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AIBU to be fucked off at road marathons?

366 replies

JesusOnAYamaha · 07/10/2024 22:22

Once a year in London is one thing but they're bloody everywhere now and it's not like the organisers put diversions in so you can get to where you're going. We had one in our town a couple of months ago and I couldn't leave my (no through) street because they blocked it off so people could spend a day running past it. I mean I couldn't even cross the road at the end of my street, on foot. Now I've just found out that I can't get to where I need to be for a family event later this month because another load of joggers are closing down a bunch of roads into/in this other place.

AIBU to think they could just run round a park? Or a field? Or a racecourse? Or a hill? Or somewhere where they're not in the way of residents and other people who just want to go about their business.

I know I probably am BU. It's probably nice that people get to run around if they like running. They probably enjoy spending a day running past my street and I should be happy for them. But, I am a bit fucked off with it all.

OP posts:
NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 07:29

RunningForMySanity · 07/10/2024 23:04

Read my name and guess where I stand on it 😂

It’s usually no more than a once a year thing in most places (sorry if you live in one of the bigger cities that does have more than one, I guess that is just one of things about living in a big city - there are big events and some of them close roads!) but these events are such a positive thing for so many for so many reasons, with the bigger ones usually raising lots of money for charity too as well as bringing money to local hospitality businesses. It isn’t great if they didn’t communicate to you but in my experience there are usually signs up with pointers to traffic info well in advance and it’ll have been in the local news… that’s my sensible bit of the YABU.

My more selfish bit is that whilst I enjoy off road running for fun, I love racing on the roads to go fast - most parks just aren’t big enough for a marathon without it being a tonne of laps which is just boring (and then the park users moan too - see parkrun threads 👀)

We have one at least four or five times a year. The road outside is closed over my weekend from 3am to 4-5pm. There will be severe congestion if I try and go anywhere. We will only be able to shop in the corner shop.

The first marathon had me and the children going out to high five runners. Good luck to them all but we are marathoned out now. During next weekend’s run, I will need to spend my time off at home yet again. From 3am to at least 4-5pm, we will be at home.

The road outside is also frequently subjected to football matches which result in traffic at a standstill; ditto concerts and cricket matches.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 07:30

It gets old. And the marathon runners and their supporters are not spending their money in our local shops.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 07:36

Last year I could barely to collect my daughter from a school trip and had to set off hours in advance and then take two autistic children out for hours at a restaurant for their tea, when they were both overwhelmed and wanted to be at home.

I have to say I really just thought why can’t they all run around a park or find a road in the country side where you are not impacting on thousands of other people. It feels like quite economically advantaged people taking over lots of roads in an important artery into a city centre.

BuzzieLittleBee · 09/10/2024 08:02

@NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am Where do you live that has 4-5 marathons or half marathons a year??

widelegenes · 09/10/2024 08:19

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 07:30

It gets old. And the marathon runners and their supporters are not spending their money in our local shops.

I ran a 10K on Sunday and I did then go on to spend my money in the city shops, as well as the car park.
I didn't take any supporters, but there were some from my club and I know they went out to lunch and did some shopping.

CheeseWisely · 09/10/2024 08:24

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 07:30

It gets old. And the marathon runners and their supporters are not spending their money in our local shops.

Are they not? I've run several races in places other than where I live and have always made a weekend of it. Hotel, couple of meals out, mooch in the shops, maybe a local attraction depending where I am.

If the race is big enough to create closures lasting all day then participants will have come from all over and most will have arrived the day before. If it's a small local athletics club with no visitors then it won't be a big road closure situation. It's one or the other.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 08:39

We're going to to Brussels in April as Mr Monkey is running a half marathon there. We shall, I assure, you be spending money locally. We are staying three nights and will eat out every night and visit some local attractions.

Attracting tourists and spending is one of the key reasons towns and cities put running events on. Every race I have been to the pubs and cafes are full of runners afterwards, generally spending money.

This is all a getting a bit League of Gentleman with some additional sneering at people who dare to want to use public highways for anything other than driving cars.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 08:50

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 08:39

We're going to to Brussels in April as Mr Monkey is running a half marathon there. We shall, I assure, you be spending money locally. We are staying three nights and will eat out every night and visit some local attractions.

Attracting tourists and spending is one of the key reasons towns and cities put running events on. Every race I have been to the pubs and cafes are full of runners afterwards, generally spending money.

This is all a getting a bit League of Gentleman with some additional sneering at people who dare to want to use public highways for anything other than driving cars.

Edited

I’m not sneering at anyone. It was novel and now it’s a nuisance. If they spread them around a bit so that different areas were impacted, it would be more palatable.

Hoplolly · 09/10/2024 08:54

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 08:39

We're going to to Brussels in April as Mr Monkey is running a half marathon there. We shall, I assure, you be spending money locally. We are staying three nights and will eat out every night and visit some local attractions.

Attracting tourists and spending is one of the key reasons towns and cities put running events on. Every race I have been to the pubs and cafes are full of runners afterwards, generally spending money.

This is all a getting a bit League of Gentleman with some additional sneering at people who dare to want to use public highways for anything other than driving cars.

Edited

You mean, people dare to want to use them for their intended purpose? The horror! How very dare they!

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 08:56

sharpclawedkitten · 08/10/2024 09:33

A marathon takes a few hours and it's over.

There are loads of events which inconvenience others but from some reason it's only running or cycling events that people get upset about. I wonder why that is.

I don't like carnivals but my town has one. So I go out for the day it's on, or stay at home all day. It's one day.

Is it that hard? Carers are allowed through and if you need to go somewhere you can move your car to park it elsewhere just before the event starts.

OP, you say why can't they run around a park? There was a thread a few weeks ago on how inconvenient parkrun is for park users (for 30 minutes a week) and it filled up in no time, so I don't think people would like marathon/other event runners using their park regularly either.

There's a mentality of "I don't run and don't want to do it so nobody else should be able to" rather than "right I need to go out that day so where shall I put my car to make sure I can".

I don’t think there’s a mentality of I don’t run so no one else should.

I do like running.

And I also like my weekends, being a full time worker. And one tenth of them every year are affected by events such as this when my local road is closed at 3am and opened late the following day when everything is shut.

I have also got caring responsibilities which mean I may need to visit a hospital or something in the dead of night. So countless times a year, I need to find out how I can get out in an emergency. This is my third year of this and I’m understanding why it might piss people off.

The event organisers could think of different routes and give people a break.

sharpclawedkitten · 09/10/2024 08:59

Allfur · 08/10/2024 17:02

People drive to hobby activities in their cars, are they allowed?

Well, quite.

When I am out for a Sunday cycle ride I am always very conscious that some of the drivers behind me might be going to work or visiting aged parents etc.

But most are driving for leisure purposes and some are just driving somewhere they could have walked or cycled themselves in 10 minutes. I have no idea why cars are deemed more important than people but it's time it stopped. It won't though, it's getting worse with the size of cars and the fact that you are allowed massive entertainment systems on the dashboard so there's not even any pretence that drivers are concentrating on the roads.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 09:03

Ginmonkeyagain · 08/10/2024 15:47

I am baffled by all these people getting "stuck".

I travel a lot with Mr Monkey when he runs marathons. I tend to explore the city while he is running and I mostly manage to get around very unfamillar foreign cities, often my first visit, without the level of drama on here.

In Boston this year you had to be searched by the police every time you entered the race zone. I still managed to have a nice sightseeing day without creating too much of a fuss.

Edited

Right well I’m assuming you didn’t have to do your usual chores and stuff. You didn’t need to collect your child in X part of town, your child didn’t need to go to a birthday party, you didn’t have to go to the DIY store for an errand or do one of the 1000 jobs people have to do at weekends.

You swanned around a city centre, had coffee and drunk in the views. That’s comparing apples with oranges.

None of my neighbours are out cheering and clapping the runners. First year I couldn’t understand why. Now, I get it. They are over all that. They just accept they have to stay in and then some get fed up and say why can’t they hold these elsewhere for a change?

sharpclawedkitten · 09/10/2024 09:04

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 08:56

I don’t think there’s a mentality of I don’t run so no one else should.

I do like running.

And I also like my weekends, being a full time worker. And one tenth of them every year are affected by events such as this when my local road is closed at 3am and opened late the following day when everything is shut.

I have also got caring responsibilities which mean I may need to visit a hospital or something in the dead of night. So countless times a year, I need to find out how I can get out in an emergency. This is my third year of this and I’m understanding why it might piss people off.

The event organisers could think of different routes and give people a break.

1/10 of weekends is 5.

I've had a think of how many times we have events. There are two running races (one is only a 10k so over quickly). A carnival (lasts two days but mainly in a park) and a bonfire/firework display that puts that park out of commission for two days as well. And a one day Christmas market which takes up one street but there are plenty of ways around it.

Other than the half marathon, I can't think of anything that blocks anyone in for hours on end and even then it's not "hours on end", it's 2-3 and it has been moved so that the same people don't get blocked in every year. And there is plenty of notice so it is easy to plan around.

But even if it's 5 times a year, is it really that hard to plan around? All the events are well publicised wherever you live.

Roadworks are far more of a problem, especially when there are planned works that people know about, but then they go down the diversion and discover it's closed for "emergency" works (aka we didn't do the job properly first time around). I'd have thought that would be far more concerning if you need to get to a hospital.

Planned events are really not the problem here.

Noseylittlemoo · 09/10/2024 09:05

Agree completely with the @CheeseWisely and @Ginmonkeyagain . Most runners I know are always hungry after a race and will definitely use local shops /restaurants/pubs etc . And if they have bought supporters they'll also be spending. As said if youve travelled far you'll probably stay in accomodation locally and lots of runners will share their recommendations not just for races but also where to stay and where to eat .
I've friends where the man runs and the wife doesnt but they do a lot of race tourism and will not only rate the race but also the town/city, exhibitions etc. I've gone to places based on their recommendations

xsquared · 09/10/2024 09:07

@NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am
Wheredo you live that has 4/5 marathons or half's per year?

I have to say I really just thought why can’t they all run around a park or find a road in the country side where you are not impacting on thousands of other people.

Off road lapped events do exist, and the number of participants are usually a lot smaller - less than 500 compared to say 20000 for a road half or marathon.

This thread tells you why your suggestion of laps around a park would be a bad idea for a lot of people.

Page 20 | To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public? | Mumsnet

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them. They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5123468-to-think-parkrun-shouldnt-take-priority-over-the-rest-of-the-public?page=20

miserablecat · 09/10/2024 09:09

For anyone living in, or needing to visit Peterborough this weekend....there is a race with an entry limit of 8000 people.
There is a list of road closures with timings on the link below!

https://www.greateastern.run/

Great Eastern Run - 13th October 2024

One of the UK's flattest Half Marathon and 5K races is back on Sunday 13 October 2024 and promises to be the biggest and best to date!

https://www.greateastern.run

FeelinTwentySixPointTwo · 09/10/2024 09:12

Wheredo you live that has 4/5 marathons or half's per year?

With the reference to the football and the cricket as well, I'm presuming Trafford.
But if so, the OP is over-egging it a bit as there's only really two - the Manchester marathon (and half) on the same day in April, and then another half in October.

The 10k in May doesn't go further out than the football and cricket ground so only really affects the city centre and immediate surrounds.

I know as I used to live on the route(s) and found it no bother at all. The football traffic was much more disruptive. But then that's what you expect if you choose to live near Old Trafford..

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 09:13

Cities are used for mass participation runs because they are well linked with public transport and have facilties such as hotels, hospitality and shops.

Holding a race for 20k or so people in the middle of nowhere is not going to go well for the local area or the race.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 09:15

Alexandra2001 · 09/10/2024 06:56

As there is always a lot of prior notice, then park your car elsewhere and walk to it?

Anyway, how many Doctors appointments are early on a Sunday morning????

5 hours... talk about making stuff up...

I have two people with a blue badge at my house. You want them to walk? Ableist much?

Five hours? You have no idea. Closed from 3am to about 5pm.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 09:16

@NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am true but I also live in London and often I have work, chores, shopping or social events disrupted by all sorts of things - parades, state occasions, protests, marches, events, road works, sporting events, fesitvals etc...

We tend to just crack on and deal with it.

ClafoutisSurprise · 09/10/2024 09:17

Yanbu - there is an arrogance about unilaterally deciding, as the organisers of these events do, that it’s fine to inconvenience large numbers of people. Earlier this year I wanted to do some exercise myself by going to the park. Had forgotten it was marathon weekend and spent about an hour going up and down various roads and finding myself firmly barricaded on one side and even, despite the barriers, with runners hurtling towards me on the pavement.

I simply couldn’t find a way out of the zone I was stuck in and didn’t see a crossing the whole time I was pounding the pavement!

It’s a nice community feel when the marathon is on, so I’m not really against it, but the restrictions have been getting more restrictive over the last few years and an increasing number of roads affected. We used to have clear ways in and around before, but that no longer seems to apply. I think more compromise on the part of the organisers is needed.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 09:19

sharpclawedkitten · 09/10/2024 09:04

1/10 of weekends is 5.

I've had a think of how many times we have events. There are two running races (one is only a 10k so over quickly). A carnival (lasts two days but mainly in a park) and a bonfire/firework display that puts that park out of commission for two days as well. And a one day Christmas market which takes up one street but there are plenty of ways around it.

Other than the half marathon, I can't think of anything that blocks anyone in for hours on end and even then it's not "hours on end", it's 2-3 and it has been moved so that the same people don't get blocked in every year. And there is plenty of notice so it is easy to plan around.

But even if it's 5 times a year, is it really that hard to plan around? All the events are well publicised wherever you live.

Roadworks are far more of a problem, especially when there are planned works that people know about, but then they go down the diversion and discover it's closed for "emergency" works (aka we didn't do the job properly first time around). I'd have thought that would be far more concerning if you need to get to a hospital.

Planned events are really not the problem here.

You cannot think of any such events because it does not happen regularly in your area.

And you say a few hours. You have no idea what you are talking about. Road closures start at 3am.

Patronise off somewhere else.

NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am · 09/10/2024 09:21

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 09:16

@NotAnotherCodeBlueAt3Am true but I also live in London and often I have work, chores, shopping or social events disrupted by all sorts of things - parades, state occasions, protests, marches, events, road works, sporting events, fesitvals etc...

We tend to just crack on and deal with it.

Edited

I have lived in London for years and done all the above.

And it’s not in the same league.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 09:21

What?

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/10/2024 09:24

@ClafoutisSurprise the organisers don't "unilaterally decide" to do anything. You can't just decide to close a road for a private event. They submit a route to the council who give permission and may require changes to the roite or event the date based on safety, disruption and abilty to policd the event.