita was classified as romantic fiction. SWs of the time blamed girls for enticing men. Men were told that they were entitled to sex. Read the threads from women my age, 57, there was a lot of sexual assaults. We were fair game as soon as we had slightly developed. In my case I was around 11, men being sexually inappropriate towards us, were laughed off by the adults around us.

I'm old and agree with this.

I've only read The Mallens but it is totally what would have happened.

I was born and grew up in a small village in the home counties that I could not afford to live in now. It's millionaires row.

I was aware of wife swapping, children being raised alongside their 'sibling' that was actually their mother, incest, severe bullying, a wife being bought from her parents in Thailand (1959) and never being allowed to leave the house except to be ambulanced away due to collapse from being so severely fisted. Child pregnancies. Children being raised in abject poverty to the point the pee in their mattress would freeze while their parents were gambling in the back of the local pub so ...also illegal card school. Thieving, drug taking, illegal abortion and child murder, property theft, suicide and mental health breakdowns. At least three people I knew growing up were living in their sheds rather than live with their spouse (one of those being my own grandfather), questionable disappearances that would never be investigated, truancy never investigated, physical and mental abuse, arson, cutting, drug dealing, fraud.

I could go on so all of this and more taking place in the 1800's in rural England is highly likely and probably compulsory.

Children were just a by product of a marriage and often an unwanted one especially once the GIs arrived.

CC showed massive restraint in my view.

BelloItalia · 27/03/2025 08:21

I agree OP, I watched the dwelling place a few months ago and I was flabbergasted and seriously annoyed when she fell in love with her rapist. Disgusting and so demeaning to women.

AngelinaFibres · 27/03/2025 08:26

Serpentstooth · 27/03/2025 07:47

Welcome to adulthood. 'Rescue me, you great brute, I hate you/I love you'. Is the theme of the larger part of 'womens' fiction. Takes a while to notice.

Sadly it is still the theme of a lot of the lives of real women with limited options. My friend works in a family centre in a very deprived area. The young women she works with go from toxic relationship to toxic relationship. They find themselves in a relationship with a man who they know will beat them , because he's already been with their friend, beaten her and their children senseless, and has now moved on to someone new. They live in hope that it will be better for them. It isn't. They remain within their small locality because they don't see any other option " It's not for us". There are no romantic endings there just the passing of the misery onto the next generation

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 27/03/2025 08:27

Maray1967 · 27/03/2025 07:00

Why on earth focus on Catherine Cookson’s work written over half a century ago? I was far more concerned by Fifty Shades.

Both can be bad at the same time. Agree 50 shades was awful.

Gogogo12345 · 27/03/2025 08:27

SepticCess · 27/03/2025 08:20

I'm old and agree with this.

I've only read The Mallens but it is totally what would have happened.

I was born and grew up in a small village in the home counties that I could not afford to live in now. It's millionaires row.

I was aware of wife swapping, children being raised alongside their 'sibling' that was actually their mother, incest, severe bullying, a wife being bought from her parents in Thailand (1959) and never being allowed to leave the house except to be ambulanced away due to collapse from being so severely fisted. Child pregnancies. Children being raised in abject poverty to the point the pee in their mattress would freeze while their parents were gambling in the back of the local pub so ...also illegal card school. Thieving, drug taking, illegal abortion and child murder, property theft, suicide and mental health breakdowns. At least three people I knew growing up were living in their sheds rather than live with their spouse (one of those being my own grandfather), questionable disappearances that would never be investigated, truancy never investigated, physical and mental abuse, arson, cutting, drug dealing, fraud.

I could go on so all of this and more taking place in the 1800's in rural England is highly likely and probably compulsory.

Children were just a by product of a marriage and often an unwanted one especially once the GIs arrived.

CC showed massive restraint in my view.

And you have to bear in mind that until 1875 the age of consent was 12 , going up to 13 ten years later.

Also many people even today work in prostitution to feed and educate their kids

These books are of the time they were set, not current standards. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the author