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AIBU?

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To think you shouldn't have to work in the office on Christmas Eve?

340 replies

oliverwe · 11/11/2024 20:40

I work in an office environment. Some people work from home fully remotely, most people are in the office 3-4 days a week. My manager has decided that we must come in 5 days a week. That is minus him and other managers of course, who usually go to their country houses for long weekends.

My folk live in Cornwall and I'd like to go and see them for Christmas. It's about 6 hours on the train or driving.

Manager has told me he expects me in the office on Christmas Eve. I can't take annual leave as other people are. AIBU to think I shouldn't need to be in the office? I can and used to work from home so it's just grinch behaviour.

OP posts:
DragonFly98 · 11/11/2024 21:09

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 21:06

How can the OP do her job 'working from home' when she is spending 6 hours driving to Cornwall? Wink

Even before the op clarified it was obvious she would be working from Cornwall. Because as you smugly pointed out she can’t drive at work simultaneously. Use your brain.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 21:09

Fireworknight · 11/11/2024 20:45

I’ve always worked in the office in Christmas Day. It’s not a special day, but a normal working day.

You say it takes six hours to get to your parents. If you were wfh, were you planning to leave after work (and get there at midnight) or finish early? If finishing early, maybe that’s why they want people in the office…?

Christmas Day is a public holiday and is definitely a special day.
If you meant Christmas Eve, it's also a special day. Look up the public transport time tables and you'll see that things finish early. Many offices also close early.

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 21:10

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 21:06

No, it's not a normal working day. Many, many offices close early. Also the trains finish early. Loads of people who don't have relatives locally need to get the time off to see their families on Christmas Day.

It is by law a normal working day. Any businesses closing early etc are doing so at their own expense. They do not have to unless it is a day specifically referenced in your contract.

StormingNorman · 11/11/2024 21:10

They must have seen productivity drop on previous Christmas Eves. Do t blame the bosses…blame the colleagues who spoilt it for the rest of you.

TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams · 11/11/2024 21:10

oliverwe · 11/11/2024 20:44

I'd get the train after work on the Monday...

How's he going to know if you're dialled up from home? Is he going in?

DragonFly98 · 11/11/2024 21:11

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 21:07

Where does the OP say she will work from her mum's? Wink

(Also, seriously, did you think telling me to stop using emojis would result in me stopping? 😆)

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Edited

Op post 20.44 as pp said, can’t you read?

Mlanket · 11/11/2024 21:11

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway you seem confused & equating two different things. I can be aware that not everywhere closes early but still not have chosen to work in those places…

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 11/11/2024 21:11

I wanted to not be in the office Christmas eve so I booked leave, I got it this year I don't every year.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 21:11

DragonFly98 · 11/11/2024 21:09

Even before the op clarified it was obvious she would be working from Cornwall. Because as you smugly pointed out she can’t drive at work simultaneously. Use your brain.

Where did the OP say she will drive to her mum's the night before and work from home the next day? Go on, tell me. My brain clearly isn't working properly. Because I can't see her saying that ANYWHERE. I really can't.

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ilovesooty · 11/11/2024 21:11

Gemmawemma9 · 11/11/2024 21:05

Shes planning to travel the night before and work from her mums.
i wish people would read the thread before responding!!

And her employer might not consider that a suitable working environment.

BeensOnToost · 11/11/2024 21:11

Gemmawemma9 · 11/11/2024 21:06

Can’t you read??
and pack it in with the patronising winky face emojis.

Yup. I'm struggling to understand how anyone who can't work out that OP would travel the night before or work on the train is even employable.

All this fuss about having wfh culture is nonsense. Bosses were perfectly happy with it when it worked better for them during covid.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 21:13

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 21:10

It is by law a normal working day. Any businesses closing early etc are doing so at their own expense. They do not have to unless it is a day specifically referenced in your contract.

They do not have to, but many do.
Similarly, public transport schedules are different.
Also, as I've already mentioned those who do not have family nearby need to be able to travel on the 24th to see their family on the 25th, there being no public transport on the 25th.
It's not a 'normal day' and everybody knows it.

Thepurplepig · 11/11/2024 21:13

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 20:43

How were you going to "work from home" and drive to Cornwall at the same time? There is a reason boses are cracking down on WFH especially at times when people are maybe not doing the work part of working from home.

Exactly

EmmaMaria · 11/11/2024 21:13

Whatsitreallylike · 11/11/2024 20:42

He’s an arsehole. Even before COVID I was able to travel for Christmas and work remotely over the Christmas period.

Call in sick instead.

So she's going to work from home, drive to Cornwall and also get a sick note from the GP, all at the same time? If she's already been refused leave the employer has a right to demand a fit note if the wish to verify her "illness".

JurassicPark4Eva · 11/11/2024 21:14

Vettrianofan · 11/11/2024 20:41

I used to work Christmas Day and NYE/NYD and didn't bat an eyelid over it. Christmas Eve is just another day for many?

In a non-essential office job? Yeah, sure you did.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 11/11/2024 21:14

BeensOnToost · 11/11/2024 21:11

Yup. I'm struggling to understand how anyone who can't work out that OP would travel the night before or work on the train is even employable.

All this fuss about having wfh culture is nonsense. Bosses were perfectly happy with it when it worked better for them during covid.

OP has not said at any point that she will do her full day's work on the train on the way there. And how the F can she? Doing a full day's work on a 6 hour train trip will be impossible.

People are just assuming she will do her work then. And how can she do a full day's work properly on the train? Give over. I don't think it's ME who is 'unemployable' luv. Wink

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Freethebees · 11/11/2024 21:14

All that matters is your boss's opinion, nobody elses.

We used to always work in the office on Christmas Eve. It got moved to a 2pm finish in later years.

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 21:15

BeensOnToost · 11/11/2024 21:11

Yup. I'm struggling to understand how anyone who can't work out that OP would travel the night before or work on the train is even employable.

All this fuss about having wfh culture is nonsense. Bosses were perfectly happy with it when it worked better for them during covid.

Of course they were. Some work being done at home was better than none being done at all during Covid. But now people have WFH long enough to work out all the little tricks and how to get away with the minimum amount of work, it is just human nature for some. And as per usual the few piss takers have ruined it for everyone.

AmberAnt · 11/11/2024 21:15

Sorry OP but I think YABU.

if you’re contracted to work then you need to be available as and where.

I worked a job that allowed a bit of flex/early finish/wfh around Christmas but never guaranteed depending what was happening. If you have a long trip somewhere for Christmas Day then you need to book leave on 23rd/24th - that’s what I always did.

Mlanket · 11/11/2024 21:16

Any businesses closing early etc are doing so at their own expense.

It also depends on the business & the cost of staying open, eg a large Sainsbury’s or John Lewis will close at 4/5pm because the reduced footfall means it’s not worth been open.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 21:16

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 21:15

Of course they were. Some work being done at home was better than none being done at all during Covid. But now people have WFH long enough to work out all the little tricks and how to get away with the minimum amount of work, it is just human nature for some. And as per usual the few piss takers have ruined it for everyone.

Do you think the average office is really busy on Christmas Eve?

Mlanket · 11/11/2024 21:17

@Gwenhwyfar quite!

Guyforkz · 11/11/2024 21:18

Could you just go and say you didn’t realise you had to be in?

FWIW I think this unnecessary level of meanness is why most people are pushing to stay working from home at least some of the time.

Littletreefrog · 11/11/2024 21:18

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 21:13

They do not have to, but many do.
Similarly, public transport schedules are different.
Also, as I've already mentioned those who do not have family nearby need to be able to travel on the 24th to see their family on the 25th, there being no public transport on the 25th.
It's not a 'normal day' and everybody knows it.

People don't 'need' to travel to family on Christmas Eve they want to. Which is perfectly understandable. But generally time off or flexibility is on the goodwill of the employer and people throwing tantrums and Sickies because they don't get it is unreasonable.

MSLRT · 11/11/2024 21:19

Vettrianofan · 11/11/2024 20:41

I used to work Christmas Day and NYE/NYD and didn't bat an eyelid over it. Christmas Eve is just another day for many?

This isn’t about you though. The op wants to get gone for Christmas.