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Most people don’t declare medical conditions at work unless they absolutely have to.

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Grapesandcheseseplease · 12/01/2025 15:23

I’ve had a few medical conditions since my twenties (I’m now in my forties) which I never declared on work applications or on health checks at work. I haven’t needed any adaptations at work and no one was in danger so I felt that telling them would be pointless and I would face discrimination. In my last job I declared a medical condition and within weeks was pushed out. Speaking to my friends, it seems we’re quite split.

What do you think?
YABU- I have always been honest about my health in (prospective) jobs.
YANBU- I do not declare heath issues unless absolutely necessary.

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WaitingForMojo · 12/01/2025 15:25

YABU - if the company would discriminate, it won’t be a good place for me to work.

It also depends what you do. In some roles that require health clearance, not disclosing would be a dismissable offence.

Sasskitty · 12/01/2025 15:27

Totally depends what the job is, and how the condition affects you / could affect you. 🤷‍♀️

Owwwwwww · 12/01/2025 15:27

Probably depends on what the medical conditions are. I’ve had MH issues for decades and have always hidden them (until they became unavoidable) as the discrimination and stigma has been awful. Quite a change these days when younger people and celebrities are queuing up to declare MH issues.

DogInATent · 12/01/2025 15:30

Depends on the condition and depends on the job. There are no useful generalisations here.

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 12/01/2025 15:32

Depends on condition and job. I'm on the lookout for jobs and wouldn't disclose my ADHD (as unlikely to affect my work, I've developed coping mechanisms etc) but would disclose brain tumour and epilepsy because it's a safety risk if I don't. Impossible to make a general statement.

Snowmanscarf · 12/01/2025 15:34

Never declared any medical conditions.

Grapesandcheseseplease · 12/01/2025 15:34

WaitingForMojo · 12/01/2025 15:25

YABU - if the company would discriminate, it won’t be a good place for me to work.

It also depends what you do. In some roles that require health clearance, not disclosing would be a dismissable offence.

How would you know if your company would discriminate before telling them? It was a dismissible offence in all of my jobs but I took the risk. I lied on medical checks, in 20 years no one ever found out.

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fghbvh · 12/01/2025 15:35

I've been honest in the past and had it used against me at work. I haven't declared any of my conditions at my new job and don't intend to unless I have to.

Grapesandcheseseplease · 12/01/2025 15:35

Owwwwwww · 12/01/2025 15:27

Probably depends on what the medical conditions are. I’ve had MH issues for decades and have always hidden them (until they became unavoidable) as the discrimination and stigma has been awful. Quite a change these days when younger people and celebrities are queuing up to declare MH issues.

This is exactly my point. People do discriminate even if it is illegal. It’s sad.

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Grapesandcheseseplease · 12/01/2025 15:36

fghbvh · 12/01/2025 15:35

I've been honest in the past and had it used against me at work. I haven't declared any of my conditions at my new job and don't intend to unless I have to.

This is my experience too. The one time I was honest it was used against me.

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InfoSecInTheCity · 12/01/2025 15:36

No one weds to know so they don't. If my medical conditions required time off or adaptations or made me a risk in the workplace then I'd share, but they don't so i don't.

civetcat · 12/01/2025 15:39

I know someone who had physical/mental health problems when young, which, although no longer issue and and having no implications for work, led to a lot of employment problems for years afterwards. She stopped disclosing them and the employment problems stopped happening. While making a claim for discrimation could have been possible, it wouldn't have helped in the long term re securing work. I think it's difficult to say unless you're directly affected and, as others have said, depends on the issue.

FoxInTheForest · 12/01/2025 15:44

I wouldn't declare anything unless essential until after getting a job, and then would judge whether it would be helpful or useful or necessary to share.

biscuitsandbooks · 12/01/2025 15:47

When I declared mental health issues and medication, I ended up being pushed/bullied out of my job.

So no, I wouldn't declare anything in the future.

JenniferBooth · 12/01/2025 15:50

Well of course they fucking dont. Take a look at the Dispatches Britains Benefit scandal thread and you will see why!

skilpadde · 12/01/2025 15:52

There is a counterargument that by not disclosing, you make it more difficult to get justice later (if it comes to that). This is particularly important if you have a condition that would mean you're likely to be a considered as having a disability under the Equality Act.

Your protection under the Equality Act arguably doesn't exist if your employer didn't know or couldn't reasonably have known about your condition, and wasn't given the opportunity to offer reasonable adjustments to you.

Failing to disclose has led to ex-employees losing claims at an employment tribunal, essentially because their employer couldn't be expected to be psychic. This happens even when the ex-employee had fair grounds for withholding the information, such as knowing that their employer had discriminated against or treated other employees poorly in relation to their disability / condition.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 12/01/2025 15:58

I'm T2 diabetic (well controlled with no issues) as is my boss. At the beginning of the first lockdown, they were very concerned for him and were preparing for him to wfh. I figured I should mention it at that point as the media were banging on about diabetes and covid and they're a genuinely caring company and would never have forgiven themselves if anything had happened to me.

I convinced them I could also wfh, which I did for three months. Otherwise, knowing what we know now, I guess wish they'd have furloughed me.

tootiredtoocare · 12/01/2025 15:58

Depends on the condition. I have epilepsy that is (thankfully) very well controlled, I've not had a seizure for years. However, it's always a possibility, so I declare it. Declaring also means that if they decide to change my role, or change my conditions of employment, I can say, no, that would be detrimental to my health (if I want to). It's not always a bad thing.

Mabiscuit · 12/01/2025 16:00

Once you tell work, confidentiality can be an issue even though it shouldn't be. Many colleagues know about my illness who really shouldn't. I'd only told my manager and HR because I was frequently being asked to do tasks that would worsen my illness. I wish I hadn't been forced into telling them but it was increasingly becoming a danger to my health.

MujeresLibres · 12/01/2025 16:01

I've always been honest. I'm diabetic though, and there might be a safety risk if something happened and no-one knew. I haven't experienced any discrimination to do with my health (that I know about!).

Toddlerteaplease · 12/01/2025 16:03

I've got MS. It's pretty obvious when it flares up. So I didn't have much choice but to tell people. My colleagues are all incredibly supportive though.

biscuitsandbooks · 12/01/2025 16:03

MujeresLibres · 12/01/2025 16:01

I've always been honest. I'm diabetic though, and there might be a safety risk if something happened and no-one knew. I haven't experienced any discrimination to do with my health (that I know about!).

Unfortunately, I think there's a big difference between declaring a physical disability or condition, and declaring a mental health issue or condition. Whether they'll admit it or not, there are huge issues with employers discriminating against people with MH issues, or just not knowing how to handle them. See also conditions like ADHD and autism.

HoppityBun · 12/01/2025 16:05

I have chronic diseases that were well controlled when I applied for my current job but I made clear what they were in my application form, even though at the time I felt a bit foolish because I wasn’t having any difficulties. I’m very glad that I did because they’ve caused me real problems over the years and it proved to be essential that they were marked up right from the beginning as the disabilities that they are.

ohyesido · 12/01/2025 16:11

I have ADHD and wouldn't dream of telling my employer or colleagues. I don't fancy being treated like I've just been released from a secure hospital

HellofromJohnCraven · 12/01/2025 16:11

Companies discriminate because they rightly judge the risk of action is small and manageable. .
I wouldn't declare anything unless it was unavoidable

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