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To think my insurance should cover me nearly dying?!

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octavio1996 · 17/03/2025 09:05

Posting here because I’m at my wits’ end and don’t know what to do. Currently stuck in Australia after a total nightmare and my insurance company is refusing to pay out.

Basically, I was travelling here on holiday with DH and the DC (two teens, one younger), having an amazing time. Then out of nowhere, I got really ill massive pain, collapsed, rushed to hospital. Turns out it was a ruptured appendix and I ended up in intensive care for days, genuinely thought I was going to die. DH was beside himself, kids were terrified. The hospital care was amazing but obviously, this is Australia, and the bills are absolutely eye-watering.

Here’s the kicker: my travel insurance is now refusing to pay. They’re saying it’s a “pre-existing condition” (it wasn’t), or that I didn’t declare something minor from years ago that has nothing to do with this. I’ve been on the phone to them constantly, but they’re just fobbing me off. We’ve already had to put thousands on a credit card just to get me discharged. We were meant to fly home next week, but I’m not even sure I’m well enough to travel, and obviously, we can’t afford to stay indefinitely.

Has anyone been in this situation before? Do I have any chance of fighting this, or are we totally screwed? DH is trying to stay calm for the DC, but I can tell he’s panicking too. I just want to go home and not be bankrupt.

TL;DR: Nearly died from a ruptured appendix, travel insurance won’t pay, stuck in Australia with a huge bill. Help!

OP posts:
Chenecinquantecinq · 17/03/2025 14:10

CantStopMoving · 17/03/2025 11:08

But the issue comes down to what is a pre existing condition.

i have been to the doctor with a litany of ENt problems. All have come back as benign. I just have an awkward head! 😅 nothing is very serious, just annoying at times. Absolutely no pre existing condition to report. I am officially suffering from nothing whatsoever. What do I need to declare?

For insurance purposes everything even if benign. This is what I do on e mail so there is a paper trail. E mail everything however random so that they have nothing to use against you!

HazelBite · 17/03/2025 14:11

Today DH has just booked us a 5 day trip to Italy through a Travel Agent. They would not insure him as he had an MRI last week due to arthritic knees! I have countless medical issues all under control with medication but it worries me about getting adequate insurance.

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 14:13

BunnyLake · 17/03/2025 13:29

This must be what every day life for Americans is like.

Some posters seem to be insisting you have to log every concern you ever had that made you go to the GP, even when it turns out to be nothing. That can’t be right.

When it comes to claiming, insurers will ask to see your medical records. If it turns out that you haven’t included things, they will deem that as a non-disclosure. Whether it will result in them refusing to pay or not probably depends on the company, but it’s always better to be overly honest than to think “ah, that won’t matter”.

Ultimately insurance companies exist to make money - so if they can avoid paying out, they will.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 17/03/2025 14:17

I'm sorry that this has happened, OP. My DH had a ruptured appendix abroad and it was horrible. I contacted our travel insurance at the time, who assured me that they would pay out. In the end, the overseas hospital unexpectedly refused to actually charge us so we didn't have to claim.

Yanbu to expect a payout in these circumstances. I really hope you get it sorted, and that you make a quick recovery.

Karatema · 17/03/2025 14:17

Cyclebabble · 17/03/2025 09:23

Hi I work for a travel insurer. This turns on what you did not disclose and if you answered the questions fully at the time you purchased the policy. For a major claim an insurer will ask for access to your medical records and if this shows that there is a condition you did not disclose then they would not pay up. I note that the non-disclosure does not have to be directly related to your condition you are now suffering from. If the insurer would not have covered you it will not pay out.

In terms of your options if the insurer is not paying make a formal complaint- noting very clear that this is what you are doing and ask for the case to be reconsidered. If the insurer still does not pay the claim then you can take the case to FOS, the Financial Ombudsman Service. The case will however turn on the reasonableness of disclosure. For example, if your prior condition involved a hospital submission then FOS is unlikely to rule against the insurer- on the grounds that it is unlikely that you would forget this.

A minor treatment at a Doctor's surgery might be more acceptable.

This ^^
It’s absolutely correct. As @Cyclebabblesays put a complaint in to the insurer and then, if the insurer does not resolve, to the FOS. You MUST do it in this order or the FOS will reject your submission.

bevelino · 17/03/2025 14:34

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 17/03/2025 12:55

There's got to be more to this.

OP simply wouldn't be charged for emergency care if a UK citizen.

There's something going on here with this story.

This

I am an insurance lawyer and we do not have the full history from the OP.

BunnyLake · 17/03/2025 14:39

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 14:13

When it comes to claiming, insurers will ask to see your medical records. If it turns out that you haven’t included things, they will deem that as a non-disclosure. Whether it will result in them refusing to pay or not probably depends on the company, but it’s always better to be overly honest than to think “ah, that won’t matter”.

Ultimately insurance companies exist to make money - so if they can avoid paying out, they will.

Edited

I think if they ask specific, unambiguous questions then obviously they must be answered correctly but I’m assuming they're not expecting you to volunteer old, vague information they haven't asked for. Year’s ago I had a critical illness insurance. Having read up on it over the years it seems it can be a difficult insurance to get a payout for. I got my payout very easily so I must have filled in my forms accurately.

pinkstripeycat · 17/03/2025 14:50

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rainingsnoring · 17/03/2025 14:55

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 14:09

Many insurance companies require you to tell them about anything you’ve been to a doctor about, even if it didn’t lead to a diagnosis. It’s all in the small print unfortunately.

I agree that insurance companies like to avoid paying out but disclosing all health issues is the norm with travel insurance.

I guess some do! Others seem to ask for anything in the last 12 months, anything you are under a specialist for.

'but disclosing all health issues is the norm with travel insurance'
That's surely the crux of it. IBS is not a health issue for the OP. It's also a functional condition or a diagnosis of exclusion. She had some minor symptoms years ago and no specific diagnosis was made, at least not with her knowledge. No one can possibly be expected to remember every single occasion they have seen a GP. Any insurance company trying to wriggle out of paying on this basis is simply trying to wriggle out of paying.

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 14:55

BunnyLake · 17/03/2025 14:39

I think if they ask specific, unambiguous questions then obviously they must be answered correctly but I’m assuming they're not expecting you to volunteer old, vague information they haven't asked for. Year’s ago I had a critical illness insurance. Having read up on it over the years it seems it can be a difficult insurance to get a payout for. I got my payout very easily so I must have filled in my forms accurately.

Yes, ultimately it depends on the policy and what OP was asked when she took it out. It does all sound very odd, though.

anyolddinosaur · 17/03/2025 15:03

@biscuitsandbooks First reputable insurers do NOT require you to notify anything that has ever been in your medical records, that's nonsense. If you/ your relatives have insured with companies that specify that more fool you. If you/they have had claims refused did you use the Ombudsman?

Secondly there is legislation about unfair contract terms in this country. I've never insured with a company that would ask for my entire medical history but if I had and had a claim refused for something minor I'd go to the Ombudsman and argue irrelevant and unfair contract term. The legislation about this requires you to disclose what a "reasonable consumer" would declare. Incidentally the HRT claim was being looked at again in the only report I could find. I'd declare it as it's medication if I was on it but wouldnt expect to pay much more to have it included.

If you lie when taking out insurance then yes the Ombudsman will decide against you. But there have been cases, not currently on the website, where the Ombudsman has ruled against companies who refused a claim for something in the medical history the ombudsman agreed a reasonable consumer would not have considered it necessary to declare.

So - having tried to provide some reassurance - the thing people need to be concerned about is getting drunk. That can invalidate your travel insurance. The one time I've had to claim on travel insurance for a hospital visit abroad they were very keen to test for alcohol. However the claim was paid without a complaint being needed since the amount of alcohol that had been consumed was small.

BestDIL · 17/03/2025 15:04

Get onto Martin Lewis. This is just the kind of fight he likes.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/03/2025 15:14

Umbilicat · 17/03/2025 13:03

Well, I'm so sorry for OP but grateful to this thread, I've just added something I went to the GP about last year, no diagnosis made but when I went online to add it I was asked a few questions about if it related to any specific conditions (answer no) and it's now listed on my policy as having been declared for no extra charge. In future I will mention anything I spoke to the GP about in the previous year, no matter how tiny.

That's why I often think threads like this are worthwhile, Umbilicat, even if the OP mentions things which don't make sense on the face of it

It's the sharing and extra info we all get that helps IME, and if it's helped you too that can only be good

Umbilicat · 17/03/2025 15:23

Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/03/2025 15:14

That's why I often think threads like this are worthwhile, Umbilicat, even if the OP mentions things which don't make sense on the face of it

It's the sharing and extra info we all get that helps IME, and if it's helped you too that can only be good

To follow up I remembered another tiny thing, added it to my policy and have been charged £30 for it, which is annoying but better that way round than having an entire claim denied because I didn't mention it. I'm going to have a policy of listing everything mentioned to the GP in the past year in future.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 17/03/2025 15:27

All to the good, @Umbilicat Smile

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 15:36

@anyolddinosaur thankfully I've never had to claim on my travel insurance, but when I last took it out (well before COVID) I was asked about everything I'd seen a doctor for in the last x amount of years - I think maybe two or three? I don't remember which insurer it was though.

The person I know who had their claim refused had their complaints dismissed by the Ombudsman on the basis of non-disclosure. This was car insurance rather than travel, but it's made me incredibly cautious ever since. I would rather over-declare than risk not saying something and getting refused a claim.

Parker231 · 17/03/2025 15:44

Why are people still going on about insurers and ombudsman when in this case they shouldn’t be involved - this is why we have reciprocal agreements between countries

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 15:46

Parker231 · 17/03/2025 15:44

Why are people still going on about insurers and ombudsman when in this case they shouldn’t be involved - this is why we have reciprocal agreements between countries

Because the discussion has evolved a bit and people are finding it interesting.

I think there must be more to the OP's story than we're being told, otherwise (as you say) she shouldn't have any issue getting her treatment covered.

joshingaround · 17/03/2025 17:26

Reading this all with alarm. I have a long history of various medical stuff including cancer.

I have to have specialist travel insurance as there are only three who will consider me - and only one who does not cost more than £2k just to insure me. However it takes me about three hours to get insurance online as I have to go through all my conditions that I’ve currently got. And if you press one button incorrectly you literally have no way to correct it and have to start again! Not just that part again, the whole claim again. It is appallingly bad, but that’s what I have to work with as a cancer patient.

But there are plenty more illnesses and chemo related stuff in the past that haven’t bothered me for 20 years eg appendicitis or UTIs when I was having chemo (only caused by chemo, never had one since). Do I literally have to ALSO include stuff from 20 years ago in case I have something else (eg bowel perforation (never had it, just using an example) because otherwise they might say it’s related to the appendix op you had 20 years ago? Or related to the C-section I had with my children? Do I have to declare c-sections? Do I have to declare covid? - I had to call the GP as I got a chest infection but recovered and that was five years ago. Where do you draw the line?

Oopsps · 17/03/2025 18:22

Gogogo12345 · 17/03/2025 09:09

Not sure on insurance thing but as far as I'm aware Australia have a reciprocal agreement with the UK so you shouldn't be charged for treatment unless you went to a private hospital ( assuming you are a UK citizen of course)

I am Australian but my family are English - there is reciprocal rights unless you went to a private hospital but as an emergency I doubt it? When we land we can get a temp medicare card (equivalent of NHS) - ring medicare and ask for advice? I am pretty sure you can also go to medicare and get a refund. My english hubby went to A&E twice last visit and staying in hospital for a few days and he just had to show his english passport.

anyolddinosaur · 17/03/2025 18:29

@joshingaround biscuitsandbooks has been panicking people - and she's wrong. She now admits that her insurer only asked for something like 2 or 3 years - it was most likely 2 years - for any visits to a doctor. You do have to declare conditions that are ongoing but not e.g. your C section. You declare covid if you saw your gp in the last however many years they ask for - so maybe yes if within the last 2 years but not from 5 years ago. You also have to declare any conditions they specifically say they must be told about if you have ever had them, so things like heart problems and breathing issues including asthma. So I'd phone up and ask if a one off chest infection counted. I cant remember but cancer if probably one of the "ever had it" things you must declare.

Anything I'm doubtful about I phone and ask them, you may be told they dont want to know if it's in the past or that they can cover you for a small amount extra - I had to pay about £2.50 once because an infection meant a gp visit.

Truetoself · 17/03/2025 21:14

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 11:00

The problem is that it doesn’t matter whether the IBS symptoms are linked to the current issue. Insurance companies ask you to declare everything and will refuse to pay if they find you’ve been dishonest.

Whether this particular case will be upheld by the Ombudsman is anyone’s guess - OP will have to go through the formal complaints procedure before the Ombudsman can get involved.

But the in the OP’s case the GP suggested her symptoms could be due to IBS. However, she may not actually have had IBS. I bet the GP could write a letter of support if asked to do so for a fee

Dontsayyouloveme · 17/03/2025 22:06

Babyboomtastic · 17/03/2025 10:48

There was a recent ombudsman decision in favour if the insurance company were a poor woman, collapsed on holiday and was found to have a brain tumour requiring emergency surgery. The brain tumours a sort that's almost certainly going to kill her.

Reason for her claim being denied: she'd recently started HRT. Completely unrelated but she hadn't thought to update her insurers on starting a medication not for an illness but at ease a stage of life!

Very sad, and shows what these insurance companies can get away with.

There's also a toddler who into yesterday was stuck in Mexico, who out of the blue had a brain hemorrhage. They disclosed hospital visits for bronchitis and jaundice as a baby, but seemingly didn't give all the dates, so because mum messed up the admin, baby wasn't covered. They had to fundraise to cover the costs of getting her back to a UK hospital.

I'm really sorry OP, I hope you get somewhere with appeal, but what these insurance companies can get away with is scandalous.

And HRT isn’t even medication! It’s hormones.. madness !!

Expletive · 17/03/2025 22:22

Dontsayyouloveme · 17/03/2025 22:06

And HRT isn’t even medication! It’s hormones.. madness !!

I checked with our insurer and It is regarded prescription medication and you do need to declare it. It made no difference to the policy cost.