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To say go and support your local independent businesses

115 replies

Nutmuncher · 09/03/2025 09:27

Just that really, retail is in absolute dire straits right now pretty much across the board. The big chain stores are better positioned to fight on through but your small independent shops in your local high street such as butchers, bakeries, antiques shops, homewards, art galleries, book shops, florists, coffee shops are all struggling and need our help no matter how small that may be.

That gorgeous tea room, cute card and gift shop, beautiful florist or dreamy book shop will be gone unless WE start using them as much as possible. Small businesses desperately need help and the true saviours will not be in the form of billionaires or politicians, it’s down to us to make sure they survive. Switch up your Starbucks for a local coffee, buy a bunch of flowers from your florist not M&S. Buy a print/ painting from your local small gallery instead of an IKEA picture, beautiful greetings cards can often be found in them too. I for one don’t want a high street full of vape shops, barbers and nail salons because they’re the only ones able to afford the rent on the units.

Your small switch up no matter how insignificant it may seem could make a huge difference to someone’s livelihood.

OP posts:
Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:36

Fatloss · 09/03/2025 18:54

when I wfh I could just about go to a shop up to 9.40 when I’m starting work at 10am or from 4.15 when I’m on early. Local butcher isn’t open at those times days I’m free. There is a market but setting up or shut at those times. Butcher closes at lunch time.

The trouble is that small shop owners often can't afford staff, or can only afford limited hours for extra staff, so they're in a catch 22 situation. The butcher needs a lunch hour. If he employs an assistant, they need a lunch hour too. Lots of retail staff only want to work "school" hours so the owner has to cover the time before and after themselves, as well as the rest of the day, which makes a very long day. I'm not making excuses here, I'm sure small shop owners want to open longer, but you have to be realistic as to how much someone can do. If, say, a cafe owner or sandwich shop owner has been in since 7am doing preparation, setting up the ovens and other machinery, starting to cook food, etc., for the morning rush, you really can't expect them to work through lunch and still be working till late afternoon or early evening - it's why so many close just after lunch - who wouldn't if you'd started at 7am.

With the advent of working from home, you'd think that customers would be more flexible these days now that they're not trapped in the office 9 to 5 with a commute either end, and there are some green shoots of some shops/cafes in certain perhaps more leefy areas seeing an increase in trade during the day.

biscuitsandbooks · 09/03/2025 19:40

I think it's why so many small businesses struggle @Badbadbunny - you either need to work long hours as a solo operator, or make enough money to hire 2-3 members of staff to cover those hours for you. Unfortunately, most people get stuck in the stage where they can only afford one staff member and can't open longer hours but still need to pay the extra salary.

Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:48

Cattreesea · 09/03/2025 18:04

I agree with you OP.

If we want local high streets and small towns to thrive we have to try to shop local.

Going to a coffee shop is a treat for me (as I have an average wage) but I make sure I use my favourite independent coffee shop rather than any of the chains.

I also use the local florist and greengrocer as much as possible. Same for clothes. I mostly use charity shops or small independent shops and no longer buy from big retailers.

I find waiting for deliveries to be a pain and I would much rather walk into town and shop local and get some fresh air.

We also have a weekly market on Saturdays and it is possible to get fruits and vegs or bread at a very reasonable price there.

Edited

Nail on the head. Use it or lose it, whether it's a shop, cafe or pub.

We've a little hardware shop in our village - it only exists because it's attached to an ironmonger/small steel works making garden gates etc - literally the workshop staff will go into the shop when they get a customer - no "permanent" shop staff so it's low overheads. It's basically the "storeroom" of the workshop, but also open to the public. Typical "open all hours" or Two Ronnies Four Candles type of shop where 90% of the stock is on shelves, in boxes or drawers behind the counter. Very intimidating for a casual customer as very little is on display and even less is priced up. I lived in the village many years before I went in. But when you get over that, the staff are brilliant and everything they sell is pretty cheap. Not only that, but you can literally buy a single screw or nail if you want, likewise a single bracket or hook or strap, etc. None of this having to buy a pack of 10 from ebay/amazon/wickes etc. It's just really strange having to ask for things instead of choosing them from a huge well laid out shop. Not only that but if you ask for something they've not got in the shop, they'll either offer to get it in for you within a few days or they may even get one from the workshop if it's a particular tool that they're not needing immediately and will sell it at used prices to you, and then buy in a new one for themselves to replace. Ultra friendly and ultra helpful. Places like that just take a bit of getting used to. You may ask why they don't display things better, but it's a tiny shop and there's literally no room to display even a fraction of the stock they have. It's very popular with local tradesmen such as plumbers, electricians, builders, joiners, etc as they don't have to drive to the nearby town to where the builders' merchants are located. A real asset to the village, and the entire village would be a worse place if it ever closes, especially as the tradesmen, delivery drivers, etc., tend to buy breakfast buns, lunches, etc at the sandwich/pie shop just down the road, so it drives customers to other local businesses too.

Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:51

biscuitsandbooks · 09/03/2025 19:40

I think it's why so many small businesses struggle @Badbadbunny - you either need to work long hours as a solo operator, or make enough money to hire 2-3 members of staff to cover those hours for you. Unfortunately, most people get stuck in the stage where they can only afford one staff member and can't open longer hours but still need to pay the extra salary.

Yup, you're right there. I have loads of small business clients, such as shops, cafes, etc., and they all say the same thing. Can't do everything themselves, but can't afford staff to do it instead. A few decades ago, small shops were "family" businesses with the family living above/behind the shop, so the spouse, parent or child could "help out" at busy times and spread the load to open longer hours, but we don't have that any more and a huge proportion of small shops really are one man/woman bands. Even worse with the increases in minimum wage, employment rights, on top of cost of utilities etc rising, stupidly high rents, etc etc.

AnotherSlicePlease · 09/03/2025 19:54

DarkMagicStars · 09/03/2025 09:37

That would be wonderful but you can’t deny their prices are much higher.

Unfortunately butchers, bakeries, antique shops, homewards, book shops, florists and coffee shops are all places I avoid.

Buying coffee and cakes while I’m out is a flat no. I do not want to throw money away on things like this.

I also don’t want to spend upwards of £4 on a card when I can buy one from Home Bargains for 79p when so many people begrudge even receiving them.

On the flip side I do support nail salons and hairdressers. Barbers etc need a livelihood too.

Not meant to be snarky but a genuine question. Why are you even bothering with cards for those people who begrudge them? I just would save myself the 79p!

biscuitsandbooks · 09/03/2025 19:56

Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:51

Yup, you're right there. I have loads of small business clients, such as shops, cafes, etc., and they all say the same thing. Can't do everything themselves, but can't afford staff to do it instead. A few decades ago, small shops were "family" businesses with the family living above/behind the shop, so the spouse, parent or child could "help out" at busy times and spread the load to open longer hours, but we don't have that any more and a huge proportion of small shops really are one man/woman bands. Even worse with the increases in minimum wage, employment rights, on top of cost of utilities etc rising, stupidly high rents, etc etc.

Definitely.

I'm self-employed myself and full to capacity, but can't afford the costs that come with expanding - yes, long term it could make me more money, but there's that "gap" of time where I haven't necessarily got the extra clients but still need to cover an extra set of wages. And I don't even have a shop to worry about!

TartanMammy · 09/03/2025 20:02

Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:36

The trouble is that small shop owners often can't afford staff, or can only afford limited hours for extra staff, so they're in a catch 22 situation. The butcher needs a lunch hour. If he employs an assistant, they need a lunch hour too. Lots of retail staff only want to work "school" hours so the owner has to cover the time before and after themselves, as well as the rest of the day, which makes a very long day. I'm not making excuses here, I'm sure small shop owners want to open longer, but you have to be realistic as to how much someone can do. If, say, a cafe owner or sandwich shop owner has been in since 7am doing preparation, setting up the ovens and other machinery, starting to cook food, etc., for the morning rush, you really can't expect them to work through lunch and still be working till late afternoon or early evening - it's why so many close just after lunch - who wouldn't if you'd started at 7am.

With the advent of working from home, you'd think that customers would be more flexible these days now that they're not trapped in the office 9 to 5 with a commute either end, and there are some green shoots of some shops/cafes in certain perhaps more leefy areas seeing an increase in trade during the day.

I WFH, so I'm not 'trapped in the office 9-5' but I am now trapped at home! I barely get time for a sandwich nevermind to drive to town, park, walk to shops (which never have their own parking), buy what I need, drive home and then still have to have lunch. WFH doesn't suddenly mean you can swan off to the shops during working hours.

Also shift workers who start at 7am don't finish work just after lunchtime! When dp is working a day shift he's 7-4 or 6:30-3:30. If these businesses want the custom they need to make it easy for their customers.

Fatloss · 09/03/2025 20:05

Badbadbunny · 09/03/2025 19:36

The trouble is that small shop owners often can't afford staff, or can only afford limited hours for extra staff, so they're in a catch 22 situation. The butcher needs a lunch hour. If he employs an assistant, they need a lunch hour too. Lots of retail staff only want to work "school" hours so the owner has to cover the time before and after themselves, as well as the rest of the day, which makes a very long day. I'm not making excuses here, I'm sure small shop owners want to open longer, but you have to be realistic as to how much someone can do. If, say, a cafe owner or sandwich shop owner has been in since 7am doing preparation, setting up the ovens and other machinery, starting to cook food, etc., for the morning rush, you really can't expect them to work through lunch and still be working till late afternoon or early evening - it's why so many close just after lunch - who wouldn't if you'd started at 7am.

With the advent of working from home, you'd think that customers would be more flexible these days now that they're not trapped in the office 9 to 5 with a commute either end, and there are some green shoots of some shops/cafes in certain perhaps more leefy areas seeing an increase in trade during the day.

@Badbadbunny i can see the dilemma, I don’t blame the butcher but it means one less customer for them. I work on a helpline so don’t have too much flexibility during the working day.
was a response as to why I can’t help to save independent businesses.

pearbottomjeans · 09/03/2025 20:07

YABU, no one needs to be told that. Hardly ground breaking.

TheNoonBell · 09/03/2025 20:37

I buy quite a bit local, butchers, grocer, bakers every day or two with a once a fortnight trip to Tesco for booze/loo roll/cleaning stuff. The local stores are great and beat the supermarkets on quality but aren't that much more expensive and I can walk to them so get some exercise. It's great being on first names with the staff and getting some local gossip.

honeybeetheoneandonly · 09/03/2025 21:24

I think most people try to get things at the cheapest possible price at a quality they are happy with. I happily use charity shops, independent retailers, Amazon, Primark etc. if I see something I like, at a price I'm happy with, I'll get it from whatever the place is. Our local greengrocers got their stock at the cheapest possible price as well. They didn't support local farmers, as far as I know. Many of their fruit and veg came from the Netherlands and Spain and I mean fruit and veg that grow in the UK and were in season at the time.

Hoppinggreen · 09/03/2025 21:31

Convenience is more important than cost for me to be honest and small independents aren't always the most convenient

PassingStranger · 09/03/2025 23:27

gmgnts · 09/03/2025 11:14

I donate quite a lot to various charities which support causes I'm sympathetic to, but I will not give money away to support independent businesses that are usually overpriced and offer poor customer service, particularly with restricted opening hours. They don't deserve my money - as someone said upthread, why would I pay £4 for a birthday card that I can get for 79p in Homebase? This is a capitalist society and the businesses that succeed are those that offer things people want at a price they can afford. If they don't, I'm not chucking my money at them for the sake of it. Dragons Den proves that there are some great entrepreneurs out there, but sadly, most new businesses fail within the first year. Life has changed since the coming of the Internet, and it's just inevitable that consumers will turn to online shopping that is so much more convenient. If you want to support small businesses, turn to Etsy. But the demise of the High Street is no great tragedy IMHO - just a response to changes in the way society operates.

Survival of the fittest.

Gingerkittykat · 10/03/2025 05:48

I use my local fishmonger every couple of months even if it's a 20 minute drive away because I value the quality. It is far more expensive than a supermarket but sells things they don't.

I very rarely use a local butcher. It is expensive but again there are a couple of things I can't get anywhere else.

I found an amazing coffee shop in the town centre which is attached to some kind of arts centre. It's only £5.10 for a coffee and scone and a lovely environment to sit back and relax for a while.

I would love to eat in local restaurants, but most of them have closed down, including a lovely Scottish tapas place. There's been two closed down in the past couple of weeks.

I buy at a local baker, it's cheaper than Greggs and has a better choice.

I would never buy the kind of twee rubbish that gift shops sell!

abracadabra1980 · 10/03/2025 06:13

DefensiveMagpie · 09/03/2025 10:19

I'm not well off but for me it's much more about time than it is cost. I work 8-5, the independent butchers, greengrocers etc. here are closed by the time I finish work and to shop there at the weekends is awkward because parking is crap and the shops are nowhere near each other.

Parking in my town is limited to two hours whether you pay for it or not - not long enough to cover shopping/browsing/hair appt./lunch.
If I have to stop halfway through it all to move the car I'm far more likely to just do the bare minimum and then head home.

Same here. Time wins over morality when shopping for me, too.
Saying that, I would like to see the Gvt investigating and visibly doing something, about the multitude of ugly cheap looking vape, nail salon and barber shops ruining every small town in the UK. It is beyond a joke now. The tacky nightclub exteriors ruin the vibe of our areas. The amount spent on kitting out these 'disco shops' is in the tens of £1000's. Who pays?
We all know that most of them are financed by illegal means-case in point in my town, of a friend's child (17) informing me his friends were offered cannabis via one (of the many) near us. That one has, thankfully, closed now.

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