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to think good quality ready meals are quite healthy?

136 replies

Onlywayisupmaybe · 21/07/2024 12:09

My diet is pretty bad generally so I’m trying to change to have regular meals as a first step.

Am I deluding myself to think that ready meals from M&S healthy ranges (eat well and count on me) are quite healthy or do they count as UPF?

I don’t have the motivation to cook from scratch so any tips on easier options which are reasonably healthy would be appreciated.

OP posts:
EastEndQueen · 21/07/2024 22:50

I think they can be perfectly healthy OP (especially Cook/ Charlie Bigham type ones) - as others have said, I would usually just add a portion of veg (frozen is fine!) on the side. It sounds like there is a lot going on and you need nutrients and a full stomach with zero drama.

Sometimes even ‘a quick stir fry’ seems or is insurmountable and this is very understandable.

I love cooking btw but actually find high quality ready meals quite a helpful tool in regulating my weight (I’m at the top end of the normal BMI and verging onto overweight so keeping an eye) as my downfall is portion size.

ricestardust · 21/07/2024 23:00

Nothing wrong with ready meals. It will remove a barrier to eating.

Another non-cook meal is basically just cheese, bread and fruit (aka a ploughman's lunch). But I kinda think you should stick to the ready meals for now because the calorie content is printed on the label and you will know for sure you've eaten enough for a full dinner's worth, etc.

BW; I think you can do this. x

Kurokurosuke · 21/07/2024 23:11

HebburnPokemon · 21/07/2024 12:36

Ready meals aren't so bad

Based on what information??

BBQ?

Onlywayisupmaybe · 21/07/2024 23:13

ricestardust · 21/07/2024 23:00

Nothing wrong with ready meals. It will remove a barrier to eating.

Another non-cook meal is basically just cheese, bread and fruit (aka a ploughman's lunch). But I kinda think you should stick to the ready meals for now because the calorie content is printed on the label and you will know for sure you've eaten enough for a full dinner's worth, etc.

BW; I think you can do this. x

Thank you so much. I am really touched by all the kind responses on this thread. Mumsnet at its best.

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EachandEveryone · 21/07/2024 23:24

I’ve tried them all and tbh you can’t beat Iceland their posher version I think there fir £10 even the Indian nurses cabt believe they are ready meals when I have them at work their Chicken lakani is something else. Don’t be scared to try Iceland. I use Cook as well but only what’s on offer online in the shop it’s more expensive.

KnittedCardi · 21/07/2024 23:34

Cook is great. It's just as you would make at home and frozen. No added nasties.

mouseyowl · 21/07/2024 23:54

GardenGuardian · 21/07/2024 12:56

I also struggle to feed myself sensibly, though probably more accurate to say I struggle to plan, shop, cook and wash up, and my appetite also plays silly wotsits but sometimes I’m just a bit too down on myself.

The most important things are giving your body the fuel it needs, and treating yourself kindly along the way. I’ve managed to mostly get from the cheap ready meals to ‘treating’ myself to M&S or Cook meals, because actually I only get one body for this whole life and it deserves the extra couple of pounds a meal. (Still fighting the little internal voice on that one sometimes, it’s a work in progress). Do what works for you OP, take the pressure off.

I'm the same.
ND and struggling.
I'd love to eat 'properly' but it's just never at the top of my 'to-do-list' I'm constantly fire-fighting other stuff which comes my way and suffering from burnout/maybe long Covid.
I know what good/great food tastes like. I've eaten in lots of amazing places, Fat Duck (before it went too gimmicky) etc, I'm half-Italian and I know how to cook.
Just can't at the moment, and maybe forever.

I think ready meals are great in this situation, I prefer the curry ones, I also eat readymade salads and vegetable fresh soups are my fav. I used to knock out fresh soup in my sleep, just can't now, but some supermarket ones are really good, lentil ones are very filling if you are veggie.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 22/07/2024 07:13

I was also wondering about soup, OP? Some of the fresh chilled ones are good?

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FalderalderaldoSittingintheWater · 22/07/2024 07:15

Onlywayisupmaybe · 21/07/2024 12:09

My diet is pretty bad generally so I’m trying to change to have regular meals as a first step.

Am I deluding myself to think that ready meals from M&S healthy ranges (eat well and count on me) are quite healthy or do they count as UPF?

I don’t have the motivation to cook from scratch so any tips on easier options which are reasonably healthy would be appreciated.

Why can't you make your own food?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 22/07/2024 07:36

FalderalderaldoSittingintheWater · 22/07/2024 07:15

Why can't you make your own food?

You need to read all the OP's posts. You will then get your answer. This is not a simple situation.

Sethera · 22/07/2024 07:44

It sounds as though ready meals would be a good way to get you back into a routine of eating regularly. Don't try to do everything at once. You can look to improve the quality of your diet gradually once you are comfortable with eating regular meals.

JadedSoJaded · 22/07/2024 08:01

I have very debilitating fatigue at times. I discovered Cook earlier this year. Not cheap, but good quality and appetising. I just add loads of veg. I get a subscription 6 weekly. You can change the meals you order each time. Life saver for me when struggling otherwise I’d live off cereal & toast.
You’ve acknowledged that you must try to fuel your body, which is a huge step. Making this process as easy as possible will be a huge help. Wishing you the best.

MockneyReject · 22/07/2024 09:01

Hi, OP,
I'm a home carer, so very familiar with ready meals.
My first choice would always be Wiltshire Foods.
Their meals look and smell good, and are popular with 'service users'.
They deliver, the next day, and pack it away.
Their labelling is good.
Their customer demographic is elderly/people with medical issues, who rely heavily on those meals for their main nutrition, so the meals have to reflect that.
I've tried the mushroom soup, and it was very good.
Their meals contain generous amounts of vegetables.
They do mini meals, and cater for allergies.
I've only had good experience of their customer service.
I promise I don't work for them.
I'd also echo the suggestion of fresh soups and microwave steam bags of veg.

All the best, to you.

HelloMyNameIsElderSmurf · 22/07/2024 10:06

Soup is another great shout @BatshitCrazyWoman and @mouseyowl - a nice lentil soup (chilled section is better quality) is very nutritious OP and so easy to do. Just make sure to heat it in a pot on the stove rather than microwaving in the packet - that was a fun trip to the minor injuries unit!!

HebburnPokemon · 22/07/2024 10:43

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 21/07/2024 19:16

And this post is helpful to someone with an eating disorder how, exactly? OP needs to find ways to just eat something and not obsess about what's in it. Your post does the opposite.

To be fair, it's a public forum so lots of people could benefit from facts being shared. Mistruths, less so.

HebburnPokemon · 22/07/2024 10:47

Elphame · 21/07/2024 19:49

I can guarantee that you won't find "Lentil Protein Preparation" (Water, Rapeseed Oil, Coconut Oil, Lentil Protein, Sugar, Modified Potato Starch, Stabiliser: E461, Emulsifier: E435, Acidity Regulator: E331, Flavourings, Salt, Stabiliser: Xanthan Gum, Colour: Carotenes) classed as "normal ingredients" by most people.

What's wrong with using whole unprocessed lentils?

Taken from the M&S meal linked above

So gross. The human body wasn't designed to process this crap. I'm really surprised more people aren't up in arms about what food corporations are pumping into the nation's diet.

Sleepismyfavourite · 22/07/2024 10:48

But there’s already plenty of threads/ posts about UPF’s & how to cut down on them on mumsnet. In the context of this particular thread it’s not helpful.

HebburnPokemon · 22/07/2024 10:52

HelloMyNameIsElderSmurf · 21/07/2024 21:36

Oh you're well behind the curve mate, first it was cereal (shit in a box), then it was salt (salty shit in a box), now it's UPF (processed shit in boxes) that's going to kill us.

To be fair, all of that is UPF. The problem is UPF.

HandShoe · 22/07/2024 11:07

Onlywayisupmaybe · 21/07/2024 12:50

Thanks for the recommendations for Cook. They have a shop in my nearest town and do home deliveries too so I’ll definitely try them.

Sounds a good plan. I hope it is helpful for you.
Cook do a really good range of meals and also normally a weekly 20% off a meal (and it’s veggie equivalent) which can help you choose something if you’re really not in the mood for food. Also because they are freezer meals you won’t need to stress about ‘having’ to eat something you’ve bought by a particular day, but rather you can choose what feels manageable.
Wishing you the best

reallywhywouldyou · 22/07/2024 12:25

Sethera · 22/07/2024 07:44

It sounds as though ready meals would be a good way to get you back into a routine of eating regularly. Don't try to do everything at once. You can look to improve the quality of your diet gradually once you are comfortable with eating regular meals.

This
I would worry too much about using ready meals, it's more about getting to the habit of eating. Then when you're ready start with making simple things eg omelettes. Even when the time comes invest in a soup maker.
Baby steps...
Good luck op xx

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 22/07/2024 16:15

HebburnPokemon · 22/07/2024 10:52

To be fair, all of that is UPF. The problem is UPF.

Salt is not ultra-processed.

HelloMyNameIsElderSmurf · 22/07/2024 23:55

@HebburnPokemon you kindly took a wee step back from this thread when OP said she had an ED, I'm going to ask you to take another one pal because you are really not helping at all.

sagalooshoe · 23/07/2024 00:08

Aldi butter chicken is really nice.

It has a really long ingredient list but I can't see anything that wouldn't be in my kitchen cupboard. Loads of spices which I have a hunch are fantastic for your health.

. . . and its delicious

Chargrilled Chicken (40%) [Chicken Breast, Yogurt (𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐤), Rapeseed Oil, Paprika, Ginger Purée, Garlic Purée, Cornflour, Green Chilli Purée, Tandoori Masala Powder (Paprika, Salt, Ground Coriander, Turmeric, Cumin, Cinnamon, Ground Cloves, White Pepper, Chilli Powder, Ground Bay Leaf), Garam Masala (Ground Roasted Coriander, Ground Roasted Cumin, Black Pepper, Cinnamon, Roasted Cardamom, Mace, Ground Ginger, Fennel, Ground Cloves, Nutmeg, Ground Bay Leaf), Salt, Colour: Paprika Extract; Fenugreek Leaf Powder, Chilli Powder], Onion, Skimmed 𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐤, Tomato Paste, Whipping Cream (𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐤), Butter (𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐤), Rapeseed Oil, Honey, Garlic Purée, Ginger Purée, Ground 𝐂𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐰 𝐍𝐮𝐭, Coriander Sprig, Paprika, Coriander Leaf, Salt, Roasted 𝐀𝐥𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐝 Flakes, Cumin, Tandoori Masala Powder (Paprika, Salt, Ground Coriander, Turmeric, Cumin, Cinnamon, Ground Cloves, White Pepper, Chilli Powder, Ground Bay Leaf), Garam Masala (Ground Roasted Coriander, Ground Roasted Cumin, Black Pepper, Cinnamon, Roasted Cardamom, Mace, Ground Ginger, Fennel, Ground Cloves, Nutmeg, Ground Bay Leaf), Ground Coriander, Fenugreek Leaf Powder, Cardamom, Turmeric, Mace.

Snowflakeinsummer · 23/07/2024 00:10

Tesco cheapest frozen cottage pie has more meat content than the fresh. And not too bad ingredients.
I agree some of M&S meals are great. I like to have my fruit like strawberries and blueberries before my savoury at the moment. Feels more like a treat.

PippyLongTits · 23/07/2024 00:16

I think there is a place for them. I try to cook as much as I can from scratch, but if I've had a long day or feel poorly then I would much rather whack a ready meal in the microwave for 4 minutes than stand peeling, chopping, and cooking for 40 (and then means I don't have loads of washing up to sort out after too!)