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Free breakfast clubs for ALL primary school children? Why?

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Safi7 · 29/07/2024 09:35

I’ve been overseas since the election so a bit out of the loop, but is it true that Labour are going to make it standard that all primary schools must now offer free breakfasts to all children, regardless of need?

Fair enough for children from deprived families - but all children?

Where is the money for this coming from?

Are Labour actually saying that in 2024, its now to much to expect parents to actually bother to feed their own children breakfast? This responsibility can just be pushed onto schools instead - as if they haven’t got enough on? Teachers are leaving in droves as it is. Du much is out in them - the jobs is becoming more like social work in too many cases. Who will staff these breakfast clubs and make sure kids are actually eating?

Surely this is just encouraging lazy parenting - ie parents who can well afford cereal / toast / eggs etc it but just won’t bother if their kids can eat at school instead. Plus children will be dumped at school earlier than necessary, just because parents can now get away with it?

Surely it’s better to direct resources where they are actually needed, rather than turn schools into free cafes? Makes no sense.

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Catseyesgrey · 29/07/2024 18:06

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 29/07/2024 13:08

Free school lunches for all in Scotland for a number of years now. There's no stigma and everyone accepts it as the norm. I think it stops at primary five. How would you decide who was entitled and who wasn't otherwise?

Increasing to p6 this year too in Scotland. People who don't need or want it don't always take it. Feed your kids instead of funding nuclear weapons and illegal wars.

cadburyegg · 29/07/2024 18:34

I don't see how on earth they can offer this in practice - my kids' primary has a capacity of 40 for wraparound care and there are huge waiting lists for both breakfast and after school club.

But I have to rely on my slightly unreliable ex husband to get to my house for 7.45am 2 days a week so I can get to work on time. If this was offered it would be a huge stress off my shoulders tbh. For me it's not about the money, it's about availability. My 9 year old in particular struggles going into school as it's so busy and overwhelming in the morning. A promise of some food might make the difference there 😅, particularly if they offer something like Nutella on toast which I don't tend to give at home.

LadyDanburysCane · 29/07/2024 18:35

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 13:59

However, the evidence suggests that children who do not attend preschool or nursery start school behind (in all the measures you mentioned and in academic learning) and stay behind their peers throughout their education, hence why the 15 funded hours for 2 yos of parents on benefits was introduced.

Maybe you were a super-SAHM who had a sparkling routine involving a great balance of adult-directed activities and child-led play but I think many SAHMs THINK they are doing lots for their children's development but really struggle to keep motivation and consistency going over the long term and end up bored, lonely and relying on Netflix a lot whilst trying to muster up the energy to tidy up the never-ending mess that comes with children at home all day.

The best balance for me was part-time work which left me with enough energy to spend 2 full days doing fun things with my daughter. My role changed slightly and I had to go full time, but now she's due to start school in September anyway. And she is fully potty trained and able to dress herself- at last check she can change from her uniform to her PE kit and back again all the way to shoes and socks in 9 minutes.

of course I think I was a great SAHM!

My children DID go to pre-school! Half a day Monday to Friday which we paid for. I took them and collected them. We also went to toddler groups.

when I did go back to work it was part time.

It’s great that your child is potty trained and can dress herself. You’ve done a good job there. Unfortunately a lot of the children coming to my school are dropped at a childminder between 7 and 8 am, picked up by the childminder and collected by parents between 6 and 7 pm then go to bed. These children hardly see their parents and there isn’t time to do things like potty training, learning how to self dress, learning how to use a knife and fork etc. the child minders try but they have several children at a time.

LadyDanburysCane · 29/07/2024 18:42

WalkingonWheels · 29/07/2024 14:16

Have you ever been un a school? The children absolutely know who is on FSM and who isn't, from as young as Year 2.

How? That info isn’t even available to most of our staff!

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 20:00

LadyDanburysCane · 29/07/2024 18:35

of course I think I was a great SAHM!

My children DID go to pre-school! Half a day Monday to Friday which we paid for. I took them and collected them. We also went to toddler groups.

when I did go back to work it was part time.

It’s great that your child is potty trained and can dress herself. You’ve done a good job there. Unfortunately a lot of the children coming to my school are dropped at a childminder between 7 and 8 am, picked up by the childminder and collected by parents between 6 and 7 pm then go to bed. These children hardly see their parents and there isn’t time to do things like potty training, learning how to self dress, learning how to use a knife and fork etc. the child minders try but they have several children at a time.

It's not the experience that I've had and the research doesn't bear it out.
I suppose it depends on the quality of the childcare but the nursery did a lot in terms of reinforcing our potty training methods and also having time and patience to allow her to learn to do things like putting on her shoes and socks independently whereas often at home we're running out of the door and it's easier to just do it for her.

At the very least, children who have been at nursery have learned how to use a knife and fork and sit at a table. Early childhood education at it's best, as in my daughter's case, means they've taught her to write her name, the whole alphabet phonetically, and even some simple sewing.

LadyDanburysCane · 29/07/2024 20:18

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 20:00

It's not the experience that I've had and the research doesn't bear it out.
I suppose it depends on the quality of the childcare but the nursery did a lot in terms of reinforcing our potty training methods and also having time and patience to allow her to learn to do things like putting on her shoes and socks independently whereas often at home we're running out of the door and it's easier to just do it for her.

At the very least, children who have been at nursery have learned how to use a knife and fork and sit at a table. Early childhood education at it's best, as in my daughter's case, means they've taught her to write her name, the whole alphabet phonetically, and even some simple sewing.

You obviously had a fantastic nursery.
My children also started school able to write their names, knew the alphabet, could count (DD higher than DS but he has special needs) but I admit I hadn’t taught either of them any sewing at that point. I did teach them to sew just not before they started school.
I think we can both agree that we gave our kids good starts. Mine are adults now and they both shine, in their own ways. Maybe they would have liked a “richer” childhood with foreign holidays etc. but I’m happy with the choices we made.

Cityandmakeup · 29/07/2024 20:18

hangingonfordearlife1 · 29/07/2024 09:40

i think it's more childcare aspect than the actual food

This. Poor staff

whereisthelifethatirecognize · 29/07/2024 20:41

RheaRend · 29/07/2024 14:14

The Universal FSM is not currently fully funded.

I assume this will not be.

What will schools cut to fund this like they did with the UFSM?

Exactly. People don't realise that cuts will have to be made to fund this as the government never fully funds these things....

whereisthelifethatirecognize · 29/07/2024 20:42

cadburyegg · 29/07/2024 18:34

I don't see how on earth they can offer this in practice - my kids' primary has a capacity of 40 for wraparound care and there are huge waiting lists for both breakfast and after school club.

But I have to rely on my slightly unreliable ex husband to get to my house for 7.45am 2 days a week so I can get to work on time. If this was offered it would be a huge stress off my shoulders tbh. For me it's not about the money, it's about availability. My 9 year old in particular struggles going into school as it's so busy and overwhelming in the morning. A promise of some food might make the difference there 😅, particularly if they offer something like Nutella on toast which I don't tend to give at home.

Nutella contains nuts... most schools won't be offering it 😅

Elbone · 29/07/2024 20:49

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 13:59

However, the evidence suggests that children who do not attend preschool or nursery start school behind (in all the measures you mentioned and in academic learning) and stay behind their peers throughout their education, hence why the 15 funded hours for 2 yos of parents on benefits was introduced.

Maybe you were a super-SAHM who had a sparkling routine involving a great balance of adult-directed activities and child-led play but I think many SAHMs THINK they are doing lots for their children's development but really struggle to keep motivation and consistency going over the long term and end up bored, lonely and relying on Netflix a lot whilst trying to muster up the energy to tidy up the never-ending mess that comes with children at home all day.

The best balance for me was part-time work which left me with enough energy to spend 2 full days doing fun things with my daughter. My role changed slightly and I had to go full time, but now she's due to start school in September anyway. And she is fully potty trained and able to dress herself- at last check she can change from her uniform to her PE kit and back again all the way to shoes and socks in 9 minutes.

Bit of projection here.

Grammarnut · 29/07/2024 20:53

Olympics2024 · 29/07/2024 09:40

A third of the children in the UK live in absolute poverty, their families don’t have enough money to feed them. The universal free school meal scheme has shown that uptake of free food services are higher when it’s universal. It’s go away to helping with childcare issues so parents can work. They’re hoping it will help with school attendance which is currently very low.

I think the idea of breakfast clubs for all is just flack. The government will not remove the two-child benefit cut (with it's lovely rape clause). Giving everyone's children breakfast is a con.

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 20:54

Elbone · 29/07/2024 20:49

Bit of projection here.

How is there any projection here? I'm not a SAHM. I just know a lot of SAHMs. I think most of the SAHMs I know would probably admit that they feel constantly overwhelmed and struggle to keep a routine or motivation and end up doing less with their kids than they had hoped. I know a few exceptions who really are supermums, sparkling clean houses and always finding educational and developmentally appropriate activities for their kids and managing to consistently do that day-in day-out. I have no problem admitting that without the routine of work and nursery, I'd fall into the first category and fall into inertia.

MattSmithsBowTie · 29/07/2024 21:41

Currently adds breakfast club costs us around £100 per month, wehave to use it as we both start work at 8:30am, she loves going and I know for at least one of her friends it means she starts school on time and she actually eats, because she will eat when sitting with her friends but refuses food at home and refuses to go straight into the classroom at 9am.

We have another child in nursery and because of the nursery and wraparound costs we spend more than we earn every month, even though we’re in professional jobs paid above NMW, so a saving of £100 a month will be very welcome.

wherethecityis · 29/07/2024 21:43

FlyingPandas · 29/07/2024 18:01

This this this.

It's a completely non-workable policy for the simple reason that there is no way it can operate, logistically.

I don't doubt that there are many children who would benefit from a free breakfast club and breakfast clubs, when run properly, are brilliant.

But.

Where are they going to hold these free breakfast clubs if every child in the school is entitled to go?
Who is going to organise and run them?
How is it going to work on a day to day basis?

It hasn't been thought through.

Never mind where the kids are going to eat these wonderful school breakfasts, apart from anything else, it is really hard to recruit staff to run wraparound care facilities. The school I work in has been trying to recruit breakfast club staff this year and received a grand total of 0 applications. Zero. None.

Similar when they tried to recruit for after-school club.

I've said it before but for what it's worth I'll say it again: everyone wants wraparound care, no-one wants to work in wraparound care. Because the hours are antisocial, the money is rubbish, the kids very often badly behaved and the parents rude and entitled.

I will be amazed if this grand plan actually ends up happening.

Edited

It’s a completely unworkable policy… apart from that fact that it works just fine in a huge number of schools in Wales that have been doing this for years, including my DCs primary school

Tippexy · 29/07/2024 22:10

MattSmithsBowTie · 29/07/2024 21:41

Currently adds breakfast club costs us around £100 per month, wehave to use it as we both start work at 8:30am, she loves going and I know for at least one of her friends it means she starts school on time and she actually eats, because she will eat when sitting with her friends but refuses food at home and refuses to go straight into the classroom at 9am.

We have another child in nursery and because of the nursery and wraparound costs we spend more than we earn every month, even though we’re in professional jobs paid above NMW, so a saving of £100 a month will be very welcome.

Yes, it makes me think this proposal will go the way of Sure Start centres; namely, the ‘wrong’ parents will be the ones who make the most use of it.

Piggiesinblankets · 29/07/2024 22:15

somewhatmiffed · 29/07/2024 14:32

I hate to disappoint you but social services base level for removing a child is shockingly low. And where would these children go? Do you think foster homes and care homes are better?

It breaks my heart whete the good enough threshold. I know a lot about this.

Removal is a last resort and not something ti be flippant about.

Not feeding your children is neglect though. We live in a country with free contraception so children are a choice, social housing and excellent benefits. Its inexcusable to not feed a child when basic breakfast items are cheap.

Spottyblobby · 29/07/2024 22:17

By making it free to all it means that families who may usually be ok can tap into it if needed. There will be some families not eligible for FSM who get by most months but if the washing machine, car, boiler breaks then things get very tight & uncomfortable which can lead to kids not getting the nutrition they need.

Jellytrain · 29/07/2024 22:36

You are all so privileged and blind sighted. So many kids are going to school with no breakfast, due to either poverty or poorly educated/bad parenting, and their own education is obviously affected. Teachers are either buying breakfast themselves or putting up with "hungry" kids who cannot concentrate. It's cheaper and easier to offer free breakfast to all in terms of administration. It's a good thing!!!

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 29/07/2024 22:44

Alwaystired2023 · 29/07/2024 09:39

I think it might be less to do with 'breakfast' and more to do with extended school hours allowing working parents to get to work?

Do you genuinely think that parents who do not need it are going to be getting up earlier than they need to and getting their kids to school earlier than necessary for the opportunity of a slice of free toast or a few free cocoa pops??

People will be using it because they need to, either for childcare or for the free food.

Even in my daughter's infants school where every single child is entitled to a free meal due to age, there are still plenty of them that bring in packed lunches.

Just because it's there, doesn't mean it's going to get abused. Have a little faith.

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 29/07/2024 22:44

@Alwaystired2023 I'm so sorry, that was supposed to be a general comment, not aimed at you!

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 29/07/2024 22:50

whereisthelifethatirecognize · 29/07/2024 20:42

Nutella contains nuts... most schools won't be offering it 😅

Oooh that would put me off. Nutella all over their white school shirts!! 😄

GettingStuffed · 29/07/2024 22:53

DGS goes to breakfast club a few times a week because his parents working hours overlap and he needs childcare.

This would probably help a large number of working parents.

kirbykirby · 29/07/2024 23:40

Fair enough for children from deprived families - but all children?

Why punish children just because their family is not deprived? It's not a child's fault they've been brought into a non-deprived family. We need to treat all children equally and stop punishing some based on their family circumstances.

sashh · 30/07/2024 01:09

Whatabonkersworld · 29/07/2024 12:22

No. I suggest the parents do whatever they need to do to afford to feed their children, or don't have children. It's not a given right.
Case in point.... walking past the Jobcentre yesterday and a whole slew of adults in designer gear, puffing away on a fag, their heads in a phone that I can only dream of owning. How can you possibly put smoking ahead of your childs health and wellbeing???

Most people can afford to have children, when they have them.

There are many ways to become a parent and not all of those are a case of get a career, buy a house, have children.

One of my neighbours was 19 when she took on her 3 nephews. I've lost touch since she moved but what 19 year old is in a secure financial position?

The children already existed, the 19 year old is saving you a fortune on fostering fees (you do not get paid to foster family) there are people like her up and down the country.

Alwaystired2023 · 30/07/2024 01:10

@orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements oh gosh no worries - I totally agree with your points