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Hotels with semi-open bathrooms / glass panels

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Evo20 · 12/10/2024 11:05

I have been staying in various different hotels in recent weeks:

>50% have had bathrooms which are either open to the bedroom, have glass walls (ie you can see straight into them), have a glass door etc.

Some of this glass is totally clear - some blasted but you can still see through.

Does anyone really want to watch whoever they share their room with on the toilet? In the shower? Changing a tampon?

The most recent was a family resort ie it’s expected a whole family is sharing the room, with a slightly blasted glass door

YABU: you’re a prude
YANBU: this is an insane design trend

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SingingSands · 14/10/2024 12:06

We had this on my last holiday with my female friends. All the rooms in the hotel were the same. My friend and I who usually room together just couldn't deal with this and actually split the cost of another room so we could have a room each.

User1836484645R · 14/10/2024 12:13

SingingSands · 14/10/2024 12:06

We had this on my last holiday with my female friends. All the rooms in the hotel were the same. My friend and I who usually room together just couldn't deal with this and actually split the cost of another room so we could have a room each.

It crossed my mind that this may be why hotels are doing it. They can charge more for two rooms.

I’m glad this thread has come up because I’m booking some hotels at the moment and it has reminded me to check for audience participation bathrooms.

Teddleshon · 14/10/2024 12:18

The thing is I can understand that while for some couples it isn't a problem who on earth positively likes this arrangement? I can't imagine anyone ever walking into a room and saying "oh great, the bathroom is completely open / transparent, just what I was hoping for".

And as for those rooms with a bath at the foot of the bed, the mind boggles.

User1836484645R · 14/10/2024 12:27

Teddleshon · 14/10/2024 12:18

The thing is I can understand that while for some couples it isn't a problem who on earth positively likes this arrangement? I can't imagine anyone ever walking into a room and saying "oh great, the bathroom is completely open / transparent, just what I was hoping for".

And as for those rooms with a bath at the foot of the bed, the mind boggles.

A bath isn’t so much of a problem to me. An open plan loo with and a husband with a stomach upset very definitely is.

I doubt gas masks and ear plugs are provided.

Teddleshon · 14/10/2024 12:45

For me the thing about the bath is the water getting everywhere and having nowhere to put any of your bath stuff.

BashfulClam · 14/10/2024 13:27

In 17 years neither me or DH have seen each other go to the loo. Unless it’s an emergency it is a line we will not cross.

Makingchocolatecake · 14/10/2024 22:34

We stayed in an apartment once with 5 toilets, 4 of which were doubles, side by side. And two bedrooms were just extensions of the living room with big curtains which was fine cause there were only 2 of us in a 6 person place.

No one ever closes the toilet door at our house

Wishitsnows · 14/10/2024 22:43

Hate them and avoid hotels with them if I remember to check before booking

bestbefore · 14/10/2024 22:47

Baffling! Stayed in one in Manchester, closed off loo but completely open plan sink and shower was behind frosted glass but once you stepped out you were in the room. Bizarre.

ODFOx · 14/10/2024 23:01

I agree with this 99.9% of the time.
If I'm away with DH we both like a solid bathroom wall.
On a work trip to China a few years ago, after several nights of perfectly acceptable but quite restrained hotels, we ended up in one with Wi-Fi, some UK/US TV channels, a huge copper bath, all the oils and potions one could wish for, loofahs and sponges and a glass bathroom wall.
I bade my colleague farewell and spent the evening floating in a scented tub watching dated but fantastic American movies. A real highlight if business travel.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 14/10/2024 23:58

MargaretBetts · 14/10/2024 10:01

Surprised no one has mentoned poo particles yet! 😂

Pooticles, for short.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 15/10/2024 00:04

TheFifthTellytubby · 14/10/2024 10:42

Maybe we should contact TripAdvisor en masse to ask if they could include "in-room bathroom privacy" or "solid/opaque bathroom walls" as a basic amenity, with a box to tick in the search menu (along with WiFi, car park etc.?) That might help to focus the minds of the large hotel chains and put an end to this idiocy...

This is a brilliant idea. Personally, I'd like to just see it framed as "does this room have a private bathroom?" with a simple classification of yes or no.

If that gained purchase, and hotels realised that they were being automatically classified alongside cheap seaside B&Bs with four bedrooms sharing a single bathroom off the main corridor - and thus being filtered out in the majority of user searches - just maybe they might do something about it.

Stillamum3 · 15/10/2024 02:23

I once stayed in a cheap B&B in Hull for a night. The room had been created by dividing a large, bay-windowed room in two, with half a bay window in each. The bathroom was in the bay window, so that when you sat on the loo you looked out over the street. I suppose the glass must have been frosted, but I have never felt so exposed in my life!

Crazyeight · 15/10/2024 06:58

StarlightLady · 14/10/2024 11:01

Open plan in a gym is for the health and security of all. There is a huge difference between changing/showering in view of others (no issues with that) and having a poo or changing Tampax, No to mention the related sound effects with having a dump and eau de poo that comes with it.

I can't see how a cubicle would impact health or security. I do have an issue showering in front of Betty from no.57. and I certainly don't want to see her naked. I have no idea why people pay for the privilege.

StarlightLady · 15/10/2024 07:04

Crazyeight · 15/10/2024 06:58

I can't see how a cubicle would impact health or security. I do have an issue showering in front of Betty from no.57. and I certainly don't want to see her naked. I have no idea why people pay for the privilege.

Because you cannot see what anyone is doing in a cubicle. Drugs? Alcohol consumption? Collapsed; possibly a higher risk after an overly excessive workout. Having a seizure?

This is one reason why so many changing rooms are open plan.

And l hear that Betty at No. 57 was born naked anyway!

Fizbosshoes · 15/10/2024 08:20

StarlightLady · 15/10/2024 07:04

Because you cannot see what anyone is doing in a cubicle. Drugs? Alcohol consumption? Collapsed; possibly a higher risk after an overly excessive workout. Having a seizure?

This is one reason why so many changing rooms are open plan.

And l hear that Betty at No. 57 was born naked anyway!

But any of those issues could happen in a toilet cubicle but most sensible places dont have glass walls or doors on toilets (yet.....) thankfully!!

I'd imagine a lot of changing rooms are likely to be open plan from a cost perspective (fewer walls and doors to construct) and possibly that you could fit more people in because they can use what would have been "corridor" space

Benmac · 15/10/2024 10:45

INNside by Melia have this as an intentional design feature. Most reviews are negative but the hotel group insist they will continue with it. They lost my booking when I discovered this was a feature inn their Newcastle hotel and reading comments here most people think the same

Poffy · 15/10/2024 12:38

The one I stayed in recently was an Iberostar.
Huge jacuzzi bath in the room, no door or curtain, if you opened the room door anyone in the corridoor could see you in the bath.
First niight DH filled it up and settled in. At 7pm the maid popped in to leave a chocolate etc.
After that he put the do not disturb on but that meant no chocolate and no (free) mini bar refills.

suburburban · 15/10/2024 13:00

Makingchocolatecake · 14/10/2024 22:34

We stayed in an apartment once with 5 toilets, 4 of which were doubles, side by side. And two bedrooms were just extensions of the living room with big curtains which was fine cause there were only 2 of us in a 6 person place.

No one ever closes the toilet door at our house

Why would you not want some privacy

Makingchocolatecake · 15/10/2024 13:09

suburburban · 15/10/2024 13:00

Why would you not want some privacy

I don't know, I'm just not bothered

Crikeyalmighty · 15/10/2024 13:10

@Crazyeight I never use hotel bedroom for these purposes , only ones in lobby - although occasionally might use for a wee in the night- I know my H thinks 'I'm odd' !!

Sandwichgen · 15/10/2024 13:14

Interesting, isn’t it, that though the hotels stand absolutely behind this design feature … photos of the rooms carefully exclude it

EvelynBeatrice · 15/10/2024 16:40

It seems to me that the world is increasingly accommodating, if not promoting, ahem male paraphilias and perversions - perhaps this is part of it. What women want appears secondary.

User1836484645R · 15/10/2024 16:46

EvelynBeatrice · 15/10/2024 16:40

It seems to me that the world is increasingly accommodating, if not promoting, ahem male paraphilias and perversions - perhaps this is part of it. What women want appears secondary.

Have you asked any men what they want? My husband has been quite vocal with his disgust.

Noellia · 15/10/2024 18:44

FictionalCharacter · 14/10/2024 03:10

I had no idea these stupid glass bathrooms were so common, but now that I know, I’m going to email hotels in advance asking if they have them. If they do, I won’t book.

I’ll be doing this too!

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