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Is it a thing to use His instead of He's?

148 replies

boringbelle · 23/02/2025 09:28

I'm noticing that many posts online are using His when they mean 'he's'. I thought it was a typo at first, but seeing it so often I wonder if people don't know that it's incorrect and are spelling out 'he's' as they say it.

But what I've also noticed is that no one seems to correct it like they do with other grammatical inaccuracies such as 'Your' instead of '

So AIBU to care, as I find it so annoying, especially as I think it's a new error that's creeping in?

OP posts:
dontforgetme · 23/02/2025 09:58

My best friend does this. 'His going to football' 'aww his so cute' etc etc
It drives me mad!

FlippingMarvellous · 23/02/2025 09:58

Could I throw in dint instead of didn't and noone instead of no-one please?

Whippetlovely · 23/02/2025 09:58

Yabu. I'm terrible at spelling myself. This is a message forum so it's not like a legal document. It really doesn't matter. My middle class friend likes to point out my spelling mistakes on WhatsApp it's become a running joke. Working class people would never do this, it is a snobbery thing. My poor spelling has not held me back in life. I have much more important things to worry about.

TheElvesLongSleeves · 23/02/2025 10:00

Velvian · 23/02/2025 09:58

I've seen his for he's frequently on here. Loose for lose is at epidemic levels on MN. I don't mind a typo, my phone comes up with some crazy shit, but a fairy dies every time someone types loose instead of lose. 😭

Bought/brought as well

Says the skip/skipped dummy😂

YouHaveAWomansHand · 23/02/2025 10:03

I've noticed it a lot more recently.

I always try not to judge but this recent comment on my son's school WhatsApp group really tested me...

"His lost he's jumper again"

AGH!

Luluissleeping · 23/02/2025 10:05

Aswell, alot, abit

Floraflower3 · 23/02/2025 10:06

I’ve noticed it a lot too OP. I don’t understand it tbh because even in other accents surely you should be pronouncing them differently? I once had a colleague that would say he’s instead of his when speaking and it sounded so wrong.

I have noticed terrible spelling in general online recently, cresh instead of crèche, wear instead of ware (context of table dressing) etc.

Overtheatlantic · 23/02/2025 10:07

He’s is not a word.

Clodin · 23/02/2025 10:07

One word that so many people don’t seem to know the meaning of anymore is mortified. I see everywhere.
“I was home alone and there was a man in my garden late at night and I was mortified!!!”
”I was driving on the motorway and a speeding driver nearly hit me and i was mortified I was going to die!!”

No you weren’t mortified. You were terrified/horrified/scared.

Strawberryfruitcorner · 23/02/2025 10:07

Some of the comments on here make people sound so sheltered and the criticising of intelligence makes me cringe.

As if people can’t honestly understand why someone would pronounce or write something differently.

Or why a menu in a restaurant might have a mistake on one line and not the other.

Fun fact - not everyone in the UK speaks and writes perfect English and there are multiple reasons for that. If you’re all so smart, look them up.

DevilsIvyy · 23/02/2025 10:08

I’ve started seeing this all the time. There’s a person I notice on here who always writes his instead of he’s.

Fitzcarraldo353 · 23/02/2025 10:08

Redpeach · 23/02/2025 09:46

It's enough to make a pedant 'loose' their mind.

I genuinely think the word lose - or at least that spelling of the word - is soon going to be just phased out of use. SO many people just use loose now that it's becoming obsolete.

JudgeBread · 23/02/2025 10:11

RobinGoch · 23/02/2025 09:46

Mind your apostrophes there 😀 it can happen to us all!

I'm blaming autocorrect 👀

boringbelle · 23/02/2025 10:13

@Strawberryfruitcorner - so should we just accept it as a change to our language?

I would never correct anybody online although I would someone I knew well in real life (as it's totally incorrect and makes no sense).

But part of my AIBU is that I have never seen it corrected online (by the pedants 😀) although lots of other errors are.

OP posts:
MightyBust · 23/02/2025 10:14

His and he's sound very different in my accent.

I find malaprops like this really interesting.

blacksax · 23/02/2025 10:15

I long ago came to the conclusion that to all intents and purposes, a lot of people are functionally illiterate. Mostly through no fault of their own. It staggers me that children can spend so long in education and emerge the other end unable to string a coherent sentence together.

GoldenLegend · 23/02/2025 10:15

It’s lack of education. Similar to people who don’t know the difference between ‘brought’ and ‘bought’ and those who use ‘a’ when they mean ‘I’.

Mydadsbirthday · 23/02/2025 10:16

Whippetlovely · 23/02/2025 09:58

Yabu. I'm terrible at spelling myself. This is a message forum so it's not like a legal document. It really doesn't matter. My middle class friend likes to point out my spelling mistakes on WhatsApp it's become a running joke. Working class people would never do this, it is a snobbery thing. My poor spelling has not held me back in life. I have much more important things to worry about.

It does matter, and it's not a middle class thing.
It makes you look uneducated when you write and difficult for people to understand what you have written.
It really, really does matter.

User79853257976 · 23/02/2025 10:17

Newrumpus · 23/02/2025 09:37

In my accent ‘his’ is pronounced ‘he’s’ as in ‘that’s one of he’s favourites’. I think that possibly leads to confusion when writing as the 2 words sound exactly the same when in most accents there is a clear distinction.

What accent is that?

Mydadsbirthday · 23/02/2025 10:17

YouHaveAWomansHand · 23/02/2025 10:03

I've noticed it a lot more recently.

I always try not to judge but this recent comment on my son's school WhatsApp group really tested me...

"His lost he's jumper again"

AGH!

I have just never come across this but I'm flabbergasted.
Are these people born in the UK?
Isn't it just absolute basic grammar and anyone who had picked up one book or newspaper in their life would know this?

Could of / should of drives me insane but this is a new one.

Strawberryfruitcorner · 23/02/2025 10:18

boringbelle · 23/02/2025 10:13

@Strawberryfruitcorner - so should we just accept it as a change to our language?

I would never correct anybody online although I would someone I knew well in real life (as it's totally incorrect and makes no sense).

But part of my AIBU is that I have never seen it corrected online (by the pedants 😀) although lots of other errors are.

😂 “our language” hasn’t changed, it was never perfectly written or spoken to begin with, whether that be due to accents or competency etc.

The internet is showing you other people’s understanding of it and competency in it.

User79853257976 · 23/02/2025 10:18

I see it the other way around and also hate people saying “I seen it” instead of “saw”.

Wildflowers99 · 23/02/2025 10:18

Don’t even get me started on ‘we was’

Crazycatlady79 · 23/02/2025 10:18

JudgeBread · 23/02/2025 09:35

I've not seen this one much, but I've heard it spoken both ways around so I assume it's just one of those little linguistic quirks that works it's way into the written language.

As a hardened pedant who also loves the internet and also loves language and etymology, I've had to accept a lot of linguistic quirks that have worked their way into written language. If I corrected every one I saw I'd never do anything else.

*its

Mydadsbirthday · 23/02/2025 10:19

Strawberryfruitcorner · 23/02/2025 10:07

Some of the comments on here make people sound so sheltered and the criticising of intelligence makes me cringe.

As if people can’t honestly understand why someone would pronounce or write something differently.

Or why a menu in a restaurant might have a mistake on one line and not the other.

Fun fact - not everyone in the UK speaks and writes perfect English and there are multiple reasons for that. If you’re all so smart, look them up.

Edited

It's not "differently" like having a different accent. It's just plain wrong and does the writer a disservice. They're actually letting themselves down.

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